Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
I realize this is a computer forum with many single men and others who have had easy access to internet porn for years (such as myself), but there must be some of you out there who find it disgusting, even more so with a significant other.
I am a 20 year old male, and I have been online (first BBS, then internet) for years. I looked at porn from about age 13 to about 18... all the time. I have been engaged with my fiancee for a little over a year now, we've been together since I was 18, and I think it's horrible to look at porn when you're in a relationship. (Well, maybe MY relationship.)
First of all, if the relationship is not sexually satisfying enough with just you and your partner... then either you're not meant to be, or you're placing too much emphasis on sex in the relationship, or you've got an obessive personality with porn, etc....
Moreover, it objectifies sex, which we feel is very sacred and personal to us.... it is also degrading to women/men. Even though I'm sure if you asked a porn star if they feel degraded, they'd so no because they don't have many morals to feel degraded with.
And on a personal note, I wouldn't want to be with my fiancee if she didn't feel the same way. I wouldn't date a girl who (1) thought sex was just sex and doesn't care about watching other people do it and two (2) a girl who doesn't have the berries to tell me she doesn't feel comfortable with it or doesn't want me to watch it anyway.
As previously referenced, I understand many of you are age 16-25 males with no soulmate yet, so rubbing one off everynight probably doesn't seem like a big deal, but I hope you can understand my point and decide not to continue your habit once you're with the person you LOVE.
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: fivespeed5
Wow you post has moved me to delete all my porn from my computer... oh no there goes my stamp collection!
LOL! Was it your 90 gig "stamp collection"? 😀
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Originally posted by: notfred
Why do you give a crap what other people do in thier own bedrooms? If you don't want to, fine. If they want to, how is it any skin off your back?
I don't want to have a daughter one day that is raised by the 18-25 yr old males in here that are raised with open buckle bunnies.
Could your post make any less sense? I think wduaqnug is posting under a new name....
Originally posted by: waylman
Why don't you just admit you're a pussy whipped bitch?
Okay, you got that right. Integrity was the wrong word. I commend him for his guts.Originally posted by: LordThing
Originally posted by: SaltBoy
Wow... that took a lot of guts to post. I commend you for your integrity. 🙂
It doesn't take integrity to get up on a soapbox and preach to others about how you think everyone else should live their life. Integrity is when you stand up for what you believe in while others are telling how you should believe or act. If anything, it takes integrity to tell him to shove it up his @ss.
Sorry, an open forum for nerds IS a porn convention. Sure, it's not allowed on AT, but I bet 99% of the members look at it.As for the guts statement, it would take guts to say that in the middle of a porn convention, not post about it on an open forum for nerds. Especially when the opinion wasn't even asked for.
Porn sucks.
Originally posted by: SaltBoy
Okay, you got that right. Integrity was the wrong word. I commend him for his guts.Originally posted by: LordThing
Originally posted by: SaltBoy
Wow... that took a lot of guts to post. I commend you for your integrity. 🙂
It doesn't take integrity to get up on a soapbox and preach to others about how you think everyone else should live their life. Integrity is when you stand up for what you believe in while others are telling how you should believe or act. If anything, it takes integrity to tell him to shove it up his @ss.
Sorry, an open forum for nerds IS a porn convention. Sure, it's not allowed on AT, but I bet 99% of the members look at it.As for the guts statement, it would take guts to say that in the middle of a porn convention, not post about it on an open forum for nerds. Especially when the opinion wasn't even asked for.
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
I'm glad I don't have your life or morals.
amish
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Originally posted by: notfred
Why do you give a crap what other people do in thier own bedrooms? If you don't want to, fine. If they want to, how is it any skin off your back?
I don't want to have a daughter one day that is raised by the 18-25 yr old males in here that are raised with open buckle bunnies.
Could your post make any less sense? I think wduaqnug is posting under a new name....
Everyone else understands my post, you must have an isolated comprehension problem.
Anyway, you guys are allowed to say porn rules, and have your own reasons. And I can say the opposite!
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
I'm glad I don't have your life or morals.
amish
Originally posted by: tagej
Wow, I don't think I've seen anyone more p*ssywhipped than Redhotrjm in a looooong time 😉 Next thing you know, you'll be saying things like "why do guys watch such stupid things as sports where men are running into each other when there's a perfectly good theatre performance on the Bravo channel" Yipes!
<someone call the intervention team, stat!>
Originally posted by: waylman
you're such a spineless hypocrite. You say you watched porn for years now b/c you are engaged, you stopped. Why don't you just admit you're a pussy whipped bitch?
Originally posted by: LordThing
Originally posted by: tagej
Wow, I don't think I've seen anyone more p*ssywhipped than Redhotrjm in a looooong time 😉 Next thing you know, you'll be saying things like "why do guys watch such stupid things as sports where men are running into each other when there's a perfectly good theatre performance on the Bravo channel" Yipes!
<someone call the intervention team, stat!>
I need Beer, Strippers, and Football! We will save this man!
Oh yeah, Girls Jumping on Trampolines...
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: Redhotjrm
Originally posted by: notfred
Why do you give a crap what other people do in thier own bedrooms? If you don't want to, fine. If they want to, how is it any skin off your back?
I don't want to have a daughter one day that is raised by the 18-25 yr old males in here that are raised with open buckle bunnies.
Could your post make any less sense? I think wduaqnug is posting under a new name....
Everyone else understands my post, you must have an isolated comprehension problem.
Anyway, you guys are allowed to say porn rules, and have your own reasons. And I can say the opposite!
Originally posted by: DevilsAdvocate
I respect your opinion, for whatever its worth.