I am really glad to see discussions about our victory, and I agree that given what we currently have, we cannot defeat russia on our own at this moment.
But then again, why are we talking like this now? Had we received everything we requested in 2022, I believe the war would have been over by 2023. Don't get me wrong—we are absolutely grateful for any help, but we were given just enough aid so that we neither gained a decisive advantage on the front nor suffered defeat. And now, as a result, we have given russia more than enough time to adapt.
What does it matter that different decisions then could have changed the outcome? We can't go back and change them, you have to deal with the situation at hand today. It may not be what you want to hear but it's the cold truth. And it doesn't matter what I, or anyone else here thinks for the most part anyway.
To answer it quickly though, I do think you'd be in a better off position today. I don't think there was any chance of you outright winning the war. Best case is you'd be in another cease fire with smaller amounts of territory lost including all of Crimea still IMHO. There's also the reality that you couldn't have been equipped with every piece of equipment you wanted because it does take time to train on them. You had the same manpower limitations as you still do for the most part. The previous administration was also very worried about Russia using nukes if we supplied you with more equipment, especially the longer range weapons. I personally thought they were being a little too cautious in that regard but I wasn't seeing intel they were. Hindsight is 20/20 and they could have obviously sent more because they didn't use them, but how much is still a question.
If you want to complain you should probably ask, "why Obama and Europe didn't do more in 2014?". Why wasn't more done in the run up to 2022? Why even after the war started has Europe been so slow with sanctions against Russia? Why are they still paying Russia billions for gas? They're right next door and we're half a world away. It's generally easier to prevent a war than to fight or finish one.
To answer why is this happening now you should have to understand at some level there has been censorship of the war. That an overly optimistic viewpoint has been put out when the reality has been more grim. While not hopeless I think too much of the sentiment that if we hold out long enough we can prevail. On the doorstep of Russia that's unfortunately a very long time. With Trump as president he ultimately is going to be making the decision to continue supporting you or not. There's popular support to end the war here on both sides of the aisle. This forum doesn't represent the average sentiment here. That support is simple minded and comes from the idea that the war has drug on too long and people on both sides are dying. Most don't understand the reality of how a cease fire and possible end to the war would look like. From the idea that with our budget the way it is that they don't want to spend more money on it. They don't understand that while it's a disaster (our budget and deficit), this war is not a significant cause of it. They don't understand that Putin is unlikely to stop until he has control of the parts of Ukraine that have been annexed into Russia. They don't understand that Russia has broken every cease fire in Ukraine since 2014. But they don't want us drug into war and they don't want US troops on Ukrainian soil. Those things just aren't going to happen in the next 4 years.
Ultimately I think Europe doing something is your best bet. The problem is they've been all words and not much action since the war started. And in places like Germany it's going to be a very hard sell. If they can convince Putin they're serious about supporting Ukraine and then actually start to do it it has a chance IMHO. Ironically I think the spat between Trump and Zelenskyy has probably helped in this regard showing that Ukraine might just fight on without anyone supporting you. If they can make a real offer of troops on the ground in a cease fire and Putin refuses that you might actually see more stick there. The question there is also what lines are used for the cease fire and what happens assuming it holds and there is an eventual end to the war.
I doubt much of that is what you want to hear but It's my opinion. I do think that Zelenskyy is still likely to sign the minerals deal and I do think that US aid will resume until a cease fire is in place assuming that happens.