I just caught my Dad cheating on my Mom :(

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: MBrown

Originally posted by: guidomyte
Instead of being there in this time of crisis, you are on a stupid forum...

I hate it for you man, he did wrong...

I am in my bedroom and I can here them screaming.

good luck. hope things work out OK for your family

 

[imported_Crusader]

Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
he's only adult enough to fight him because the american solution to any conflict is to kick ass regardless of skill, thats why the war in iraq is still going because you lot just charged in guns blazing seemingly without thought, but A+++ for enthusiasm to kick saddams ass.

but at least your gov gives your army the means to do this... great tanks, ships, aircraft, guns...the works. british troops dragged along with the US get landrovers with bullet proof vests.

anyway this isnt a thread on iraq (which by rights should be in P&N getting chargrilled)

LOL!
I'm reading this thread and it has NOTHING to do with the War on Terror.. yet someone makes some insane connection!
Libs are out of control.

Originally posted by: UberNeuman
Sounds like the 20 year man should start acting like one, but he's going to hang onto his Jesus stick, swinging blindly into night.....

Thats bullshit.
Just because you dont believe what he believes doesnt mean its some "blind Jesus stick". Have some respect for other peoples religons and quit being a little *****, religon isnt going anywhere so deal with it. :disgust:

Originally posted by: DarkKnight69

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

Are you effing retarded. I am 21 and if my dad EVER touched my mom it would mean his ass on the floor...

I wanted to hit my dad many times growing up, being a testosterone ridden youth myself.
But I'm so glad I never gave in.
For one, I would have deserved a royal beat down. And you do need one now, still to this day apparantly.

You dont hit your father. Even if hes a lowlife, you dont do that. You respect both of your parents.
If your dad hits your mom, you call 911.

I have a great relationship with my mother and father (who are not divorced) and you dont get that if you resort to popping your old man because you are a punk b!tch who needs to grow a pair and be a man who respects both of his parents.
Anyone who advocates hitting their father is scum of the earth and you need an aluminum bat in your face (and I hope when you attack your father you get it :thumbsup: )
Go Team Internet Tough Guy!




OP- The only thing to do now is quit being emotional and suggest to your parents that you all go to professional family counseling. For years. Its your only hope at all.
Otherwise, this marriage is over like DMichael said. His scenario is pretty close to what will happen otherwise.

 

[UberNeuman]

o' little Crusader, you are so fighting the wrong battle....

/cliff notes - mom and son need to move ON WITH THEIR LIVES AND QUIT CLINGING TO DADDY....

 

[imthebadguy]

dude.....telling on your dad?? idk man, maybe there was another way to diffuse the situation

 

[g0dMAn]

I wish you the best of luck, but as other ppl have said, you didn't have to call your mom... shoulda talked to dad first.

Your mom would obviously take your word over it if your dad wasn't willing to cooperate with you and if you had to go to mom as a last resort.

 

[archiloco]

yeah i would of confronted dad there, try and keep your mom out of it till you have more info......dont' want to stress her out so much over something that can be kept on the DL

 

[randay]

cock blocking is not cool.

 

[Turin39789]

I smell some Oedipus up in here

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: Turin39789
I smell some Oedipus up in here

LOL

 

[pontifex]

this thread is 17 pages long and we still have people saying the same things that were said like 20 times in the 1st few pages...:roll:

 

[chambersc]

Originally posted by: pontifex
this thread is 17 pages long and we still have people saying the same things that were said like 20 times in the 1st few pages...:roll:

On my forums, it's only 4 pages.

 

[911paramedic]

Originally posted by: chambersc

Originally posted by: pontifex
this thread is 17 pages long and we still have people saying the same things that were said like 20 times in the 1st few pages...:roll:

On my forums, it's only 4 pages.

Ditto, lets hear it for the 100 replies per page setting.

...and

randay
cock blocking is not cool.

LOL

 

[StatsManD]

Sorry but IMHO your mom needs to kick him to the curb and get a divorce ASAP, given the fact that this isn't his first time. He clearly can't be faithful, and will only hurt her again.

 

[JEDIYoda]

Originally posted by: DarkSide50420
well man ive been in a soemwhat situation like yours.. my step dad came home drunk out his ****** mind (he's not supposed to drink hard liquor) my mom and him started arguing and then he started to get in her face and he raised his hand a her.. that was it for me i beat the living ****** out of him then called the cops... now before i came out my room i heard glass break.. and found out he threw a beer bottle at his 9yo daughter and my 8yo sister.. so the cops came and took him away.. brought him to his sisters house to cool down.. 5 minutes later he was back looking for me but he didnt see me so he grabbed my moms neck asking where i was then i said im right here bitch and at that second of seeing his hand around my moms neck my vision was nothing but black and red i beat his ass so hard he was Knocked out and didnt wake up for 36 hours (he woke up with a broken jaw and sitting in jail wondering wtf..did i do..) well over all is you handled your situation a hell out alot better than i did but my step dad had what was comming to him..(they're back together again..-_- ) but good luck with your problems i hope it all turns out somewhat ok for you than it did for me..

There is always one macho one in the crowd...lol
You can be anything you want on the internet...lolool

 

[JEDIYoda]

Originally posted by: BoomerD
Anyone else notice we haven't heard from the OP in a while on this? Maybe his dad got revenge for him snitching to his mom...

Maybe his dad reported him to the SPCA...lol