I understand that a private school child is most likely pushed harder academically, but there are FAR more drawbacks than you may realize. [*]There is very little social understanding to be had in a private school. It leaves a child sheltered, and allows for trouble when they are off to college or out in the real world. Perfect example, the mormon girl from Real World. [*]I, myself, go to a public school. I met a girl the other day that went to a highly esteemed private school. She is a real party girl, and gets drunk every single weekend. Monday is regularly "Drunken weekend storytime." She tells me "Thats what everyone does at Xavier!" What does this tell you?
Also, i would like to point out that an education is fueled by what is put into it. The more the student puts INTO school, the more they get out. Someone frusterated with private school and with a sour taste to learning will not perform half as well as a public school student that applies themselves.
Not to say that public school students do not have a problem with the party aspect. It is completely true that public school students party, as all teens do, but you would be QUITE surprised on how the percentages fall. I would say about 15% of public school people participate in harmful, (this includes drinking and any other drug, violence, and general "misbehaving."

activities on a weekly basis. She told me she would estimate the number at her school to be near 60%. Add this to the fact that every private school girl i have "met" are astonishingly more "misbehaved" than almost any public school girl (sans a few, of course

) and it doesnt look pretty.
Parenting makes the child. You teach your child not to participate in harmful activities, and they will withstand it to a certain degree. You do not teach this, or do it as a hipocrite (dont ever smoke weed, son. <sparks up a blunt>) and you will have a rough child to work with.
It is simple psycology. The more a child is supressed, the more they outlash when they are able to. The kid is like a spring, you take your hand off them, and they eject. Don't think those extra dollars you are spending truly help your child, TRP, as they truly are hurting them. Ignore me if you wish, but i speak the truth, brother.