I really think you 2 are missing the point or purposely posturing. No amount of wireless security is going to prevent something like this. As admins of a more or less a tech site forum, I would assume you have at least some knowledge about how it works. I'm not an expert by any means on networking, but I know enough.
Telling my ISP I deleted the file is basically admitting guilt. Why would I do that knowing that A. I didn't download the file and B. At some point they could potentially use that against me if it ever happens repeatedly. It really is no different than what the companies were doing before except now they've shifted the responibility to the ISP.
It has nothing to do with how secure my network is, I know how to do that and yet it happened. Do you really expect every person to be able to know how to lock down a network? Do you honestly believe that it is the consumers responsibility? Maybe we should blame the companies that make wireless adapters? I mean, it's their tech? It should be secure right? Companies can't even keep their networks secure and those are blamed on the hackers. See the double standard here?
It has nothing to do with if I may or may have not downloaded material in the past. You are letting the thought process of "he must have downloaded it" cloud the subject. The overall point to this portion is, they have no proof. At all. They have an IP. Whether I did it or not has no bearing on it. I simply stated for the record I did not download it. While you have no reason to believe me, I find it counterproductive to even argue that point. You are saying "you are guilty because I think you are guilty." That's a pretty scary standard if you think about it. Apply that to everything in life and see how well that works for you. This is what is happening.
This is a regulation we're talking about that went into effect, and already the flaw has came out that will affect practically everyone. There will be a precedent. It will be interesting to see the first cases that hit the supreme court over it. The ISP's are banking that the average user will just be scared and say ok yea it's gone because they want to be able to get to facebook.
It is flawed. Deeply flawed.
This was just a "hey quit that" moment, small compared to the grand scale of whats about to happen. It's not right, and for those here who seem to have the "oh it's still your fault" attitude, you are blind. The bigger question is why there are people who think this is acceptable. My guess is the people who do are also the people who don't get the true legal difference between copyright infringement and theft.
Anyway, they gave me the contact info of the accusers. I will be contacting them and see what they say. If it's anything like what my ISP said, it will be a bunch of "well blah blah and blah blah terms of service", because everyone knows it's a pile of rubbish with very weak footing.
EDIT: I realized that maybe there's a portion I did not make clear enough. They did turn my internet on only after I told them I scanned my computers and did not find the file. I told them for the record I did not download this. I think some of the difference here is that I was thinking of this as "punishment without proof", when really it's more like "being detained for questioning on a crime that occurred." I can accept that, however, I am not sure how that plays out in the future, and that's where the real concern lies.