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I have to wonder if this isn't the work of America's enemies. Maybe Russia.
I have to wonder if this isn't the work of America's enemies. Maybe Russia.
Perhaps - they have been linked to fomenting anti-science things in the US before. It could easily be another nut too. Regardless, I don't think I would be reposting all those addresses all over the web. No need to help them spread their propaganda.I have to wonder if this isn't the work of America's enemies. Maybe Russia.
The unabated spread of COVID in the US, seemingly driven by anti-vaccine/mask nonsense, is quite ridiculous. I'd like to travel to another country without having to jump through hoops. Too bad many of them are not making exceptions for people from non-backwards states.
At least the UK is allowing vaccinated people in without quarantine, provided they take a COVID test ≤72 hours prior to arrival, and one 2 days after arrival. Maybe my wife and I will finally get to go on our trip to London (originally scheduled for Summer 2020, then Spring 2021, now Christmas 2021).
Yeah, my brother and sister-in-law went to Paris this summer under the EU rules. So it's possible. I'll just have to make sure I go to the right spot for a PCR test.I think most of the EU nations are letting Americans in with proof of vaccination and PCR testing within 72 hours prior.
My husband wanted to go to Australia for his 40th birthday last year...maybe we'll make his 45th.
Some idiot on the local news the other night was mad because his kids had to wear masks at school, then was mad because the school had to close due to an outbreak so they had to do the learn-from-home thing.
I'd have a real hard time not renting a cutting torch and just cutting that billboard down entirely.So this is one of the things I struggle with - this is an actual billboard here in Hartford, right off the highway:
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If you have a kid & if you care about them, wouldn't you want to take EVERY precaution possible in keeping them safe & healthy, whether or not it's completely proven that masks work 100%? Especially as when it's as easy as simply putting on a mask? As of today, we are at 667,000 deaths in America. Children make up 15.5% of COVID cases, with 5,292,837 cases to date cumulatively. I can't imagine getting so upset about wearing a mask that you'd setup a website & pay thousands of dollars to get the message out there. It just seems so completely illogical!
I'd have a real hart time not renting a cutting torch and just cutting that billboard down entirely.
Oh, i'm not talking about stapling masks to people's faces here. Just silence the ones trying to kill other people. Not legally of course, extra legally. Odds are good they can't afford two billboards, also the billboard company will eventually stop giving them board space if their boards keep falling over.Well, that's the difficulty, right? Where do you draw the line between freedom of choice? Because if you did that, you'd become an extremist, just for your side instead of their side! But at the same time, the decision to get unvaccinated & then to get into a hospital situation & then oversaturate the available resources has literally resulted in the death of people who came in for other medical problems, so now we're looking at a largely preventable disease that people are ignoring the cure for, which is killing other people in turn downstream.
The solution seems obvious, but it also tramples on individual freedom. Tricky situation!
Oh, i'm not talking about stapling masks to people's faces here.
I have to wonder if this isn't the work of America's enemies. Maybe Russia.
Odds are good they can't afford two billboards
Honestly I wouldn't be surprised to find that Russia or China (possibly both) are behind a long-term plot to destroy America from the inside by turning us against each other.
Worst part is that it seems to be working quite well.
I don't think that it is any secret that Russia is spamming American social media on both sides of many issues. The more we have infighting, the less of a threat we are to them. Yes, the sad part is that since many people just want to confirm their biases, this tactic does work quite well.Honestly I wouldn't be surprised to find that Russia or China (possibly both) are behind a long-term plot to destroy America from the inside by turning us against each other.
Worst part is that it seems to be working quite well.
I don't think that it is any secret that Russia is spamming American social media on both sides of many issues. The more we have infighting, the less of a threat we are to them. Yes, the sad part is that since many people just want to confirm their biases, this tactic does work quite well.
People who are contrary, irrational, and constantly angry are so difficult to deal with. They were the bane of my existence when I worked in retail & in food service. You could never make them happy because they were, quite literally, happy being unhappy. The tell-tale sign simply boils down to chronic complaining, which is a mindset that nothing is ever good enough.
I saw some TV show awhile back where a jerk confronts the main character, rants & raves, and leaves. The sidekick was like why did you tell that dude off & set him straight! And his response was simply "I don't argue with idiots". The sidekick blew up again & was like but this & that and his response was again, "I don't argue with idiots". I remembered that old saying "never argue with an idiot, they'll only bring you down to their level & beat you with experience", which is the conversational version of "don't feed the trolls".
I've gotten somewhat better at not feeding the trolls online, but it's so hard to remember to do that in real-time conversation because you expect everyone else to be on the same page as you, to be logical, to be rational, to look at ALL of the emotions & not be emotionally bullied into just one way of thinking or into adopting a knee-jerk reaction. I hate it when people run with an incorrect perception of what I'm trying to say, but I loathe being willfully misconstrued by people who have an agenda or are just plain mean, and until I heard that "I don't argue with idiots" line, I never really put it together that while I do have some measure of responsibility to provide correct, factual information about a situation, I can't fix someone who's not open to hearing truth, and an awful lot of people out there have INCREDIBLY high internal barriers of denial, to the point where I'm just banging my head against the wall. In general, I've found that people have three types of self-limiting beliefs that act as truth-barriers in conversation & in reading:
1. What they hope to be true
2. What they fear to be true
3. What they've decided to be true
The impact this has had on me is two-fold, in terms of finding the actual truth in a situation:
1. I've learned to "dig for gold" in terms of working past people's personalities, misinformation, etc.
2. I've learned to let things go, in terms of the sunk-cost fallacy
So basically, the ability to persistently pivot past barriers has been the magic key for me learning more stuff & doing better in life, and also adopting the mentality of "I don't argue with idiots", which is a mean way to say it lol, but simply means that unless someone wants to have a rational, non-emotionally-driven conversation about a topic, there's just no getting through to them because they've already made up their mind about what their version of the truth is & aren't interesting in diving into what the situation really, truly entails.
And it's interesting because each self-limiting belief has to be handled differently. For what people hope to be true, we have to work on "managing customer expectations". In the IT field, I call this "SEP Magic". In the sci-fi classic novel "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy", they land a spaceship in the middle of a sports game, but nobody sees them. The main character wonders if there's an invisibility cloak, but the author hilariously explains that it's an "SEP Field", aka "Somebody Else's Problem", which causes people to straight-up ignore a spaceship sitting in the middle of the ball field lol. People expect things to just happen by magic with no time, money, or effort invested & no kinks in the hose to success along the way (Murphy is alive & well, people!), thus people who hope for something to be true need to be recalibrated by changing their expectations to match reality, rather than writing it off as "SEP Magic" - that's somebody else's problem, just make it happy by magic please! We've all had bosses (and family members) who have this very hopeful approach to complex situations hahaha.
As far as what people fear to be true, this is often anxiety-driven & just requires a little hand-holding to get through the situation, because 99% of the time, it's not as bad as we think, and even if it is, we ALL have a 100% track record of getting through what life has thrown at us so far! As long as people are willing to try, then progress can be made! It's that third self-limiting belief, the one where people have already pre-decided what the "truth" is (re: "your perception determines your reality"), that creates the most problems. If you've already decided what your version of the truth is & aren't interested in learning anything more or being open to new ideas, then you're not (1) going to dig for gold, and (2) going to let false beliefs go.
I've been working on making "I don't argue with idiots" my default M.O. as a habit, because it's so easy to see other people as "equals" in terms of being on the same page as you, when really, they may be stuck with their own version of the truth, aren't open to discussion or adopting new beliefs based on truth & reality, and all we're doing is hurting ourselves when we get frustrated arguing with them, because they simply don't want to hear it! i.e. don't feed the trolls! lol
Seems the ones I know are obsessed that the vaccines don’t work, as in they are not 100% effective.
I keep repeating this mantra “The vaccines work as advertised”
Reinforced with they were not advertised to be 100% protection. They were advertised as 90-something percent reduction in severe illness.
They all fall into yeah but you still get sick and spread it.
“Yes I can get sick and spread it, unlikely I will go to the hospital and even more unlikely I will die. That is why we all need to be vaccinated”
I don't think that it is any secret that Russia is spamming American social media on both sides of many issues. The more we have infighting, the less of a threat we are to them. Yes, the sad part is that since many people just want to confirm their biases, this tactic does work quite well.
I have friends in the local medical community & they are, once again, incredibly frustrated people. The general public doesn't get as much exposure to the insanity of COVID as they do, and because it's all happening behind closed hospital doors, other than the random person you know who gets COVID or what you see on the news, it's not super visibly prominent, so people have gotten a LOT more relaxed. I don't know how to doctors detach themselves, but I'm also an overly-sensitive person (yay ADHD!), so being an ER doctor or an EMT or something would probably leave me as an emotional wreck lol.
I like your treatment here because it's thought out.People who are contrary, irrational, and constantly angry are so difficult to deal with. They were the bane of my existence when I worked in retail & in food service. You could never make them happy because they were, quite literally, happy being unhappy. The tell-tale sign simply boils down to chronic complaining, which is a mindset that nothing is ever good enough.
I saw some TV show awhile back where a jerk confronts the main character, rants & raves, and leaves. The sidekick was like why did you tell that dude off & set him straight! And his response was simply "I don't argue with idiots". The sidekick blew up again & was like but this & that and his response was again, "I don't argue with idiots". I remembered that old saying "never argue with an idiot, they'll only bring you down to their level & beat you with experience", which is the conversational version of "don't feed the trolls".
I've gotten somewhat better at not feeding the trolls online, but it's so hard to remember to do that in real-time conversation because you expect everyone else to be on the same page as you, to be logical, to be rational, to look at ALL of the emotions & not be emotionally bullied into just one way of thinking or into adopting a knee-jerk reaction. I hate it when people run with an incorrect perception of what I'm trying to say, but I loathe being willfully misconstrued by people who have an agenda or are just plain mean, and until I heard that "I don't argue with idiots" line, I never really put it together that while I do have some measure of responsibility to provide correct, factual information about a situation, I can't fix someone who's not open to hearing truth, and an awful lot of people out there have INCREDIBLY high internal barriers of denial, to the point where I'm just banging my head against the wall. In general, I've found that people have three types of self-limiting beliefs that act as truth-barriers in conversation & in reading:
1. What they hope to be true
2. What they fear to be true
3. What they've decided to be true
The impact this has had on me is two-fold, in terms of finding the actual truth in a situation:
1. I've learned to "dig for gold" in terms of working past people's personalities, misinformation, etc.
2. I've learned to let things go, in terms of the sunk-cost fallacy
So basically, the ability to persistently pivot past barriers has been the magic key for me learning more stuff & doing better in life, and also adopting the mentality of "I don't argue with idiots", which is a mean way to say it lol, but simply means that unless someone wants to have a rational, non-emotionally-driven conversation about a topic, there's just no getting through to them because they've already made up their mind about what their version of the truth is & aren't interesting in diving into what the situation really, truly entails.
And it's interesting because each self-limiting belief has to be handled differently. For what people hope to be true, we have to work on "managing customer expectations". In the IT field, I call this "SEP Magic". In the sci-fi classic novel "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy", they land a spaceship in the middle of a sports game, but nobody sees them. The main character wonders if there's an invisibility cloak, but the author hilariously explains that it's an "SEP Field", aka "Somebody Else's Problem", which causes people to straight-up ignore a spaceship sitting in the middle of the ball field lol. People expect things to just happen by magic with no time, money, or effort invested & no kinks in the hose to success along the way (Murphy is alive & well, people!), thus people who hope for something to be true need to be recalibrated by changing their expectations to match reality, rather than writing it off as "SEP Magic" - that's somebody else's problem, just make it happy by magic please! We've all had bosses (and family members) who have this very hopeful approach to complex situations hahaha.
As far as what people fear to be true, this is often anxiety-driven & just requires a little hand-holding to get through the situation, because 99% of the time, it's not as bad as we think, and even if it is, we ALL have a 100% track record of getting through what life has thrown at us so far! As long as people are willing to try, then progress can be made! It's that third self-limiting belief, the one where people have already pre-decided what the "truth" is (re: "your perception determines your reality"), that creates the most problems. If you've already decided what your version of the truth is & aren't interested in learning anything more or being open to new ideas, then you're not (1) going to dig for gold, and (2) going to let false beliefs go.
I've been working on making "I don't argue with idiots" my default M.O. as a habit, because it's so easy to see other people as "equals" in terms of being on the same page as you, when really, they may be stuck with their own version of the truth, aren't open to discussion or adopting new beliefs based on truth & reality, and all we're doing is hurting ourselves when we get frustrated arguing with them, because they simply don't want to hear it! i.e. don't feed the trolls! lol
And what depresses me is that it seems to be so easy to do. I'm afraid that social media has facilitated this.Honestly I wouldn't be surprised to find that Russia or China (possibly both) are behind a long-term plot to destroy America from the inside by turning us against each other.
Worst part is that it seems to be working quite well.
And what depresses me is that it seems to be so easy to do. I'm afraid that social media has facilitated this.
History may show that Mark Zuckerberg has been as dangerous for America as anybody not named Donald Trump or Vladimir Putin.And what depresses me is that it seems to be so easy to do. I'm afraid that social media has facilitated this.
You know, looking at him I'm not sure he doesn't have his doubts about his usefulness himself. He doesn't look like a happy person to me. He appears to work at it (time in the gym), but I don't see it on his face.History may show that Mark Zuckerberg has been as dangerous for America as anybody not named Donald Trump or Vladimir Putin.