Porn sucks.

[isaacmacdonald]

Originally posted by: SagaLore

Originally posted by: Skyclad1uhm1
Edit: Some women enjoy making porn movies, and enjoy men getting off on them. Let's not go against their wishes.

LOL, you are so delusional. :beer:

probably.

on the other hand the veteran pr0n guys (who certainly don't have the easiest jobs in the first place) get paid substantially less than most second time heroines (or whatever you call the women)... so it's not like there's some huge inequity here-

 

[Rainsford]

I have got to say that the most negative effect of western religion is that there is something sacred about sex. Sex is a wonderful thing, and there is nothing wrong or immoral about casual sex, porn, or anything at all along those lines. The only real problem is the threat of STDs or becoming a parent before you are ready, and that's only a potential problem if you aren't smart about it. Personally I feel that the world would be better off if people were better informed about sex and ways it can be safe and were less surrounded by propaganda telling them that it is special and sacred and unless you have standard sex with the opposite sex, in your bedroom, by youselves, with the lights off, there is something wrong with you.

But that's just my opinion, and I've noticed that most people don't seem to share that opinion. I personally think it's silly to get so worked up over what is just another biological function (even if it can be a whole lot of fun 😀)

The first post by Redhotjrm begs the question, why did he post this? So he has a girlfriend and doesn't feel the need to look at porn any more. So what? Many people don't have significant others and look at porn. Some have significant others who enjoy watching porn with them. Some don't feel the need for any type of sex at all. Great, whatever floats your boat. But you are sadly mistaken if you think that just because something works for you it will work for everyone else. You come off like a Christian misionary to Africa or something.

 

[Bigdude]

Whatever

 

[ILikeStuff]

I agree with your view of Porn, but as a fellow Christian, I'm calling you out as a hypocrite for making such a public voice of your moral views and Christian stance and then openly admitting to fornicating with your fiancee. STOP POSTING you are making the rest of us look bad and dishonoring God. Remove the plank from your own eye before trying to remove the speck from your brother's.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

No offense, but I have a doctorate, and still have no idea what "open buckle bunnies" means.

I saw someone type in a thread about masturbation. I don't have a doctorate and I put two and two together.... think of your buckle. Think of it bouncing up and down like a bunny. Probably a side effect of masturbation.

Okay, I can't help but feel this thread has been hijacked, and that the focus has inappropriately strayed from what I feel is the real heart of this conversation, the "open buckle bunnies."

From what I can infer, the idea is that the open buckle is bouncing up and down like a fuzzy bunny due to the wearer's enthusiastically polishing the porpoise.

I would speculate that, as has been my experience, in most instances, men whose belt buckles are open have their pants removed or at least at their ankles, thus alleviating the "open buckle bunnies" syndrome you describe.

Hypothetically, in a pinch one might smash the bishop with one's pants on but unzipped, which would tend to give rise (so to speak) to a nasty case of the "closed buckle bunnies," but surely not your "open buckle bunnies."

All of this leads me to speculate that your technique leaves room for improvement, and that you have blithely and prematurely decided to give up on waxing the admiral without giving it a fair shake (so to speak). Please, and I am speaking man to man, don't just give up so hastily! With some slight adjustments, you could be happily and pleasurably choking the chicken as a useful and healthy adjunct to your relationship.

Rgds.,

Don "open buckle, bunny-free" Vito

 

[spidey]

Originally posted by: Don_Vito


Okay, I can't help but feel this thread has been hijacked, and that the focus has inappropriately strayed from what I feel is the real heart of this conversation, the "open buckle bunnies."

From what I can infer, the idea is that the open buckle is bouncing up and down like a fuzzy bunny due to the wearer's enthusiastically polishing the porpoise.

I would speculate that, as has been my experience, in most instances, men whose belt buckles are open have their pants removed or at least at their ankles, thus alleviating the "open buckle bunnies" syndrome you describe.

Hypothetically, in a pinch one might smash the bishop with one's pants on but unzipped, which would tend to give rise (so to speak) to a nasty case of the "closed buckle bunnies," but surely not your "open buckle bunnies."

All of this leads me to speculate that your technique leaves room for improvement, and that you have blithely and prematurely decided to give up on waxing the admiral without giving it a fair shake (so to speak). Please, and I am speaking man to man, don't just give up so hastily! With some slight adjustments, you could be happily and pleasurably choking the chicken as a useful and healthy adjunct to your relationship.

Rgds.,

Don "open buckle, bunny-free" Vito

Nice. :beer:

 

[imported_Papi]

this thread was fun earlier today, now its just boring. Let it die.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

No offense, but I have a doctorate, and still have no idea what "open buckle bunnies" means.

I saw someone type in a thread about masturbation. I don't have a doctorate and I put two and two together.... think of your buckle. Think of it bouncing up and down like a bunny. Probably a side effect of masturbation.

Okay, I can't help but feel this thread has been hijacked, and that the focus has inappropriately strayed from what I feel is the real heart of this conversation, the "open buckle bunnies."

From what I can infer, the idea is that the open buckle is bouncing up and down like a fuzzy bunny due to the wearer's enthusiastically polishing the porpoise.

I would speculate that, as has been my experience, in most instances, men whose belt buckles are open have their pants removed or at least at their ankles, thus alleviating the "open buckle bunnies" syndrome you describe.

Hypothetically, in a pinch one might smash the bishop with one's pants on but unzipped, which would tend to give rise (so to speak) to a nasty case of the "closed buckle bunnies," but surely not your "open buckle bunnies."

All of this leads me to speculate that your technique leaves room for improvement, and that you have blithely and prematurely decided to give up on waxing the admiral without giving it a fair shake (so to speak). Please, and I am speaking man to man, don't just give up so hastily! With some slight adjustments, you could be happily and pleasurably choking the chicken as a useful and healthy adjunct to your relationship.

Rgds.,

Don "open buckle, bunny-free" Vito

HAHA I have never seen you go off on a tangent like that.

 

[luv2chill]

Wow this was a really interesting thread... not really in terms of enlightening content, but as a study in human behavior. I think it did flesh out (bad pun 😉) some interesting ideas about sex in our society.

To be honest with you, I'm not really that turned-on by porn either... even though it isn't as explicit I tend to use my imagination--I dunno it just feels more authentic that way. But most guys are much more driven by concrete representations of things rather than using their minds for fantasy.

You know what though, I do agree that as a society we are altogether way too obsessed with sex. Though I think that's merely a symptom of a much deeper rift in our culture (another thread). I think that in general, sex is the only place a lot of people have left to turn for happiness and fulfillment. We lead such stressful, busy lives fraught with constant worry and conflict, that in a way, sex becomes a "refuge" for many people. Whether that is its proper role in human life is not up to me to decide... but I do know that offspring is the essential purpose behind the sexual process, and our numerous offspring are quickly overwhelming this planet. It may not seem to be such an immediate concern--certainly not within any of our lifetimes, but something will need to be done. Humans don't have anyone above them in the food chain. We don't have anyone to help keep our population in check--so it will ultimately be up to us (or some natural disaster) to do it.

I think sex is a wonderful thing when put in its proper perspective. It is just one part of life, and is driven by an instinct present in every species on this planet--the need to procreate. Satisfying sexual urges (through whatever means as long as they're not physically or psychologically harmful) is as natural as geese flying south for the winter or squirrels hoarding acorns. Healthy people don't repress their instincts.

But even more healthy than wanking to porn/imagination/whatever, is taking the time to take a look at alternate viewpoints, no matter how foreign or wrong they may seem to you at first--and that goes for both sides of this argument. As human beings we possess the unique ability to examine why we do the things we do.

And I think it's excellent that you provided another opinion, because many people on this board probably hadn't ever given any thought to the possibility that some people live their lives perfectly well without looking at porn. At the same time, I think your tone and word choices communicated a condescending attitude, as if you know better than the rest of us. That may not have been your intention, but such is the way of a textual medium... you have to choose your words carefully.

There's nothing humans are more fascinated by than taboos--it's just a fact of life. Tell someone they can't or shouldn't do something and you've just essentially just told them that they can and should. Our culture is sexually repressive to the extreme. We grow up seeing sex as something "naughty" and "dirty" and "deviant". Is it any wonder that people have turned those things into fetishes? It becomes exciting and sexually gratifying to do such "dirty, naughty, kinky (to use your word) things". Animals see sex as just a very ordinary thing... promoted by biological sexual urges, they get off, and that's that. Leave it to humans to turn it into something "heavenly" and "God-given", and yet at the same time "filthy" and "bad". It's an interesting paradox.

Anyway, lots of food for thought when it comes to sexuality. But the bottom line is that telling someone to supress their sexuality is like telling someone to stop eating. Sexual urges are a healthy, completely biological process that ensures the perpetuity of the species. Looking at porn has certainly become a more acceptable way of satisfying sexual urges in post-modern society, but judging from some of the responses in this thread it seems there is also a lot of reverse pressure-- that someone who chooses not to look at porn must himself be weird, deviant, etc. We've got to be careful about that kind of mentality. Men are not all clones of each other. There are certain commonalities but lots of differences. And face it, none of us would die for lack of porn.

So if your point is that western culture is too preoccupied with sex, I agree with you. But if you're saying that porn is a cause of that (as opposed to a symptom) then I respectfully disagree. The roots go much deeper than porn, or even sex altogether... but like I said that is another subject for another time.

l2c

 

[Stark]

Originally posted by: ILikeStuff
I agree with your view of Porn, but as a fellow Christian, I'm calling you out as a hypocrite for making such a public voice of your moral views and Christian stance and then openly admitting to fornicating with your fiancee. STOP POSTING you are making the rest of us look bad and dishonoring God. Remove the plank from your own eye before trying to remove the speck from your brother's.

I agree with both the first post in this thread and this one as well.

Lust is lust, whether it's with an image or someone who's not (yet) your wife. Remember that whole part about gouging out your eye and cutting off your hand?

 

[luv2chill]

Originally posted by: Stark

Originally posted by: ILikeStuff
I agree with your view of Porn, but as a fellow Christian, I'm calling you out as a hypocrite for making such a public voice of your moral views and Christian stance and then openly admitting to fornicating with your fiancee. STOP POSTING you are making the rest of us look bad and dishonoring God. Remove the plank from your own eye before trying to remove the speck from your brother's.

I agree with both the first post in this thread and this one as well.

Lust is lust, whether it's with an image or someone who's not (yet) your wife. Remember that whole part about gouging out your eye and cutting off your hand?

I believe the original poster intended that this not turn into a Christianity or religion thread. He only mentioned he was Christian when called on it and specified that he didn't think that needed to come up. Your comments might have been better communicated in PM if you are that concerned about the man's spiritual well-being.

l2c

 

[RecklaZ]

I didnt bother reading after the first page, but everyone is giving their opinions on what he said and i'll say mine

I respect Redhotjrm and his views 🙂

And for the nerds here who can't get any decent real p*ssy and just masterbate to porn........ have fun 🙂

 

[Lager]

Is Jenna Jameson the most famous porn star? She is the only pornstar that I know of.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

No offense, but I have a doctorate, and still have no idea what "open buckle bunnies" means.

I saw someone type in a thread about masturbation. I don't have a doctorate and I put two and two together.... think of your buckle. Think of it bouncing up and down like a bunny. Probably a side effect of masturbation.

Okay, I can't help but feel this thread has been hijacked, and that the focus has inappropriately strayed from what I feel is the real heart of this conversation, the "open buckle bunnies."

From what I can infer, the idea is that the open buckle is bouncing up and down like a fuzzy bunny due to the wearer's enthusiastically polishing the porpoise.

I would speculate that, as has been my experience, in most instances, men whose belt buckles are open have their pants removed or at least at their ankles, thus alleviating the "open buckle bunnies" syndrome you describe.

Hypothetically, in a pinch one might smash the bishop with one's pants on but unzipped, which would tend to give rise (so to speak) to a nasty case of the "closed buckle bunnies," but surely not your "open buckle bunnies."

All of this leads me to speculate that your technique leaves room for improvement, and that you have blithely and prematurely decided to give up on waxing the admiral without giving it a fair shake (so to speak). Please, and I am speaking man to man, don't just give up so hastily! With some slight adjustments, you could be happily and pleasurably choking the chicken as a useful and healthy adjunct to your relationship.

Rgds.,

Don "open buckle, bunny-free" Vito

HAHA I have never seen you go off on a tangent like that.

Nothing inspires me like a slow Friday afternoon!

 

[alocurto]

Porn is good. Sex is good. I like them both. BTW what the f are u thinking being engaged at 20? IMOO that is nuts. But hey, if u like it go for it. Good luck!

 

[alocurto]

Originally posted by: waylman
you're such a spineless hypocrite. You say you watched porn for years now b/c you are engaged, you stopped. Why don't you just admit you're a pussy whipped bitch?

haha, love it.

 

[alocurto]

Redhotjrm is your girlfriend satisfied in bed? Did you two lose your virginity together and never fooled around with anyone else? If you watch porn you can learn some fun tricks to try. What do you think about karma sutra? Do you think that it is icky? Do you guys have sex blind folded?

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish
I'm glad I don't have your life or morals.

amish

Same here. My fiance and I both enjoy porn. Good times. :beer:🙂:beer:

 

[Stark]

Originally posted by: luv2chill

Originally posted by: Stark

Originally posted by: ILikeStuff
I agree with your view of Porn, but as a fellow Christian, I'm calling you out as a hypocrite for making such a public voice of your moral views and Christian stance and then openly admitting to fornicating with your fiancee. STOP POSTING you are making the rest of us look bad and dishonoring God. Remove the plank from your own eye before trying to remove the speck from your brother's.

I agree with both the first post in this thread and this one as well.

Lust is lust, whether it's with an image or someone who's not (yet) your wife. Remember that whole part about gouging out your eye and cutting off your hand?

I believe the original poster intended that this not turn into a Christianity or religion thread. He only mentioned he was Christian when called on it and specified that he didn't think that needed to come up. Your comments might have been better communicated in PM if you are that concerned about the man's spiritual well-being.

l2c

And he would have been just fine if he had left it out of the mix.
As soon as it turned into "I believe this because of my faith, but I'm still having sex with my GF"(ie, blantant religious hypocrisy) he got called out for it. I replied publicly because I said I agreed with him before reading the whole story.

Religious perspective: Porn is sin. Sex before marriage is sin. Saying you don't do one sin because your happy in another sin is pretty foolish.

 

[Red]

Originally posted by: alocurto
Redhotjrm is your girlfriend satisfied in bed? Did you two lose your virginity together and never fooled around with anyone else? If you watch porn you can learn some fun tricks to try. What do you think about karma sutra? Do you think that it is icky? Do you guys have sex blind folded?

As I mentioned before, I looked at porn for years, and obviously... I've seen a couple different things. We've both been with other people (not many!) but we are not focused on sex... rather focused on building a bond for the rest of our lives.

 

[Feldenak]

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Legendary
?All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.? (Edmund Burke)

I believe this highly, and while it doesn't apply directly to this post (someone not liking porn is not evil in any sense, it's something they have a right to believe) I think anyone who has the standpoint that "If you don't agree, don't say/do anything" is against social progress, indirectly at the very least.

I agree with you as well. Many ATOTs often say (ie, read many posts in this thread) ... let me do whatever the hell I want, worry about yourself, yada yada. This post, just like any post in ATOT, is not to push my values on anyone else, you all are going to do whatever you want anyway. I just made an off topic post about why I think pornography is unhealthy for a relationship. I'm glad people entertained my thread and stirred some ideas. But with any ATOT, people are going to throw in irrelevant crap ("you're a pussy" "you're holier than thou" "you're yada") because either (1) they are trying to get other ATOTs to agree and/or generate some type of humor or (2) trolling/assing out threads.

So once again, I feel that in my relationship, porn is not conducive to a happiner or better relationship. If porn makes your relationship better, I respectfully disagree with your decision to watch it, but so be it.

Well, other than calling our SO "nasty" because of porn in relationships you mean?

 

[alocurto]

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: alocurto
Redhotjrm is your girlfriend satisfied in bed? Did you two lose your virginity together and never fooled around with anyone else? If you watch porn you can learn some fun tricks to try. What do you think about karma sutra? Do you think that it is icky? Do you guys have sex blind folded?

As I mentioned before, I looked at porn for years, and obviously... I've seen a couple different things. We've both been with other people (not many!) but we are not focused on sex... rather focused on building a bond for the rest of our lives.

I am 22 right now and I can't even imagine considering marraige. That is way too much for me. I am focused on having fun with my friends, hangin out with my "girlfriend" and workin my ass off. Good luck!

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Don_Vito

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: Encryptic

Originally posted by: Redhotjrm

Originally posted by: notfred
Why do you give a crap what other people do in thier own bedrooms? If you don't want to, fine. If they want to, how is it any skin off your back?

I don't want to have a daughter one day that is raised by the 18-25 yr old males in here that are raised with open buckle bunnies.

Could your post make any less sense? I think wduaqnug is posting under a new name....

Everyone else understands my post, you must have an isolated comprehension problem.

Anyway, you guys are allowed to say porn rules, and have your own reasons. And I can say the opposite!

No offense, but I have a doctorate, and still have no idea what "open buckle bunnies" means.

I saw someone type in a thread about masturbation. I don't have a doctorate and I put two and two together.... think of your buckle. Think of it bouncing up and down like a bunny. Probably a side effect of masturbation.

wtf are you on about?

I've never heard that phrase and its not exactly common English.

 

[Corsairpro]

Originally posted by: Toasthead
Frequent masterbation helps prevent prostate cancer. Porn is therapeutic.

😛

 

[Guild]

PLEASE, GET MARRIED!!! HOW COULD YOU HAVE POSSIBLY HAD SEX AND NOT BEEN MARRIED?!?!?!?!? -=*gasp*=-

WHAT LOW MORALS YOU MUST HAVE.

AND SHAME, SHAME, SHAME ON YOU!!!!

😛