If your hands are not wet, are they dry? Yes. If your legs are wet, are they dry? No. If your hands are dry and your legs are wet, are YOU wet or dry?
You are wet.
If you are tolerant of something things and intolerant of others, are YOU intolerant or tolerant?
You are intolerant. Just like the wet and dry example.
Please stop talking in binary, we are talking about two different things, tolerance and intolerance, you can be tolerant of some things and intolerant of others, if you want to play wet and dry then I can be wet in a swimming pool and dry in my bed. See.
I'm wet in swimming pools and dry at night in my bed, I'm tolerant of reasonable views and intolerant of unreasonable views.
"If you are tolerant of something things and intolerant of others, are YOU intolerant or tolerant?"
You are both.
If it works out that on average you are more tolerant than intolerant then you are a tolerant person. If it works out that on average you are more intolerant peron then you are an intolerant person.