I just read he is 20 y.o.
he comes off as a 10 year old girl.
At what age should we stop cutting this guy slack and start telling him to grow a pair?
I couldn't beat up my dad if I tried, but if he laid a finger on my mom, he would have to get past me first.
Good thing, that after counseling and some other things in my family, my parents can't be more in love than they are now, and my dad would not even think about doing anything abusive.
But now, whenever I see a guy hit a girl, my mind kind of blanks for a few seconds and I just feel this overwhelming rage. I can't even stand it in movies. I get sick to my stomache. If some guy even manhandled a girl around me, I am pretty sure that I would lose control. I don't even know if I could hold back, and I am pretty much a pacifist, to my dad's chagrin. He says I am not aggressive enough. I always seem to hold back when I am sparring with anyone. But if I saw a guy mistreat a girl, they would more than likely be on the floor.
To OP,
Your parents need to go to counseling. If they are religious, do a counseling with a religious leader. It helps.
I agree on calling Mom to come down to the B&N being a bad move. What would you have done if it was a co-worker? Or family friend, or anything like that? Bad move.
Get off the forum and go to counseling. Situation may have gone a bit better if you had confronted your dad about what was going on first, and then let him be man enough to talk to his wife, who he should love, about it. If that doesn't work, then call him out on it.
Nobody likes a hysterical mom in the middle of B&N while trying to drink their coffee and read in silence. If you think a few chats in the kitchen solves the problem, you are poorly mistaken. Something went wrong way before this that put your parents in the position they are now.
Get off the forum and go to counseling. Situation may have gone a bit better if you had confronted your dad about what was going on first, and then let him be man enough to talk to his wife, who he should love, about it. If that doesn't work, then call him out on it.
Nobody likes a hysterical mom in the middle of B&N while trying to drink their coffee and read in silence. If you think a few chats in the kitchen solves the problem, you are poorly mistaken. Something went wrong way before this that put your parents in the position they are now.
I am intrigued by your ideas and wish to subscribe to your newsletter.
After all, I have seen your wife. :evil:
- M4H
eits
Lifer
so, offering advice/support to someone who's going through a rough time with his family is somehow cutting the guy slack? how about YOU grow a pair and quit pretending to be this macho, hardcore asshole who's been through it all.
fvck sake...
try and make some sense will you?
There is nothing macho or hardcore about acting like an adult when you are 20 years old. Its expected. I have nothing to say about this overgrown baby still living with both parents at 20 except to GTFO of the house and get your own life.
MichaelD
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- Jan 16, 2001
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You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?" How freaking stupid are you? Your Dad pulled the CLASSIC "meet a chick move"; he joined a church. Do you have any idea how many bulllshit artists, male and female, pretend to be religious just so they can meet someone? I saw hundreds of them on a weekly basis when I was living in San Antonio, TX.
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
How freaking stupid are you? Your Dad pulled the CLASSIC "meet a chick move"; he joined a church. Do you have any idea how many bulllshit artists, male and female, pretend to be religious just so they can meet someone? I saw hundreds of them on a weekly basis when I was living in San Antonio, TX. These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
HeroOfPellinor
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- Dec 27, 2001
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Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
Aren't you divorced yourself?
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Experience!!!Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
Aren't you divorced yourself?
CPA
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- Nov 19, 2001
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Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
OP, listen to this man, he speaketh the truth.
For more evidence of MichaelD truth/inspiration, look no further than my sig.
Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
Now Testify!
- M4H
SmoochyTX
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- Apr 19, 2003
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Werd. :clock:Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
MmmSkyscraper
Diamond Member
- Jul 6, 2004
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Originally posted by: MichaelD
You know...I wasn't gonna go there; re: all the Jesus stuff being mentioned.
But now that the OP has opened the barn door, the bulls must run out.
You hoped your Dad would "hear the word?"
These same sluts (male and female) that you'd see at the club on Friday would be leaving the One Holy Savior My Buddy Jesus and His Pals Church porking lot...er, PARKING lot on Sunday, after services. I know this not b/c I attended (hell no!) but b/c my GF at the time lived up the block. We'd sit in the BBQ place across the highway and watch the hypocrites as we sucked down a rack or four of ribs.
Organized Christian religion is the biggest singles scene scam in the history of sex. Dad was on a roll...and you slowed it. Smooth move, Exlax.
You were a child when your parents marriage failed; sorry about that...not your fault. But, as a modern young person, you think you have a bigger brain than you really do. Not your fault; you've been taught this by TV and the internet. Reality has now kicked your small scrotum back up into your gut where it belongs.
Your Mom's a religous freak; she thinks Jesus will fix her broken marriage. Your Dad is a typical man; horndog to the end and God bless him for being honest about it, at least. You...need help. Get it.
Allow me to tell you the future.
Mom and Dad will divorce.
Dad will move in with a girl half his age. Within one year, she will dump him, steal his money and get him arrested somehow.
Mom will not have sex for the next 6 years; until she meets "Fred." Fred will be 20 years older than her and "stable." She will meet him at church.
He will cheat on her as well, but she will ignore it b/c she is "happy."
You...will either get your head fixed or become a flaky clothing designer living in NYC.
Pick one.
Good luck.
Money Mike is in the house. Listen to what he has to say.
Mom knows that Dad has always cheated and always will and has decided to pretend it doesn't happen. She's either decided she can't do any better or that what Dad gives her is enough for her to be happy. But like all such arrangements, Mom doesn't want the cheating rubbed in her face.
... Enter the OP who forces her to confront the cheating and to have someone else witness her shame. I doubt there will be a divorce, but if there is it's not because of the cheating but because they're forced to confront it.
I agree with those that say the OP should have confronted Dad first. Dad would have explained that Mom already knows, and that the OP interfering wouldn't solve anything.
eits
Lifer
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