Need some ideas for places to go on a date - 2 pics - she's not 43! UPDATE

[JS80]

cook for her

 

[RKS]

Kings Island (now that the kids are back in school)
Newport Aquarium (already mentioned)
BB Riverboat dinner cruise (stay away from the river)
Any restaurant in Newport overlooking the river
Hot Air balloon ride
If you really want to race go-carts there are some closer at the R32 E exit off I275 (not condusive to conversation however)
Dinner in Mt. Adams
Reds Game (never too crowded to talk)

 

[SKORPI0]

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

42 perhaps, but not 43!!!!

 

[IAteYourMother]

she looks good for a 43 year old. If I was 43, I'd hit that

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: Descartes
A nice coffee shop or a nice wine bar.

Totally played out by the "I like to pretend that I'm cultured" crowd.


My girlfriend dragged me into a coffee shop once, it was pathetic. A bunch of ultra-liberal pansies trying to sport the "world traveler" look, talking about subjects that they're clueless about.

It struck me as just being a cheap fascade.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Fraggable
I've gone out with a girl 3 times now and we get along really well and she's said she likes me really well but wants to get to know me better. The first date was a to a movie (I know, not ideal but she really wanted to see the movie), second was supposed to be ice skating (an idea I got from another thread here) but it was closed so we played minigolf, the third we sat on the river for a couple hours. I'm trying to think of somewhere that won't get boring but won't occupy too much of our time. Dinner would be ok but it's so standard and no fun.

I know you guys have some good ideas, I've seen a few of them. I just keep drawing blanks on this.

I live in Cincinnati. I'm 21, she's 23.

Thanks in advance.

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🙂 :heart: good for you.

I am going through some stuff right now :brokenheart:, but I can always suggest a good thing to do.

Since it is your 4th date, go dancing/dance lessons or to a picnic in the middle in a park of the day (scope out the place before you plan it though). Great way for her to experience you to excite her by doing something daring and new. 🙂 HOPE that helps.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

rode hard and put to bed wet.

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: 91TTZ

Originally posted by: Descartes
A nice coffee shop or a nice wine bar.

Totally played out by the "I like to pretend that I'm cultured" crowd.


My girlfriend dragged me into a coffee shop once, it was pathetic. A bunch of ultra-liberal pansies trying to sport the "world traveler" look, talking about subjects that they're clueless about.

It struck me as just being a cheap fascade.

:thumbsup:

 

[Garet Jax]

Originally posted by: Fraggable
I've gone out with a girl 3 times now and we get along really well and she's said she likes me really well but wants to get to know me better. The first date was a to a movie (I know, not ideal but she really wanted to see the movie), second was supposed to be ice skating (an idea I got from another thread here) but it was closed so we played minigolf, the third we sat on the river for a couple hours. I'm trying to think of somewhere that won't get boring but won't occupy too much of our time. Dinner would be ok but it's so standard and no fun.

I know you guys have some good ideas, I've seen a few of them. I just keep drawing blanks on this.

I live in Cincinnati. I'm 21, she's 23.

Thanks in advance.

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pic2

Plan a picnic ....

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: 91TTZ

Originally posted by: Descartes
A nice coffee shop or a nice wine bar.

Totally played out by the "I like to pretend that I'm cultured" crowd.


My girlfriend dragged me into a coffee shop once, it was pathetic. A bunch of ultra-liberal pansies trying to sport the "world traveler" look, talking about subjects that they're clueless about.

It struck me as just being a cheap fascade.

It can be fun to go to a coffee shop. But yeah, you have to realize that many of the people there are fake.

I always think it is funny when I go to a coffee shop/wine bar in shorts and tennis shoes and a t-shirt. I get looks, but what do I care. I enjoy the environment and I didn't care to dress up. Some of my friends are a little more insecure about that stuff though. 😉 Meh....

 

[Fraggable]

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

All right, she's 23 but doesn't look it in the pics. I realize that but I'm not going to post a bigger pic for the same reason a lot of people here don't post pics of their g/f's. She is not 'hot', she is extremely cute. I don't look at women the way most guys do, I'd rather have an incredibly smart, sweet, and beautiful g/f that I get along well with than one that's hot. So far I haven't found one that's both. There's probably a reason for that.

As for the guy who said to get her another b/f if I'm not looking to get laid, I respectfully request that you don't post things like that. Neither of us believes in sex before marriage, therefore it is not a factor. I respect your beliefs whatever they may be, please respect mine.

Anyway, we're going out to dinner tonight with both my and her parents, I thought it would help us get to know each other better to know the families.

RKS, you have a lot of good ideas. I intend to take her on a riverboat ride eventually, but she isn't big on spending money and doesn't like it when I pay for her stuff on dates, so I'm not sure that would work out so well right now. We want to go to the aquarium but we've had to go out so late the last 3 times that it's closed by the time we get there (she works three 3rd-shift nights a week so it's hard to plan a date during the day).

 

[maximus maximus]

Originally posted by: Special K
Bowling?

 

[Baked]

Go Kart racing FTW. BTW, those 2 pics aren't even showing the same person. It's like a pic of mom and then a pic of the daughter. :Q

 

[Fraggable]

Originally posted by: Baked
Go Kart racing FTW. BTW, those 2 pics aren't even showing the same person. It's like a pic of mom and then a pic of the daughter. :Q

Pic 1 is just her, pic2 is her and her mom.

EDIT: pic2 only has a part of her mom in it, the 2 pics are of the same person.

 

[ballmode]

Starbucks then maybe chill at the somebody's place to talk

 

[toekramp]

i love 43 year olds

 

[Fraggable]

Originally posted by: toekramp
i love 43 year olds

Allright guys, what if she was 43? You know you'd all just be jealous.

 

[Tobolo]

Picnic

 

[maximus maximus]

you can play some board games (not bored games 😉) with her... they can be a lot of fun. 🙂

a walk through the park.. or maybe rent a couple of cycles.. or rent a pair of skates..


I think she is cute.. good luck pal.. and have a great time. 😀
Do update regarding what you finally ended up doing among all these ideas.

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

All right, she's 23 but doesn't look it in the pics. I realize that but I'm not going to post a bigger pic for the same reason a lot of people here don't post pics of their g/f's. She is not 'hot', she is extremely cute. I don't look at women the way most guys do, I'd rather have an incredibly smart, sweet, and beautiful g/f that I get along well with than one that's hot. So far I haven't found one that's both. There's probably a reason for that.

As for the guy who said to get her another b/f if I'm not looking to get laid, I respectfully request that you don't post things like that. Neither of us believes in sex before marriage, therefore it is not a factor. I respect your beliefs whatever they may be, please respect mine.

Anyway, we're going out to dinner tonight with both my and her parents, I thought it would help us get to know each other better to know the families.

RKS, you have a lot of good ideas. I intend to take her on a riverboat ride eventually, but she isn't big on spending money and doesn't like it when I pay for her stuff on dates, so I'm not sure that would work out so well right now. We want to go to the aquarium but we've had to go out so late the last 3 times that it's closed by the time we get there (she works three 3rd-shift nights a week so it's hard to plan a date during the day).

wtf is this? you guys getting married?

 

[maximus maximus]

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: toekramp
i love 43 year olds

Allright guys, what if she was 43? You know you'd all just be jealous.

Yes... most definately.. 😉

 

[Fraggable]

Originally posted by: JS80

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

All right, she's 23 but doesn't look it in the pics. I realize that but I'm not going to post a bigger pic for the same reason a lot of people here don't post pics of their g/f's. She is not 'hot', she is extremely cute. I don't look at women the way most guys do, I'd rather have an incredibly smart, sweet, and beautiful g/f that I get along well with than one that's hot. So far I haven't found one that's both. There's probably a reason for that.

As for the guy who said to get her another b/f if I'm not looking to get laid, I respectfully request that you don't post things like that. Neither of us believes in sex before marriage, therefore it is not a factor. I respect your beliefs whatever they may be, please respect mine.

Anyway, we're going out to dinner tonight with both my and her parents, I thought it would help us get to know each other better to know the families.

RKS, you have a lot of good ideas. I intend to take her on a riverboat ride eventually, but she isn't big on spending money and doesn't like it when I pay for her stuff on dates, so I'm not sure that would work out so well right now. We want to go to the aquarium but we've had to go out so late the last 3 times that it's closed by the time we get there (she works three 3rd-shift nights a week so it's hard to plan a date during the day).

wtf is this? you guys getting married?

This is my effort to get to know her better. She said she wants to know me better and so I wracked my brains trying to figure out how one gets to know one better, and one of the best ways is to meet their family and friends. You all have some great ideas and I plan to use them in the future.

 

[JulesMaximus]

I've heard good things about The Bedroom. 😉

 

[D1gger]

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: JS80

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

All right, she's 23 but doesn't look it in the pics. I realize that but I'm not going to post a bigger pic for the same reason a lot of people here don't post pics of their g/f's. She is not 'hot', she is extremely cute. I don't look at women the way most guys do, I'd rather have an incredibly smart, sweet, and beautiful g/f that I get along well with than one that's hot. So far I haven't found one that's both. There's probably a reason for that.

As for the guy who said to get her another b/f if I'm not looking to get laid, I respectfully request that you don't post things like that. Neither of us believes in sex before marriage, therefore it is not a factor. I respect your beliefs whatever they may be, please respect mine.

Anyway, we're going out to dinner tonight with both my and her parents, I thought it would help us get to know each other better to know the families.

RKS, you have a lot of good ideas. I intend to take her on a riverboat ride eventually, but she isn't big on spending money and doesn't like it when I pay for her stuff on dates, so I'm not sure that would work out so well right now. We want to go to the aquarium but we've had to go out so late the last 3 times that it's closed by the time we get there (she works three 3rd-shift nights a week so it's hard to plan a date during the day).

wtf is this? you guys getting married?

This is my effort to get to know her better. She said she wants to know me better and so I wracked my brains trying to figure out how one gets to know one better, and one of the best ways is to meet their family and friends. You all have some great ideas and I plan to use them in the future.

4 dates and you are getting the parents together?? Holy commitment Batman, don't you think you are setting the expectation level a little high?😕

 

[JS80]

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: JS80

Originally posted by: Fraggable

Originally posted by: savvy
She looks kind of old. ;(

All right, she's 23 but doesn't look it in the pics. I realize that but I'm not going to post a bigger pic for the same reason a lot of people here don't post pics of their g/f's. She is not 'hot', she is extremely cute. I don't look at women the way most guys do, I'd rather have an incredibly smart, sweet, and beautiful g/f that I get along well with than one that's hot. So far I haven't found one that's both. There's probably a reason for that.

As for the guy who said to get her another b/f if I'm not looking to get laid, I respectfully request that you don't post things like that. Neither of us believes in sex before marriage, therefore it is not a factor. I respect your beliefs whatever they may be, please respect mine.

Anyway, we're going out to dinner tonight with both my and her parents, I thought it would help us get to know each other better to know the families.

RKS, you have a lot of good ideas. I intend to take her on a riverboat ride eventually, but she isn't big on spending money and doesn't like it when I pay for her stuff on dates, so I'm not sure that would work out so well right now. We want to go to the aquarium but we've had to go out so late the last 3 times that it's closed by the time we get there (she works three 3rd-shift nights a week so it's hard to plan a date during the day).

wtf is this? you guys getting married?

This is my effort to get to know her better. She said she wants to know me better and so I wracked my brains trying to figure out how one gets to know one better, and one of the best ways is to meet their family and friends. You all have some great ideas and I plan to use them in the future.

yours and hers parents don't think this is a bit weird?