reitz, you are a kind person, and normally I would endorse what you say in this regard, but this is scarcely a normal circumstance. Even in cyberspace there are long-term consequences to one's behaviour. Just changing handles and declaring one's self to be a whole new persona doesn't jettison the baggage, nor should it. Saddam Hussein can come waltzing in saying that all is forgiven since he is now Mary Ann from Gilligan's Island, but there are issues that cannot be dealt with by running away, and it is best that Now/Her/Man should learn this. Forgiveness involves repentance, not just denial.