I can't speak for Steelers fans, but as a Pats fan, let me defend my brethren a little.
These are our glory years. After nearly 50 years of irrelevance, the Pats are finally really, really good. In twenty years I'll be telling my kids stories about the snow bowl game and how I hit my head on my ceiling jumping after the field goal, the transformation of Tom Brady, the rise (and fall) of Randy Moss, the brilliance of Belichick, and how Gronk
threw two men off his back and ran another 30 yards before finally being taken out. Most of us around New England know exactly what they have.
The thing is, the window is closing. In 10 years, Brady will be running for congress and Belichick will be writing books on football strategy (I hope anyway). Beyond them is a great abyss. The best we can hope for is like what we saw in the 90s: moments of brilliance with a lot of mediocre years and some really awful ones. There are only a few years left of the magic, and we're afraid of every moment that might be lost. We're like a dictator who knows the gig will be up soon, and is doing everything they can to hold onto power.
That's why we act like we do. For our "golden era" team, the playoffs are expected (one look at the team, warts and all, would have told you they were playoff bound at the beginning of the year), but what scares us is wasting another opportunity to add to the legacy. We get jealous of other good teams (like the Steelers, Saints and Packers) because they are the forces that will eventually dethrone us. After all, we spent 47 years in obscurity as the "Patsies". What we get in this era may be all we get for another 47.
I don't mean to sound like I don't appreciate this team. I love this team. They're fantastic. Watching Gronk this year has been a revelation, and I had fun no matter the playoff outcome. There is a part of me that will still be sad, though, if the Pats don't get title here, and will see it as another step towards the end of the era.
Cliffs:
- This is the best it'll ever be for the team (in a good way)
- We love watching them, but have now become afraid of losing them
- This makes us aggressive and paranoid.
- To fans on the outside, us panicking about a team going downward in 5 years seems silly.