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- Oct 29, 2003
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Many of the gay people I've known had hetero marriages before deciding they were gay, several with children produced. Hetero is the de facto standard for all people, and it often takes decades for someone to realize or admit they are gay - that they are different. But arguing born or made is a fool's errand; it's no one else's business why one chooses to screw and/or love and/or live with and/or marry whom they choose.
Yes, that's a third option I didn't have time to add in the reply this morning.