So: how do you explain this garbage we're seeing?
Hint: crap comes from one place and one place only.
Preface: I'm not excusing anything that any of these guys has done, I just think most of the punishments were appropriate or pretty close to it.
Neil, Asham, Adams, Backstrom - frustration, mostly reactionary and not giving adequate thought to what they're doing
Torres, Shaw, Bitz - playing too close to the edge. I think Bitz and Torres intended to deliver hard hits, not to injure anyone (though Torres was particularly reckless). Shaw wanted to squeeze past Smith along the boards but didn't have room.
Hagelin - intended to deliver a clean hit, stuck his elbow out when Alfredsson moved the opposite direction he expected. Momentary lapse of judgment, I don't think anyone believes he started skating toward Alfredsson intending to elbow him in the head.
Carkner - tried to get Boyle to agree to a fight off the faceoff, Boyle declined. It looked like he tried to goad Boyle into a fight again right before he started punching. Carkner was there because Boyle punched Karlsson, so he wasn't going to take no for an answer. I think Boyle just wanted to draw a penalty, which is fine, but he shouldn't be punching Karlsson in the head if he's not willing to fight. The whole thing looked worse than it was, because most of Carkner's punches landed on Boyle's back and side.
Weber - lapse of judgment that he he appeared to reconsider as it was happening.
FYI, 7 of 9 suspensions were from 3 series. There's a lot of good, clean hockey being played in the other 5 series.