Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
Originally posted by: Xavier434
Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
Yet another reason to wait. If you are with someone whom you love and you know you will love until "Death parts [you]" -- why should it matter? Plus if you both had the same mindset, that girl would be equally nervous.
As for what you say "you have". I seriously hope you treat her with more respect than you are giving her on the AT Forums here.
-Kevin
I understand that you look towards the book for guidance and direction, but you really shouldn't let that stop you from listening to those who are far more experienced than you are. You have never been married and you have never had sex. You have no experience. If you ask the majority of people who are married and have been married for a while they will tell you how important being sexually compatible is despite your love and commitment towards the woman. I'm not saying that your way doesn't work for some people and nor am I saying that you should do something which you do not believe is right, but just understand that the odds are against you if you continue walking this path.
I know it isn't easy. Not something you guys want to hear more than likely, but Jesus being crucified wasn't easy either.
Your argument is pointless, he's doing it because of God. I agree with you on the emotional/spiritual/physical though. I consider myself a Christian, but don't agree with the "premarital sex is bad" clause.
I don't mean to come off as rude or judgemental in anyway, but I honestly don't know how you can call yourself a Christian when you don't agree with God's word completely. The Bible, as you know, didn't say to believe part of its teachings. What don't you agree with about it? Not in anyway trying to mislead you, but I am curious and merely interested in the discussion.
I'm not doing it because of God. I'm doing it for God.
-Kevin
Do you do any kind of work on Sunday's? Ever?
Do you eat shellfish?
I'm sure you don't follow everything in there, so you're just coming off as a hypocrite.