My girlfriend left me... Updated 9/6/05

[SVT Cobra]

Originally posted by: Cheezeit
sorry man

but there'll be better

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: mi1stormilst
Dude trust me a lot of people have been where you are right now, there is something very strong inside us that makes us want to be a part of someone else. In time people start taking that connection for grant it...it is very difficult (but worthwhile) to find away to keep it fresh. Although you may not want to hear it bordum can be a huge factor for failed relationships....especially on the girls side. Its up to us boys/men to find ways to continually SHOW them how much we care. I don't know why she left, you may never know why she really left and frankly its not that important. Even if she gave you a reason you would then start to question that and in a matter of seconds feel the way you already do now. She left, the best thing for you to do is to evaluate your life and detemine if its going in the right direction. What are your life goals, when will you meet them? In time you will learn to love someone else and you will cherish it even MORE. Whatever you do ... don't turn into a freak of a manhore because you will end up finding the wrong kinds of relationships and causing others the same pain you are feeling now.

Your brother from another mother. (mi1stormilst)

QFT

Too many times I've had the temptation to just give up, it's too hard, it's too tiring to keep doing this over and over. But if you can truly grow from each and every experience, when you finally meet the girl that's meant for you, she will fulfill you in a way you never imagined.

Don't shortchange yourself and start tossing yourself out to the masses, taking what you can, giving nothing, gaining nothing. Live free and without worry of the future, because "hope" is the greatest gift given to mankind.

 

[edmundoab]

i feel ya man

damn, it hurts like mad
drives ya nuts the first few months

i hope u bounce back asap

u got friends and family to keep u live and kickin

be strong! like what everyone has told me
hope u get a better companion in the future too

 

[Jgtdragon]

Sorry man.

 

[vshah]

sorry to hear it. many more fish in the sea...keep your chin up man.

 

[importdistributors]

maybe you should kill yourself? That might help

Seriously, there is nothing you can do, go find the next one, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. remember that!

 

[CrackRabbit]

:beer: if it makes ya feel better you can resurect the thread where you owned me totaly.

 

[Pocahontas]

I can beat her up if you want?

 

[Fenixgoon]

sorry to hear that eli. it's worse to lose and good girl than an evil b!tch. but hey, i'm on the path to full recovery, so you'll get there too! have a few:beer:s courtesy of ATOT

 

[Gooberlx2]

that sucks dude, sorry.

Here's my experience (personal and from friends/relatives) with the whole "nothing seemed so severely wrong" thing. She met someone else who she's any of: interested in, already cheated on you with, or who's presence put the idea of being with other people in her mind.

 

[archcommus]

Do you have any guesses as to the cause? You'll have to be able to reason this out in your mind before you'll be able to move on.

 

[Auryg]

Sometimes there are no answers..heck, with women, there usually aren't.

It sucks..it sucks bad, but you'll get through it.

 

[l Xes l]

bitches; they come, they go

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: dirtboy
What? I almost want to call shens... from the way you always sounded, you two were perfect for each other.

I thought we were... I really did...

 

[PHiuR]

sorry...time heals everything...could be years tho. i still feel crappy. after almost a year

but i broke it off..so i guess i deserve this nasty feeling.

 

[Aquaman]

Sorry to hear that man

I hope she gives you closure and gives you a reason why she ended it.

Condolensces,
Aquaman

 

[GalvanizedYankee]

Go outside before the sun sets. You will feel better for it.
Did you eat a decent meal today. Eat, go for a walk, then come back.


I dressed up just for you

 

[Eli]

Originally posted by: importdistributors
maybe you should kill yourself? That might help

Seriously, there is nothing you can do, go find the next one, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. remember that!

Don't tempt me.

Originally posted by: GalvanizedYankee
Go outside before the sun sets. You will feel better for it.
Did you eat a decent meal today. Eat, go for a walk, then come back.


I dressed up just for you

I haven't eaten anything in 2 days..

at least my kitty still loves me...

 

[Muadib]

Originally posted by: Eli

Originally posted by: importdistributors
maybe you should kill yourself? That might help

Seriously, there is nothing you can do, go find the next one, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. remember that!

Don't tempt me.

Originally posted by: GalvanizedYankee
Go outside before the sun sets. You will feel better for it.
Did you eat a decent meal today. Eat, go for a walk, then come back.


I dressed up just for you

I haven't eaten anything in 2 days..

at least my kitty still loves me...

Getting yourself sick is not going to help matters. Eat something man.

 

[Eli]

but i'm not hungry... thinking about food makes me feel sick...

 

[AgaBoogaBoo]

my thoughts over ICQ

 

[Anubis]

women are like buses, there will be another one along in 5 minutes


:beer:

i read this thread this morning, and didnt know what to say, sh!t happens, and it always seems to happen to the best of us the most, and its always the really smelly kind of sh!t

your best bet is to just try not to dwell on it and move on,

<- tokin one for you

 

[Lasthitlarry]

I've been in your state before. Just treat it like a sickness.

Drink plenty of fluids and nibble crackers for a few days, and make sure and take a shower everyday, or at least once every 2 days. Your body will start to feel better.

Go outside and get some sun, watch a good comedy, play an instrument, play with your cat.

You'll get through this son!

If it makes you feel better I haven't had a girl in 6 years.

 

[chrisms]

Drink heavily.

 

[lrad50]

I know what you are feeling man, it just takes time.

It is not the end of the world.
Best o luck