if you're white, would you date a girl who has dated a black man?

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PlatinumGold

Lifer
Aug 11, 2000
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Originally posted by: JackStorm
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
he said his romantic feelings for her went away because he found out she had dated a black guy in the past.

Uh, yes. We know. 'Because she dated a black guy'. You don't see anything wrong with this?

so now, not only do we have political correctness but we also have to dictate peoples romantic feelings?

No one is forcing him to like the girl. What most of the non-flamer posters have been trying to point out, is that this has to do with him suddenly not wanting to be with her because she dated a black guy. That means he has some kind of racial bias(Whether he knows it or not). But as has been pointed out before. Since he doesn't actively go around hating black people or trying to get others to hate black people, then it's ok (Silly, but ok).

so in the end you are saying the same thing i am except i don't think it is silly.

there are a million things about a woman that can turn off the romantic feelings. if we had conscious control of these things we probably wouldn't mak as many silly choices as we do.
 

Pepsei

Lifer
Dec 14, 2001
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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: JackStorm
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
he said his romantic feelings for her went away because he found out she had dated a black guy in the past.

Uh, yes. We know. 'Because she dated a black guy'. You don't see anything wrong with this?

so now, not only do we have political correctness but we also have to dictate peoples romantic feelings?

No one is forcing him to like the girl. What most of the non-flamer posters have been trying to point out, is that this has to do with him suddenly not wanting to be with her because she dated a black guy. That means he has some kind of racial bias(Whether he knows it or not). But as has been pointed out before. Since he doesn't actively go around hating black people or trying to get others to hate black people, then it's ok (Silly, but ok).

so in the end you are saying the same thing i am except i don't think it is silly.

there are a million things about a woman that can turn off the romantic feelings. if we had conscious control of these things we probably wouldn't mak as many silly choices as we do.



but there's a difference,

it's okay not to date someone because they are of different race than you, but it is strange when you choose not to date someone (that you normally would) because they dated someone of a different race.
 

djheater

Lifer
Mar 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Think again Hitler.
 

aircooled

Lifer
Oct 10, 2000
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Dosen't bother me. I've dated 2 girls in the past that had Black and Asian boyfriends prior to me. It was never an issue to me.
 

Nitemare

Lifer
Feb 8, 2001
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Ran into Angelina Jolie the other day at Quicky Mart and she wanted to have sex with me right then and there....then I remembered Billy Bob was in that a few years ago and I called her a skank and pushed her aside.....


Who cares who they were with, unless of course he was a porn star or something?
 

HomerJS

Lifer
Feb 6, 2002
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This is an easy answer...

Guy who will not date girl outside his race...not necessarily racist.

Guy who won't date girl in own race cause she dated outside her race...racist!

BTW - I would ask would you rather follow Tommy Lee or Denzel Washington??
 

JackStorm

Golden Member
Aug 26, 2003
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Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Think again Hitler.

Comments like this aren't helping. At least try to give some constructive criticism to help the guy improve.
 

arcenite

Lifer
Dec 9, 2001
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I am engaged to a girl who "once dated a black guy" who the f!ck cares, she's with you now. Unless you're worried about your penis size there OP ;)
 

djheater

Lifer
Mar 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: JackStorm
Originally posted by: djheater
Originally posted by: armatron
this is a serious poll. I always considered myself not racist... I don't (or try not to) judge people when I meet them, etc etc... but there's this girl who I found out date(d) a black guy... and for some reason I was immediately turned off by it...

Think again Hitler.

Comments like this aren't helping. At least try to give some constructive criticism to help the guy improve.


It's preposterous that anyone would try and justify that behavior.

Sometimes a good kick in the nuts is necessary to make a person stop and reflect that MAYBE their fvcked in the head and need to sort their sh!t out.

If enough people stand up and say, "You're wrong you fvcking 'tard" maybe it'll stick.
 

DivideBYZero

Lifer
May 18, 2001
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It's all about cock size. The OP has a mini-wang, no doubt.

What other reason could there be? For example:

- Girl had Black male friend = OK
- Girl had sex with Black guy = Not OK

Difference is wang. Reason for paranoia and racial issue = wang size.

Wang wang wang wang wang.




wang.
 

JackStorm

Golden Member
Aug 26, 2003
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Originally posted by: djheater
It's preposterous that anyone would try and justify that behavior.

Well, I know I wasn't trying to justify it(Read the entire thread and you'll see). Just trying to give the guy constructive criticism without being hostile. Same with the rest who tried to give him constructive criticism.


Sometimes a good kick in the nuts is necessary to make a person stop and reflect that MAYBE their fvcked in the head and need to sort their sh!t out.

If enough people stand up and say, "You're wrong you fvcking 'tard" maybe it'll stick.

Heh...Only if the first method fails.
 

PingSpike

Lifer
Feb 25, 2004
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Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
It's all about cock size. The OP has a mini-wang, no doubt.

What other reason could there be? For example:

- Girl had Black male friend = OK
- Girl had sex with Black guy = Not OK

Difference is wang. Reason for paranoia and racial issue = wang size.

Wang wang wang wang wang.




wang.

No one wants to be second best!
 

DivideBYZero

Lifer
May 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
It's all about cock size. The OP has a mini-wang, no doubt.

What other reason could there be? For example:

- Girl had Black male friend = OK
- Girl had sex with Black guy = Not OK

Difference is wang. Reason for paranoia and racial issue = wang size.

Wang wang wang wang wang.




wang.

No one wants to be second best!

Teh truth!
 

JackStorm

Golden Member
Aug 26, 2003
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Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
It's all about cock size. The OP has a mini-wang, no doubt.

What other reason could there be? For example:

- Girl had Black male friend = OK
- Girl had sex with Black guy = Not OK

Difference is wang. Reason for paranoia and racial issue = wang size.

Wang wang wang wang wang.




wang.

This is possible, however the OP hasn't said anything to indicate that is the case. Not that anyone with that issue would. :p
 

Ikonomi

Diamond Member
Dec 19, 2003
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Hey armatron, I'm going to pre-fuck every girl you're interested in so you'll remain a virgin for the rest of your life.
 

Queasy

Moderator<br>Console Gaming
Aug 24, 2001
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Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: DivideBYZero
It's all about cock size. The OP has a mini-wang, no doubt.

What other reason could there be? For example:

- Girl had Black male friend = OK
- Girl had sex with Black guy = Not OK

Difference is wang. Reason for paranoia and racial issue = wang size.

Wang wang wang wang wang.




wang.

No one wants to be second best!

Teh truth!

I say we all pitch in and buy the OP one of these. :D