MercenaryForHire
Lifer
Originally posted by: Connoisseur
Originally posted by: HotChic
1. She wasn't trying to "force" you to do anything. If you had said "no thanks" and walked away, there's a darn good chance she would have left you alone.
2. Know that from her perspective, she's doing something nice. If you find her intent to be of any value, she intended well.
3. I didn't see any arrogance in what she said to you - she talked about her reasons for thinking her religion was correct. I don't see that she put your religion or any other down in any way. In fact, you're doing more putting down than she did.
Furthermore, I personally thought it was arrogant of her to come up to me. Once again, going back to the cook analogy. Let's say we both made apple pie: I like mine, and you like yours. But then I tell you, out of the blue, that you should make your apple pie just like mine because mine is the best way to make it, wouldn't that be arrogant of me? If cooking isn't your strong suite, then just picture any other situation which you WOULD feel strongly about.
So why didn't you just pull something up as a dismissal, be it from the nice:
"Thanks, but I'm happy with my faith, gonna be late for class. Bye."
Right down to the Bonobo Ape style:
"F*** the hell off, (insert racist epithets and profanity) you (repeat as necessary)" (throw feces)
There's a pretty big scale in there, and you couldn't pick just one telloff? 😛
- M4H