Online friend coming to visit, so nervous!

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rh71

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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Have you seen her pic?

If you only intend on being friends, why are you so nervous?
because she's pretty hawt. ;)
 
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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Have you seen her pic?

If you only intend on being friends, why are you so nervous?

I've seen hers and she's seen mine. I intend to be friends not because I don't find her attractive but because of the logistics of being involved with someone from London. Now, the tricky thing (the reason i don't want to make an ass out of myself) is that she's comnig here to check out a local school... I wouldn't mind at all if she looked me up when/if she moves here so, for that reason, I'm nervous and want to make a good first impression.
 

DannyBoy

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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you say she is a very cool "kid". is there a big age difference?

nope, she's 21, i'm 24.

Give me her number, I'll surprise her, send her a text and tell her I know you, maybe put in a good word :p

I've seen your pic and she'd probably fall head over heels for you.

rose.gif


this weekends latest pic of me, bearing in mind I was a tad FUBAR'd :D
 

chrisms

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Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you say she is a very cool "kid". is there a big age difference?

nope, she's 21, i'm 24.

Give me her number, I'll surprise her, send her a text and tell her I know you, maybe put in a good word :p

I've seen your pic and she'd probably fall head over heels for you.

rose.gif


this weekends latest pic of me, bearing in mind I was a tad FUBAR'd :D


That girl would be great for one of those photochop threads that happen sometimes
 
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Originally posted by: 91TTZ
This "21 year old girl" is actually a 58 year old man. He used a picture of someone he found on the internet.

he's really good at changing his voice too! For both of our sakes, we're meeting at a public place... If it's serial killing grand dad I'll be sure to let you know!
 

DannyBoy

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: mzkhadir
Because I am muslim too and what my mom told me when I tried the same when I was young that I was not allowed to date. If you are christian, it should be ok.


Oh, I've dated since I was 13, my parents said it was a big no no but screw them! Though I'm not going to be dating this girl, kinda hard when she lives a plane ride away!

P.S. DannyBoy. London DOES rock. I love it there but I'm too poor to go as often as I'd like.

Checkout my sig for the rave I just went to, I met a guy I've known online for ages and he said lets do it, I hadn't been to any events for ages and it's totally re-started a part of my life that I missed so much after breaking up with my ex girlfriend, meeting new people can be a great way of discovering parts of you that you never knew you had, or kick-start parts of you that were lost somehow :)

 

DannyBoy

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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you say she is a very cool "kid". is there a big age difference?

nope, she's 21, i'm 24.

Give me her number, I'll surprise her, send her a text and tell her I know you, maybe put in a good word :p

I've seen your pic and she'd probably fall head over heels for you.

rose.gif


Pecan Pie :heart:
 

RossMAN

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Have you seen her pic?

If you only intend on being friends, why are you so nervous?

I've seen hers and she's seen mine. I intend to be friends not because I don't find her attractive but because of the logistics of being involved with someone from London. Now, the tricky thing (the reason i don't want to make an ass out of myself) is that she's comnig here to check out a local school... I wouldn't mind at all if she looked me up when/if she moves here so, for that reason, I'm nervous and want to make a good first impression.

If you're nervous already you're going to be a MESS when she lands in NY. You're already screwed, just enjoy it while she's here.

That will be $12.95 for my valuable advice, good advice like this doesn't come cheap. I accept all major cc's and non-cc Paypal.

:eek:
 

DannyBoy

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Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Have you seen her pic?

If you only intend on being friends, why are you so nervous?

I've seen hers and she's seen mine. I intend to be friends not because I don't find her attractive but because of the logistics of being involved with someone from London. Now, the tricky thing (the reason i don't want to make an ass out of myself) is that she's comnig here to check out a local school... I wouldn't mind at all if she looked me up when/if she moves here so, for that reason, I'm nervous and want to make a good first impression.

If you're nervous already you're going to be a MESS when she lands in NY. You're already screwed, just enjoy it while she's here.

That will be $12.95 for my valuable advice, good advice like this doesn't come cheap. I accept all major cc's and non-cc Paypal.

:eek:

It least give him a coupon.
 

glugglug

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Most girls don't look like the pics they put on-line. Fat chicks put up good looking pics for more attention. Good looking chicks put up ugly pics for less. She is probably twice your size.
 
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Originally posted by: rbloedow
I hope it goes smooth :) Sounds excited :p

Thanks, I'm excited!

No, she hasn't send a full body picture since I didn't ask for one... I don't care if she's pudgy, I'm fat. I hang out with lots of attractive, anorexic people.. Most are pretty damn annoying :)
 
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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
She doesn't have bad teeth ;) she was born in india, went to high school in paris and college in england - she's not really a "british chick" - has a great accent though that's multi-cultural (a little indian, a little french)

she knows what I look like (yet still wants to meet!) and I know what she looks like..

pic - http://www.swbfilms.com/dev.jpg

I think I will have a drink before dinner... Now how to have dinner without spelling crap all over myself.. yes, I am a nerd!

I'd hit it just like the invisible guy in the pic does.
 

imported_Phil

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Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you say she is a very cool "kid". is there a big age difference?

nope, she's 21, i'm 24.

Give me her number, I'll surprise her, send her a text and tell her I know you, maybe put in a good word :p

I've seen your pic and she'd probably fall head over heels for you.

rose.gif


this weekends latest pic of me, bearing in mind I was a tad FUBAR'd :D

Can you say "rolling like a bastard"? :laugh: ;) :beer:
 

DannyBoy

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Originally posted by: Dopefiend
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: DannyBoy
Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: moshquerade
you say she is a very cool "kid". is there a big age difference?

nope, she's 21, i'm 24.

Give me her number, I'll surprise her, send her a text and tell her I know you, maybe put in a good word :p

I've seen your pic and she'd probably fall head over heels for you.

rose.gif


this weekends latest pic of me, bearing in mind I was a tad FUBAR'd :D

Can you say "rolling like a bastard"? :laugh: ;) :beer:

Oh man, I gotta talk to you, fvck knows how many trains, 5 cherrys and a love heart :cool:

I was PASTED :laugh:
 
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Her flight came in and she called today to confirm plans for tomorrow... My ex is going to have drinks with me tonight to give me a "don't be nervous" pep talk as well as give me pointers- how weird and cool is that of her?
 

Ryan

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Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Her flight came in and she called today to confirm plans for tomorrow... My ex is going to have drinks with me tonight to give me a "don't be nervous" pep talk as well as give me pointers- how weird and cool is that of her?

Sounds liek a good woman :) It's always great that people can still remain friends after they've broken up :)
 

TKHDebater

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Just be yourself, most girls will see right through you otherwise. Heck, your going out with her for dinner, stop worrying and start smiling