PARENTING IS HARD WORK!!! update: she keeps calling

[acemcmac]

Any chance you live near me? I'd like to meet this girl lol.

where in NJ abouts?

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX

Originally posted by: ZeroEffect
What did the girl have to say for her self when you were driving her home?

Why didn't she have her own car?

Had they been alone at his father's house, or was the father home?

Good point. How the heck did the girl get to your ex's house if you drove her home and she lived over a half hour away? Bus? Taxi?

Evidently she bummed a ride from someone to go shopping at the mall, which is a short walk away. She shares an apartment, doesn't have a car, is between jobs. She spent the time driving home trying to (a) deny things (b) make excuses (c) tell me her life sucks (d) ask to borrow money (e) lie about where she lived, but I had already driven her home once before (f) blame the mutual friend for ruining her life etc.

Definitely evil. Then again, it wasn't the best time for rational conversation.
And no, dad wasn't home.

and did she say what she found interesting in your son?

 

[badmouse]

Originally posted by: acemcmac
Any chance you live near me? I'd like to meet this girl lol.

where in NJ abouts?

She's in Fair Lawn, I'm tempted to post her address/phone number, but I'm holding back. Barely. I know she'd enjoy meeting you guys 🙂 .

 

[badmouse]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX

Originally posted by: ZeroEffect
What did the girl have to say for her self when you were driving her home?

Why didn't she have her own car?

Had they been alone at his father's house, or was the father home?

Good point. How the heck did the girl get to your ex's house if you drove her home and she lived over a half hour away? Bus? Taxi?

Evidently she bummed a ride from someone to go shopping at the mall, which is a short walk away. She shares an apartment, doesn't have a car, is between jobs. She spent the time driving home trying to (a) deny things (b) make excuses (c) tell me her life sucks (d) ask to borrow money (e) lie about where she lived, but I had already driven her home once before (f) blame the mutual friend for ruining her life etc.

Definitely evil. Then again, it wasn't the best time for rational conversation.
And no, dad wasn't home.

and did she say what she found interesting in your son?

She said he was mature. Seriously.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: acemcmac
I think TheLonelyPhoenix and I can think of more than a few girls we know in common who sound like this.....

All of them?

Sorry, that was the obligatory cynical response. 🙂

Girls in particular like to blame their friends when things go wrong... bad advice, running their life, being possessive, etc. Guys like to blame higher authority (which I'm sure your son is doing to you right now)

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX

Originally posted by: ZeroEffect
What did the girl have to say for her self when you were driving her home?

Why didn't she have her own car?

Had they been alone at his father's house, or was the father home?

Good point. How the heck did the girl get to your ex's house if you drove her home and she lived over a half hour away? Bus? Taxi?

Evidently she bummed a ride from someone to go shopping at the mall, which is a short walk away. She shares an apartment, doesn't have a car, is between jobs. She spent the time driving home trying to (a) deny things (b) make excuses (c) tell me her life sucks (d) ask to borrow money (e) lie about where she lived, but I had already driven her home once before (f) blame the mutual friend for ruining her life etc.

Definitely evil. Then again, it wasn't the best time for rational conversation.
And no, dad wasn't home.

and did she say what she found interesting in your son?

She said he was mature. Seriously.

give her a comment along the lines of "robbing the cradle" 😉

 

[FoBoT]

contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

if they were alone together, they probably did enough to get her charged with child molestation

 

[AcidicFury]

Yea, the half plus 7 rule applies here. Shes nothing but a skank. Good job badmouse! You really did your son a favor in life.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

 

[acemcmac]

Meh.... I'm closer to Philly.... my "GF" lives north of trenton and even this would be more than a little out of the way.... I'll be in NYC over winter break, but that'll be with the "GF" so I'm not sure if I can really be as effective as I'd want to be 😉

If it's lovin she wants, I can trick her into wanting some lovin that'll make her never want lovin again :evil:

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

She could probably be charged with contributing to the deliquency of a minor (getting him to go somewhere without the knowledge or consent of parents). I dont think pressing charges is going to do anyone much good in your case, though.

 

[FoBoT]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: FoBoT

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

...and then its okay. 🙂

 

[acemcmac]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

mm.... breeding.... you make it sound bad! I :heart: breeding

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

...and then its okay. 🙂

Well, by the time he's 18, he's a true consulting adult and hopefully mature enough to handle any consequences of his actions

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: acemcmac

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: FoBoT
contact your county prosecutor and get her charged with statutory rape

how was rape involved?

Highly doubtful that the boy and the girl had intercourse

just getting her charged/booked will cost her some big $ and scare her away

you got to get serious on her ass or they will keep doing it and you'll have a grand child added to your lives

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

mm.... breeding.... you make it sound bad! I :heart: breeding

need I remind you he's 14? I'm sure you love sex, I think though 14 is a tad bit young for it, don't ya think?

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Jero

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

...and then its okay. 🙂

Well, by the time he's 18, he's a true consulting adult and hopefully mature enough to handle any consequences of his actions

So one is supposed to follow the other?

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Jero
need I remind you he's 14? I'm sure you love sex, I think though 14 is a tad bit young for it, don't ya think?

He's gotta get started on those callouses sometime.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Jero

True enough. She needs to stay away from the boy and avoid breeding with him at all costs! Till at least he's 18!

...and then its okay. 🙂

Well, by the time he's 18, he's a true consulting adult and hopefully mature enough to handle any consequences of his actions

So one is supposed to follow the other?

maybe I should of stressed the word "hopefully"?

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: TheLonelyPhoenix

Originally posted by: Jero
need I remind you he's 14? I'm sure you love sex, I think though 14 is a tad bit young for it, don't ya think?

He's gotta get started on those callouses sometime.

Yeah...but doesn't have to be now 😛

Do you want him to be a father by the time he's 15 or 16?

(accidents do happen...)

 

[Chiboy]

WTF!?!?!? COCK BLOCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Let your son get laid!!

 

[Vortex22]

OMG that would have been the opportuinty of a life time.
He will hate you forever. 😉

 

[MidasKnight]

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: Jero

Originally posted by: badmouse

Originally posted by: GtPrOjEcTX
why do you think there was interest between them?

What did he see in her - are you kidding? She's a breathing, live female. Her in him - I think it was manipulation. Bitch.

Are you saying she is an evil one?

21 y/o girl and 14 y/o kid? Either evil or really really really really stupid.

Both.

Good luck to you. I have ( Twin/Boy/Girl 15yr olds ) and a 13yr old boy. They're smart but do push the limits at times. I'd get a restraining order on the young woman. 21 to a 14 ? ... no go here as well.

 

[JulesMaximus]

You did the right thing. Still, when I was 14 I would have given my left nut to bag a 21 Y/O!

Good luck!