I'm gonna <insert> my ex!! MAJOR FvCkINg RANT!

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CPA

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
If I were a girl I would cheat on you with someone who could spell worth a damn. And then I would royally mind-fvck you and leave you crying in the gutter until you got at least a basic grasp of proper english.

Now that's sig material.
 

duhh

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sounds like life is simpler without her...
chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on
 

Ciber

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I vote for kicking it up a notch!

Now here's what you need to do, sleep with her again and record it, make sure you treat her like the whore that she is. Now take said video and distribute it all over town and ship to all family members and put it up on kazaa.

After that proceed with your original plan.

And yes i would personally do what i posted above without hesitating for a single minute if a woman did that kind of crap to me. If you hurt me, you can expect me to return the favor, with plenty of interest. :beer::D


For those of you saying she doesnt deserve it or that he should forget, stop living in dreamland. She chose to deceive him and hurt him and waste years of his life when she could of just broke up with him, but no instead she chose to use and abuse him.


She more than deserves the above and then some.

So get your revenge man, it's bitches like this that run around ruining people's lives all their lives because everyone is like all the hippies on these forums and do nothing to people that screw them over.
 

Blindman

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Hay buddy,

I can honestly relate how you feel. I know the anger that is within you because I have it as well. I also lost the trust that I have for others. My ex cheated on me with my best-friend and so I can completely relate. I didn?t give her a ring but my proposal meant the same. She yes in reply was as true to me as anything else. But in less then a month we broke up and her reply to me was she liked my best friend. I went through a lot and I am sure some of those mirror your feelings.

A lot of time I know that anger that fills up and you want to just do something to do it. I hope to God that she doesn?t one day come back and tell me that she was wrong or that she went through a lot of pain because of me. In truth it was also her doubt and distrust that cause her to feel that I did not love her. She also went around and told all her friends and family that I mistreated her. I gave her everything and what she wanted wasn?t love just something that seem to mirror love but has nothing to do with it.

Just last Friday I went out with this girl to Kotts Scary Farm and I held her. In the back of my mind I was thinking ?Isn?t this how I held my ex? Is it really worth it? Would I be true to her like I was with my EX?? To make it short, she wasn?t interested and had someone else told me later. Instead of feeling rejection, I actually felt relieved that I didn?t have to make a commitment.

Yesterday would have been our three year anniversary since she became my gf. I started the day driving to work thinking about how glad I was that it was over. Then I was sort of angry that she betrayed me; and to add insult to injury blame me for it. By mind afternoon I had this killing headache and I decided to go home from work. I spent the rest of the day at home playing video game trying to rest my mind form the pain. I read the other day that emotional lost or pain could be as painful as suffering a real injury. Needless to say my heart also ached yesterday.

I gave her everything. She turned around and said I didn?t love her and abandoned her. And then got with my best friend because she believed he was much better.

Would revenge really prove anything?
Revenge will give you nothing except make you as low as her. A lot of people now say cut your losses, I think I would say the same. Yea, I spend a lot on my ex too. Yea, I was very supportive of her. Yea, I loved her to death. Yea, I gave her 2 years 4 months and 28 days. Yea, she really hurt me. But so what I let it go because I also know that it was her lost.

Do I hate her? Yea, sometimes. Sometimes I am consumed by the pain she caused me and I hate her. Then other time I understand that she is immature and couldn?t see the errors of her way. But not to make myself seem always right but I also had errors in my way.

In a sense what I really didn?t like was the fact that I could no longer feel rejection as the way I use to feel. My ex has made me stronger and also less trusting of others. She helped me realize that I should never trust anyone completely. She proved that relationship was a burden and not something I should commit or place as great importance because in the end no matter how much they claim they love you they can just walk away.

There is no point in swimming in the pool that seems to pulls you in. I won?t say let the anger go because I tried and it seems to just exist. But to act upon it makes you just the same as her. You are better then her buddy, don?t loose that in the process as well. You already lost a lot, no point in lowering yourself anymore just so you get a little satisfaction in your action.

My name is Noah Wang. I am a better person today because I am no longer with my ex.

You can too.
 

ebaycj

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Pour gasoline all over her and flick a match. That way you'll make her feel all warm inside for the rest of her life. :D
 

DaviDaVinci

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Originally posted by: Blindman
Hay buddy,

My name is Noah Wang. I am a better person today because I am no longer with my ex.

You can too.

Can't tell if that was supposed to be humor or not. I just came home and LOOKy LOOKy I got an e-mail after that IM convo. My comments in highlight.

Davi,

you won't have to change your email and your number. i'm not going to beg you back, can't believe you said that you egotistical !#$%$%

Why don't you take my life while your at it? You took my heart. Many times I think what is the point anymore anyway. I lived in hell and I just want out. I loved you. I truely did and I never will love somebody so thoroughly and so passionaltey as I did you. I loved everything about you. The problem was you just didn't want me. and that is why i took you everywhere i went and helped you with everything that you needed, that's also why i propsed You fvcking never did. I feel used especially now that you still call me names. i call liars "liars", i call b1tches "b1tches", if she'd stop being both, i wouldn't have to call her names. You know, you don't need to bring me down anymore b/c I'm already down. you ask a question i answer it. if facts bring you down, then don't ask questions.I live in pain, Davi. I've been through a lot of pain. ???? going out with others, partying with them, having sex with them, going out on breakfast with some random dude on your b-day and telling me that you'e busy with school work. sounds painful.I just want like everyone else to have somebody to love who actually loves me back and I wanted a simple life. hard to have a simple life while juggling 5 guys and school work. and oh, sorry i didn't love u, i just treated you better then i treated myself because i didn't love uI hate you for blaming everything on me. I fvcking HATE you for that. You are so proud and think you were so perfect. Well if you were then why the HELL did it not work out. let's see, I never cheated on you. I never lied to you. when i went to a strip club due to a bachelor party, i told you about it. yes i'm blaming you, u lied to me constantly and promised never to again. you cheated on me many times, i'm not perfect, but i did the best to take care of you and why it didn't work out? gee go wonder....You think b/c I just wanted to mess things up? no i just think that you wanted to have a whole lotta fun and didn't think you'd get caughtDid you ever think that you never made me feel that you truely wanted to marry me? then why did you say yes?Did you ever think that you gave me the love and support and belief that I needed? you must seriously have EXTRA major needs, all my friends already though i was doing too much for you and thinking about you to much Yes, you did nice things for me at times, you mean every time i saw youbut you were a SH1TTY and I mean SH1TTY boyfriend. You always were. wish i had known this before hand, reminds me of the wedding singer where she tells me the day before that she can't marry himI felt insecure, used, and was constantly afraid that things weren't going to work out b/c you weren't ready for anything. thanks for telling me that now, or is it an excuse for cheating, lying? you know you could have just dumped me and then went on with other fellasAdmit it Davi. If you truely wanted to marry me you would have respected my #@%%^^ family. You know I love my family and to do this to them. how did i disrespect them again? you mean by helping them solve stupid computer problems, fixing the garage door opener, donating my computer monitor to your brother cause he lost his job and couldn't get another one, buying your niece and nephew x'mas gifts, taking them out to eat, oh yah, i forgot, i did disrespect them once when they caught us in your bedroom, i told you we shouldn't, but you insisted, sorry about that ONE TIME of disrespecting your family I was so fvcking used. So why don't you kill me? Why don't you get revenge on me? well, thank you for the official permission to do soDo it Davi, Thanks for confirming the permission b/c I'd be happy to die.you know i would never hurt a girl physically, but you know mentally.... You've taken everything else--my dignity, my love, my heart, and shooved it. why are you repeating what I told you last month, be original for once.You want your ring? Take it. Take everything. okYou fvcking hurt me like nobody else. I cried everyday calling my father when you never call. you wanted me to call you after you got caught with all your lies? you're kidding right?My dad knows how I feel about you and has been there for me.i know, as i recall, he said that i wasn't good enough for you

You can't even talk to me like a normal human being...newsflash, you're not human all you do is cuss and put me down. zzzzZZZWell Davi you killed me inside. You will know one day. There is one life to live. And you are making your choices now. One Life, davi. i realized that and thus why i'm moving on, i believe good people exist, you're just not one of them.Is this the way you thank somebody that only wanted the best for you? thank you for messing up my friendships with my guy friends, i wanted that. and thank you for lying to my folks, that's best for me alright, and thank you for making me realize not to trust people anymore, i REALLY wanted that.That believed so much in you? the only thing you believed was that you wouldn't get caught. Didn't i tell u last year not to lie to me or ever cheat on me? Didn't i tell you that if you do, make sure I don't find out? Didn't i also tell you that if you want to see someone else, just tell me and i'll deal with it. How many times have I told you that it's WAY WORSE to find out that someone is lying to you and decieving you? That it's better to just tell them your intentions. The person will get hurt one way or another, but at least he won't be as hurt

I knew it had to be you to come back to me. I will not go back to you b/c I already did the beginning of the summer thinking we were really going to try again. that's what i thought untill i found out that you were seeing Jose's roomate behind Jose's back and that his roomate saw ya'll kissing at a party. boy did i find that event amusing. wait a minute we were still together then weren't we? And look how you treated me? Not calling me and not being my friend. I always was so sad with you. sorry for putting a gun to your head to stay with me

You think I'm full of lies? yes, and how many times have i proven that? want to see some more concrete proof? here are e-mails from you to the other dudes, oh wait you couldn't have written them, they ONLY came from YOUR e-mail account and has driving directions to your place with YOUR cell number. Your dead wrong. is she really going to kill me? I lived in hell.you ARE hell You want to call me names? no, i want you out of my life I'm sorry I loved you and am sorry I ever met you. Took the words right out of my mouth

i'm not going to send her a reply to this e-mail since everything she's saying has been said in quite a few previous e-mails. And I've replied to all of those e-mails with the same answers. i don't udnerstand why i have to repeat myself so many times. if you guys just saw our e-mails to one another, you'll notice how she always calls me a sh1tty bf but never has proven it but all the things i call her, i back it up with at least 3 examples and plenty of solid evidence. And she loves to ask the same questions over and over again like she's always trying to find dirt on me so she can point fingers also. tough luck on that happening. Its not about winning an argument but defending myself when she points fingers.

She is such a hypocrite, and so is the family. They preach all these things to me about how I should do my own homework and not lie and be forgiving. Then when it has to with their daughter, they do opposite of what they tell me. Bastards!!


I sat down with my best friend once, and we had a long discussion about her. We couldn't figure out why she does what she does. She knows what's wrong and what isn't. To top it off she tells me that she was living in Hell when she was sleeping with those guys. Is she bipolar? Does she have multiple personalities?
We seriously think she's psycho. I still can't figure out how i used her or what i used her for?

Bottom line is that I wouldn't be this upset if she/her family didn't blame me for her fvckups. If she didn't blame me for the breakup and worst of all causing HER pain. I can't stand hypocrites. I can't stand psychos.
 

amnesiac

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She's a bitchy, batshit insane attention whore, and you're a whiny, pussy-whipped bitch. You seem perfect for each other.

I have an idea: LET IT GO. Don't read her emails. Block her from chat. Hang up on her calls -- if she keeps calling, call block her.

I fail to see a reason why you maintain contact with her, and why you can't terminate contact.

Maybe she IS psycho. Maybe her family is psycho too. That doesn't mean you have to listen to them. Don't let it get to you because you obviously know they're all crazy. Just take them out of your life and your problems will disappear.

Also, thanks for quoting me in your sig. Your witty reparte falls short considering it's spelled "3rd" grade, jackass.
 

SP33Demon

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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
then be the hero of screwed over men everywhere and totally f up her life

put up or shut up

Agreed. Make her feel some of the pain that she caused you, and then never talk to her again. Put her in the loony bin for good by messing with her head...

"lets jsut say that she had NO $$ worries while she was with me....now she does."
Let's just say the guy that's porking her now will pay for everything just as you did. Trust me on this, she's perfectly fine $$ wise.

 

BunLengthHotDog

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cliff notes should have read:

4: I walked to Fvck away, never to return.

Any thing after number 4 is COMPLETELY your doing...and the fact that Number 9 even took place screams that you BOTH need professional help.
 

mztykal

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I'm so not reading all of that. I read the first chapter where she makes it seem like it's your fault. How cool is that. LOL!

She's nuts. Seriously...
 

aircooled

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What is this; Jr. High?

Let it go. Move on... No reason to IM or communicate with her in any way shape or form.
 

Bleep

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This is the prime example of why you dont let your peewee do your thinking for you.
You are a loser, you do not have good judgement and anything that has happend is your own fault, if you did not see the faults of this woman after the first time you hooked up you deserve what you get. No reason to blame anyone but yourself because of your bad judgement. Not only that your a whiner.

Bleep
 
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