Voodooextreme, that's basically it...i just drove over to their house and asked to talk to her, took her outside and apologized (it takes guts to just go up and do that, wow...heh)...anyway, that's basically it..her bf opened the door and basically just said hi and then dissapeared back off inside....heh
and no, i didn't send the letter to the cops, but some of my friends have it, and if anything ever happened to me i'm sure they'd know what to do...also, i found out, he leaves town in ~1.5months, and the gurl leaves sometime next year also, i just hope he doesn't pull his sh*t on some other person out ther someday.