I just caught my Dad cheating on my Mom :(

[MBrown]

I went to Barnes and Nobles with my buddy and I saw my Dad's car in the parking lot. I went in and there he was with another woman. I called my Mom and she bolted down to B and N and went off on him. She is telling him off right now in the kitchen. My Dad just told my Mom to get her finger out of his face. If my Dad lays ONE finger on my Mom he is going to be bleeding on the floor. :| :| :|

UPDATE:Everything has fine for right now. I heard the word "divorce" thrown around a few times. My Mom came into my room asking me if everything was OK. Eventually we all made our way to the kitchen and some tears were shed. I talked to my dad one on one. We had a real deep convo. My mom came and we continued to real deep convo. Too long to even cliff up. It looks like the whole family is going to start again from scratch. We have a lot of bumps to be ironed out. I will post an update later on.

 

[guidomyte]

Instead of being there in this time of crisis, you are on a stupid forum...

I hate it for you man, he did wrong...

 

[yankeesfan]

Keep us updated rather than diffusing the situation.

 

[eldorado99]

Wow, heavy... Good luck. I hope everything turns out for the best!

 

[Anubis]

would have been smarter to conforont your dad instead of calling mom IMO

 

[hypn0tik]

This thread is going places.

Marked for future updates.

 

[MBrown]

Originally posted by: guidomyte
Instead of being there in this time of crisis, you are on a stupid forum...

I hate it for you man, he did wrong...

I am in my bedroom and I can here them screaming.

 

[akshatp]

You called your mom and told her before talking to your dad about it? How do you know it wasn't an innocent meeting between friends?

And WHY are you posting on this forum during all of this?????


EDIT: I am thinking that this will be the thread that gets me through the slow night at work tonight.

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: MBrown

Originally posted by: guidomyte
Instead of being there in this time of crisis, you are on a stupid forum...

I hate it for you man, he did wrong...

I am in my bedroom and I can here them screaming.

Sounds like you need to call the cops instead...if it gets too heated, you may wish you had never gotten involved...

Play it smart...

 

[her209]

How old are you MBrown?

 

[IronWing]

What were your dad and the other woman doing in B&N that led you to conclude they were hooking up as opposed to shopping?

 

[MBrown]

Originally posted by: her209
How old are you MBrown?

20

 

[HamburgerBoy]

:camera:'s?

 

[Ronstang]

You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: akshatp
You called your mom and told her before talking to your dad about it? How do you know it wasn't an innocent meeting between friends?

And WHY are you posting on this forum during all of this?????


EDIT: I am thinking that this will be the thread that gets me through the slow night at work tonight.

That is still explainable...it has apparently gone to far for it to be a misunderstanding..
Sounds like he was caught...
Pretty sh!tty if you ask me..but you didn't ask me...

 

[akshatp]

You are 20 and you couldn't confront your dad, instead calling your mom and having her make a scene in public?

How old are your parents?

 

[meltdown75]

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

You're a little off....

If your father is capable of hurting someone else, you are, as an adult, responsible for stopping that...If you don't you are just as guilty as he...

 

[MBrown]

Originally posted by: ironwing
What were your dad and the other woman doing in B&N that led you to conclude they were hooking up as opposed to shopping?

He is way to nice to this woman. She calls the house all the time and I've seen them talking any times before. He has tried cheating on my Mom before and she kicked him downstairs on the couch for a while. So I know what I saw.

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

You're a little off....

If your father is capable of hurting someone else, you are, as an adult, responsible for stopping that...If you don't you are just as guilty as he...

Stopping your father from hitting your mom is one thing, beating him up is another...

 

[Falloutboy]

should of stayed out of it.

should of told your dad later to nock it off in private but calling your mom was the WRONG move.

 

[guidomyte]

Originally posted by: akshatp

Originally posted by: guidomyte

Originally posted by: Ronstang
You don't hit your father, regardless of what he has done. Chill out. I don't care what others tell you but this is between your mother and your father.

You're a little off....

If your father is capable of hurting someone else, you are, as an adult, responsible for stopping that...If you don't you are just as guilty as he...

Stopping your father from hitting your mom is one thing, beating him up is another...

I didn't say bodyslam him...defend those who couldn't do it on their own...

 

[SmoochyTX]

SmoochyTX again prefers to watch from the corner.

 

[akshatp]

Originally posted by: MBrown

Originally posted by: ironwing
What were your dad and the other woman doing in B&N that led you to conclude they were hooking up as opposed to shopping?

He is way to nice to this woman. She calls the house all the time and I've seen them talking any times before. He has tried cheating on my Mom before and she kicked him downstairs on the couch for a while. So I know what I saw.

You obviously don't have a great relationship with your father, and to be honest it sounds like you are way biased towards your mom.

Talk about being guilty until proven innocent.

 

[michaels]

yeah well maybe he is in the wrong but maybe your mom is an unloving bitch towards him and has drove him away. Don't be so fast to jump to conclusions.