if you're white, would you date a girl who has dated a black man?

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moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open
guess what? unfortunately more ignorance is also being encouraged here.

i wish we could confirm that it was doing more good than harm.

your opinions are the most ignorant of the group. all you've done is flame from post one.
get bent.

my opinion is shared by half of the posters in this thread. it is not flaming to call the OP what he is.

you are the one who is personally attacking someone, because i am far from ignorant.

 

PlatinumGold

Lifer
Aug 11, 2000
23,168
0
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open
guess what? unfortunately more ignorance is also being encouraged here.

i wish we could confirm that it was doing more good than harm.

your opinions are the most ignorant of the group. all you've done is flame from post one.
get bent.

my opinion is shared by half of the posters in this thread. it is not flaming to call the OP what he is.

you are the one who is personally attacking someone, because i am far from ignorant.

apparently reading isn't one of your skills. i never said you were ignorant. i don't know you enough to say that. i said your opinions were. and to be more specific since it seems to require that i draw this out for you. the opinions you've shared in this thread regarding this topic are ignorant.

 

Arkitech

Diamond Member
Apr 13, 2000
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Originally posted by: PlatinumGold


yup. if only one more person can see that you really can't dictate personal feelings like love or attraction, then mb we'll all get along just a little better.

you guys get off on this like it's your religion or something. if a christian were as dogmatic about his belief in God, he would get SOOOO flamed. :roll:


Just because its a personal preference does'nt make it right. It was Hitler's personal preference to wipe out the Jews but I guess because it was his personal preference then that makes it ok. And before you start with the argument that the OP's personal preference does'nt harm anyone keep in my mind that discriminatory attitudes and actions often start small and grow into larger issues. Today its a guy not dating women who've dated black guys, tomorrow its not wanting to live in the same neighborhood with minorities. Next week its exchanging racial slurs and jokes. Racial discrimination is wrong no matter how you look it, that personal preference argument is a cop out.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
61,504
12
56
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open
guess what? unfortunately more ignorance is also being encouraged here.

i wish we could confirm that it was doing more good than harm.

your opinions are the most ignorant of the group. all you've done is flame from post one.
get bent.

my opinion is shared by half of the posters in this thread. it is not flaming to call the OP what he is.

you are the one who is personally attacking someone, because i am far from ignorant.

apparently reading isn't one of your skills. i never said you were ignorant. i don't know you enough to say that. i said your opinions were. and to be more specific since it seems to require that i draw this out for you. the opinions you've shared in this thread regarding this topic are ignorant.
if you say my opinions are ignorant the conclusion drawn is that i am ignorant.
now you are adding that i am illiterate. keep adding to the list :roll:
point still remains you are flaming me in the same breath you are accusing me of flaming.

how about you just stfu?
 

Bumrush99

Diamond Member
Jun 14, 2004
3,334
194
106
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open
guess what? unfortunately more ignorance is also being encouraged here.

i wish we could confirm that it was doing more good than harm.

Well I can personally tell you that my initial reaction to the OP was mixed, in the sense that I was able to justify his attitude and respect it.. That is no longer the case, so yes it has changed at least one opinion.

 

Arkitech

Diamond Member
Apr 13, 2000
8,356
4
76
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: Arkitech
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open

I guess there's some merit in it, but some of these people's outlooks are sickening.

Hey, nothing that has been said here should come as a shock. Hell everytime there is a post about Jews or Mexicans or Asians, a small percentage of the posters decide to skirt the original post or issue and turn it in to a flameflest. My point being, don't take it personally Arkitech, every "minority" group gets the same treatment here, remember, this forum is a sampling of various ethnic groups from different regions with different life experiences. At the same time, do you really think they would say some of these things to your face in the real world? The answer is no, so in that sense ingorance is bliss :D

I'm just fed up with people who discriminate, unfortunately I deal with a few people like that on my job. One of the worst feelings in the world is for people to judge you in a negative manner for no other reason than the color of your skin. Its just a horrible experience no matter how many times it happens. For some people it does'nt matter if you're a good or kind person, it does'nt matter that you're a decent and hardworking citizen. The only thing some people see is color and because of that you get treated like sh!t. It makes me furious.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
83,769
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Originally posted by: mztykal

Go take it up with the complaint department. I'm far from racist. I just hate ghetto people. That includes all ghetto people that think they're god and act like they're badass. That should sum it up. Call me racist, I really don't care. It's my opinion. Funny part is, my good friend is black, and he says the same thing (he wouldn't date a chick that had sex with a black dude either). So the black guy is racist too?

Damn racist and elitest, yet pick a handle like Mytykal spelled all ghetto and stuff.

Wow just wow. :confused:
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
83,769
19
81
Originally posted by: moshquerade
if you say my opinions are ignorant the conclusion drawn is that i am ignorant.
now you are adding that i am illiterate. keep adding to the list :roll:
point still remains you are flaming me in the same breath you are accusing me of flaming.

how about you just stfu?

Ignorant was saying this thread should die because it sickens you...out of sight is out of mind?

how about unsubcribing and let those discuss that would like to?

I haven't seen anything hear really cross the line it's all in the realm of opinions now with explainations.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
61,504
12
56
Originally posted by: Arkitech
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: Arkitech
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open

I guess there's some merit in it, but some of these people's outlooks are sickening.

Hey, nothing that has been said here should come as a shock. Hell everytime there is a post about Jews or Mexicans or Asians, a small percentage of the posters decide to skirt the original post or issue and turn it in to a flameflest. My point being, don't take it personally Arkitech, every "minority" group gets the same treatment here, remember, this forum is a sampling of various ethnic groups from different regions with different life experiences. At the same time, do you really think they would say some of these things to your face in the real world? The answer is no, so in that sense ingorance is bliss :D

I'm just fed up with people who discriminate, unfortunately I deal with a few people like that on my job. One of the worst feelings in the world is for people to judge you in a negative manner for no other reason than the color of your skin. Its just a horrible experience no matter how many times it happens. For some people it does'nt matter if you're a good or kind person, it does'nt matter that you're a decent and hardworking citizen. The only thing some people see is color and because of that you get treated like sh!t. It makes me furious.
that sucks man. won't it be funny when these people who discriminate against black people because of their skin color get to the Pearly Gates and realize God really does look like Morgan Freeman? ;)

 

Bumrush99

Diamond Member
Jun 14, 2004
3,334
194
106
Originally posted by: Arkitech
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: Arkitech
Originally posted by: Bumrush99
Originally posted by: moshquerade
let this thread die. it just gets more and more sickening as the posts continue.

Killing this thread will do nothing to encourage less ignorance. The ignorant people will remain ignorant, yet if this post can change one opinion or open up one persons eyes it will be worth keeping open

I guess there's some merit in it, but some of these people's outlooks are sickening.

Hey, nothing that has been said here should come as a shock. Hell everytime there is a post about Jews or Mexicans or Asians, a small percentage of the posters decide to skirt the original post or issue and turn it in to a flameflest. My point being, don't take it personally Arkitech, every "minority" group gets the same treatment here, remember, this forum is a sampling of various ethnic groups from different regions with different life experiences. At the same time, do you really think they would say some of these things to your face in the real world? The answer is no, so in that sense ingorance is bliss :D

I'm just fed up with people who discriminate, unfortunately I deal with a few people like that on my job. One of the worst feelings in the world is for people to judge you in a negative manner for no other reason than the color of your skin. Its just a horrible experience no matter how many times it happens. For some people it does'nt matter if you're a good or kind person, it does'nt matter that you're a decent and hardworking citizen. The only thing some people see is color and because of that you get treated like sh!t. It makes me furious.

Time for me to be blunt- F*ck Em. Seriously, if you want to live a long and healthy life, look at those people as ignorant idiots that will never "get it". Understand that you can not change people, that the only thing you can change is how you react to them. Have you pondered the possiblity that you have built a wall around yourself which makes you super-sensitive to race issues, which in turn may blur the true intentions of the "questionable" people around you.. I'm not saying that is case, just thinking out loud.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
61,504
12
56
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: moshquerade
if you say my opinions are ignorant the conclusion drawn is that i am ignorant.
now you are adding that i am illiterate. keep adding to the list :roll:
point still remains you are flaming me in the same breath you are accusing me of flaming.

how about you just stfu?

Ignorant was saying this thread should die because it sickens you...out of sight is out of mind?

how about unsubcribing and let those discuss that would like to?

I haven't seen anything hear really cross the line it's all in the realm of opinions now with explainations.
i have a right to say what i want. you have a right not to read my posts. some of the stuff posted in this thread is sickening and more racists than the OP have come out of the woodwork to join him. anything that smacks of racism is sickening. that is undebateable.

 

AStar617

Diamond Member
Sep 29, 2002
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Wow, glad I jumped out of this one when I did, first page or so.

(/checks hair and clothes for singed edges from stray flames :evil: )
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
83,769
19
81
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: PlatinumGold
your opinions are the most ignorant of the group. all you've done is flame from post one.
get bent.

my opinion is shared by half of the posters in this thread. it is not flaming to call the OP what he is.

you are the one who is personally attacking someone, because i am far from ignorant.

He was exactly right....you have complained and have done nothing to explain anything...typical jump on a soapbox and have no idea on the issue other than popularity. 'get bent' was a rather personal attack in and of itself and equally ignorant...also your ignorance is reflected in the fact that you seem to think half the posters here share YOUR opinion.....regardless of assuming that was correct, it is not a majority anyway and shows the other half has something valid to say as well.

You seem to be the typical book burner that becomes content noone else can experience things that you personally do not share interest in.