Originally posted by: jemcam
Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
Originally posted by: jemcam
Okay Yllus, after reading your profile and visiting your website, I've decided that what you need is a mentor, someone older that you respect and want to emulate. Spend lots of time with him/her, be honest and open just like you have with us, and do what he tells you. It seems unnatural at first, but if he's a good mentor, he'll explain why.
For instance, holding back on voicing your opinions and being too brash.
I was very much like you, but luckily someone above me saw my potential and turned me into more of a corporate person, which opened lots of doors and made me much more marketable inside and outside of the company.
I'm not cutting you down at all, I think you would be a good employee, but you will or can be great with a little more wisdom under your belt.
The dick joke is a perfect example of what I'm talking about.
You're gonna write me off as bering an arrogant ass for saying this but I hope I don't become a "corporate person" and a "good employee" regardless of having a mentor or not. "corporate employees" work for, well, large corporations where they spend their days going through administrative work and justifying why they spent 12 cents on a BIC pen.
I can't speak for sully, but I'd have my own (or work in a) start-up even if it means working 70 hours a week on something that I am truly passionate about, rather than working a 9-5 job in some ungrateful corporation. Being a good employee will get you a stable, uneventful job; maybe I'll want that when I settle down working in this kind of company isn't what I'm looking for coming right out of university.
Just my thoughts on it. Take it for what it's worth.
I worked for several years at many small businesses, starting with my Dad's auto repair shop prior to working for a big corporation. The thing that brought me to a big company was job security and a steady salary.
I agree with you though, working for a large corporation isn't for most people right out of college. The different experiences are what makes you marketable and gives you character. When I had enough character building, I went Corporate and worked less, came home at 4:00 every day, get lots of vacation, tons of bennies, and a very tall ladder to get on and start working my way up.
Hey, it's not for everyone, but it works well for me.
EDIT: For the record, I sure as hell didn't want to be doing what I am now when I was 22 either. Priorities change, you get jaded, you'll find out soon enough.