I realize this is a computer forum with many single men and others who have had easy access to internet porn for years (such as myself), but there must be some of you out there who find it disgusting, even more so with a significant other.
I am a 20 year old male, and I have been online (first BBS, then internet) for years. I looked at porn from about age 13 to about 18... all the time. I have been engaged with my fiancee for a little over a year now, we've been together since I was 18, and I think it's horrible to look at porn when you're in a relationship. (Well, maybe MY relationship.)
First of all, if the relationship is not sexually satisfying enough with just you and your partner... then either you're not meant to be, or you're placing too much emphasis on sex in the relationship, or you've got an obessive personality with porn, etc....
Moreover, it objectifies sex, which we feel is very sacred and personal to us.... it is also degrading to women/men. Even though I'm sure if you asked a porn star if they feel degraded, they'd so no because they don't have many morals to feel degraded with.
And on a personal note, I wouldn't want to be with my fiancee if she didn't feel the same way. I wouldn't date a girl who (1) thought sex was just sex and doesn't care about watching other people do it and two (2) a girl who doesn't have the berries to tell me she doesn't feel comfortable with it or doesn't want me to watch it anyway.
As previously referenced, I understand many of you are age 16-25 males with no soulmate yet, so rubbing one off everynight probably doesn't seem like a big deal, but I hope you can understand my point and decide not to continue your habit once you're with the person you LOVE.
I am a 20 year old male, and I have been online (first BBS, then internet) for years. I looked at porn from about age 13 to about 18... all the time. I have been engaged with my fiancee for a little over a year now, we've been together since I was 18, and I think it's horrible to look at porn when you're in a relationship. (Well, maybe MY relationship.)
First of all, if the relationship is not sexually satisfying enough with just you and your partner... then either you're not meant to be, or you're placing too much emphasis on sex in the relationship, or you've got an obessive personality with porn, etc....
Moreover, it objectifies sex, which we feel is very sacred and personal to us.... it is also degrading to women/men. Even though I'm sure if you asked a porn star if they feel degraded, they'd so no because they don't have many morals to feel degraded with.
And on a personal note, I wouldn't want to be with my fiancee if she didn't feel the same way. I wouldn't date a girl who (1) thought sex was just sex and doesn't care about watching other people do it and two (2) a girl who doesn't have the berries to tell me she doesn't feel comfortable with it or doesn't want me to watch it anyway.
As previously referenced, I understand many of you are age 16-25 males with no soulmate yet, so rubbing one off everynight probably doesn't seem like a big deal, but I hope you can understand my point and decide not to continue your habit once you're with the person you LOVE.
