Do you really understand what you're saying? The classical definition of handout-style welfare is now smaller than corporate welfare. Social Security is money that people pay into the system anyway (that corrupt politicians from both parties never should have touched). Medicare/Medicaid spending goes up with health care costs, but that's not really anything new. With the welfare-to-work programs and so on, there is actually a lower per-capita welfare rate now than in the last year of Reagan's term.
This concept that there are a bunch of poor people voting themselves free money is absurd.
It goes like this :
Social Security/Medicaid/Medicare = giant spending, the budget could still be balanced without touching these however, and I'm extremely uneasy about fucking with SS because after all, seniors with no other income that retire, that paid into the damn thing all their life, well I feel they should get what they paid for. Medicaid/Medicare could use some restructuring, but are otherwise okay.
Corporate welfare. This is a massive expense. Why?
Military welfare, school grants, pensions, care for wounded vets, etc. Why would anyone crap on these people? Even so, this spending is massive, and dwarfs the comparitive costs of things like food stamps, per person who is using these resources. I still think this is $ well spent though.
Aha, Food stamps. Much like the EITC, this is a great target for morons to yell about, but people need to remember two things that apply to both : (1)- The programs are not very expensive at all in the big picture, and (2)- The money put into these programs cycles right back through the economy quickly, helping stores, businesses, and especially the people that need the help. Ideally one wouldn't want to subsist on such programs, but they're not the giant boogeymen some 'tards like to spout nonsense about.
We continue to outspend the rest of our allies (and potential enemies) combined on defense year after year. While I think we should maintain a strong military, I do think we have vastly excessive foreign bases. And that brings me to a huge reason our debt is so fucked :
Two unfunded wars. How many trillions total was this cost? To make matters worse, this is not spending that has a dramatic impact on domestic economic health. For one, they pay soliders little more than a dick in the ass, and second, the bulk of the money is spent building up and helping countries that are chock full of people that just want to get rid of us. Any US profits are concentrated around corporate entities that don't employ that many people here anyway. It's just a terrible value any way you look at it. I think maintain a strong navy, strong USAF, cutting edge satellite, nuclear, and drone technology, and let 9/10th of our bases around the world go. We spend hundreds of billions of dollars building and maintaining bases in completely irrelevant locations.
And this brings me to :
Foreign 'aid'. Yeah, fat lot of good that does. That's just hardcore corruption-bait if I've ever seen it. Lets give money to Pakistan, despite them being chock full of the most die-hard Jihadists around, including those in the intelligence and military that both shielded Bin Laden AND arrested and most likely tortured the Pakistani that helped us confirm his location. $ to Egypt? Nuff said. They can take care of themselves.
This is a long way around, but again, most of the welfare/gov't assistance people in the country are NOT who you think they are. The real reason that the Republicans lost in '12, despite Obama being pretty weak on most issues, is that their message, and their ideas, have been too perverted by extremists like the Koch brothers. Gone is the intellectual authority of men like William F. Buckley, and replaced with flat bullshit propaganda that includes the very talking points that are now being regurgitated on talk radio and now here.