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The Linuxator

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Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
Obviously!! The OP needs to stop making excuses trying to rationalize said fear, and seek help asap.

What fear ??
seek help ?? I am living a perfectly nice life I don't see what you could help with ?
When I said seek help, I wasn't talking about from me, or from anyone else you might meet on the internet, I meant professional help.

You claim not to be gay, but you have no intention of even trying to have physical contact with a woman. You claim that you don't believe in pre marital sex, and in the same breath say you see no reason to get married. Now I've known quite a few people who also say they aren't believers of pre marital sex, however all of them fought the temptation, and some even gave into it.

Have you I wonder? You've been in college for at least 2 years, right? During that time, how many dates have you gone on? How many times have you made out with a woman?


Since I started college I had about three dates they went ok, but no results.
What do you mean there were no results? Of course there were!!! What happened?? Were there any second dates?

There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.
 

Muadib

Lifer
May 30, 2000
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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
Obviously!! The OP needs to stop making excuses trying to rationalize said fear, and seek help asap.

What fear ??
seek help ?? I am living a perfectly nice life I don't see what you could help with ?
When I said seek help, I wasn't talking about from me, or from anyone else you might meet on the internet, I meant professional help.

You claim not to be gay, but you have no intention of even trying to have physical contact with a woman. You claim that you don't believe in pre marital sex, and in the same breath say you see no reason to get married. Now I've known quite a few people who also say they aren't believers of pre marital sex, however all of them fought the temptation, and some even gave into it.

Have you I wonder? You've been in college for at least 2 years, right? During that time, how many dates have you gone on? How many times have you made out with a woman?


Since I started college I had about three dates they went ok, but no results.
What do you mean there were no results? Of course there were!!! What happened?? Were there any second dates?

There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.
Well if you don't have time because of your classes, then I understand completely, and I commend you. However, if you are spending your time elsewhere, I simply must know on what?

 

The Linuxator

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Jun 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
Obviously!! The OP needs to stop making excuses trying to rationalize said fear, and seek help asap.

What fear ??
seek help ?? I am living a perfectly nice life I don't see what you could help with ?
When I said seek help, I wasn't talking about from me, or from anyone else you might meet on the internet, I meant professional help.

You claim not to be gay, but you have no intention of even trying to have physical contact with a woman. You claim that you don't believe in pre marital sex, and in the same breath say you see no reason to get married. Now I've known quite a few people who also say they aren't believers of pre marital sex, however all of them fought the temptation, and some even gave into it.

Have you I wonder? You've been in college for at least 2 years, right? During that time, how many dates have you gone on? How many times have you made out with a woman?


Since I started college I had about three dates they went ok, but no results.
What do you mean there were no results? Of course there were!!! What happened?? Were there any second dates?

There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.
Well if you don't have time because of your classes, then I understand completely, and I commend you. However, if you are spending your time elsewhere, I simply must know on what?


No I spend my time working on projects and studying for exams and finishing up programms, I am a double major in CSE EE and I have about 18 credit hours per semester enough to drive me crazy in addition to work, so girls are my last concern during school. in the summer I am working extra hours and chillin from a long academc year so No time for girls in that scheduele too.
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.

ROTFLMAO. Plans for a "bang bang." LMAO
 

Muadib

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May 30, 2000
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Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
Obviously!! The OP needs to stop making excuses trying to rationalize said fear, and seek help asap.

What fear ??
seek help ?? I am living a perfectly nice life I don't see what you could help with ?
When I said seek help, I wasn't talking about from me, or from anyone else you might meet on the internet, I meant professional help.

You claim not to be gay, but you have no intention of even trying to have physical contact with a woman. You claim that you don't believe in pre marital sex, and in the same breath say you see no reason to get married. Now I've known quite a few people who also say they aren't believers of pre marital sex, however all of them fought the temptation, and some even gave into it.

Have you I wonder? You've been in college for at least 2 years, right? During that time, how many dates have you gone on? How many times have you made out with a woman?


Since I started college I had about three dates they went ok, but no results.
What do you mean there were no results? Of course there were!!! What happened?? Were there any second dates?

There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.
Well if you don't have time because of your classes, then I understand completely, and I commend you. However, if you are spending your time elsewhere, I simply must know on what?


No I spend my time working on projects and studying for exams and finishing up programms, I am a double major in CSE EE and I have about 18 credit hours per semester enough to drive me crazy in addition to work, so girls are my last concern during school. in the summer I am working extra hours and chillin from a long academc year so No time for girls in that scheduele too.
Well then carry on!!! However, be sure to bump this in 2 years, after you finish school.

 

The Linuxator

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Jun 13, 2005
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Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Muadib
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
Obviously!! The OP needs to stop making excuses trying to rationalize said fear, and seek help asap.

What fear ??
seek help ?? I am living a perfectly nice life I don't see what you could help with ?
When I said seek help, I wasn't talking about from me, or from anyone else you might meet on the internet, I meant professional help.

You claim not to be gay, but you have no intention of even trying to have physical contact with a woman. You claim that you don't believe in pre marital sex, and in the same breath say you see no reason to get married. Now I've known quite a few people who also say they aren't believers of pre marital sex, however all of them fought the temptation, and some even gave into it.

Have you I wonder? You've been in college for at least 2 years, right? During that time, how many dates have you gone on? How many times have you made out with a woman?


Since I started college I had about three dates they went ok, but no results.
What do you mean there were no results? Of course there were!!! What happened?? Were there any second dates?

There was a second date with one and one date with the other.
The time that I went with the first girl twice she totally liked me but I wasn't that much into her though she was very attractive, but I really gave it a thought after the 2nd date that she isn't the one for me so I let her slip.
And after the 2nd girl realized that there were no plans for a bang bang after the first date, she went were she can find the bang bang of here dreams so there you have it.
And I don't really have much time to date, those were just attempts so that I can find out more about girls that got my attention(for a short period at least) that's all.
Well if you don't have time because of your classes, then I understand completely, and I commend you. However, if you are spending your time elsewhere, I simply must know on what?


No I spend my time working on projects and studying for exams and finishing up programms, I am a double major in CSE EE and I have about 18 credit hours per semester enough to drive me crazy in addition to work, so girls are my last concern during school. in the summer I am working extra hours and chillin from a long academc year so No time for girls in that scheduele too.
Well then carry on!!! However, be sure to bump this in 2 years, after you finish school.


As I said in my first post, we are talking about post graduation , during that dinner with my parents, so it's really after my graduation that I will be able to make decesion, But the way I am looking at it, I will be going for my masters degree and by the time I finish and settle down for a Job and start building my life, it will be too late for starting a family, and maybe that will be better otherwise you would have my children coming here to AT and complaining how I whiped there a$$e$ hard with a belt because they used windows once :p
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: mugs
I'm not going to read the thread, I'm just going to say... wtf?! :confused:

I'll sum up the thread for you in three points.

1. Having kids is stupid.

2. Linuxator has no desire to "bury his wire."

3. JLGatsby is always right.
 

LookingGlass

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: mugs
I'm not going to read the thread, I'm just going to say... wtf?! :confused:

I'll sum up the thread for you in three points.

1. Having kids is stupid.

2. Linuxator has no desire to "bury his wire."

3. JLGatsby is always right.


Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.

Oh for gawd's sakes, quit with the troll accusations.

Yeah, anyone who makes a comment that isn't bland is all the sudden a troll.
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.

Oh for gawd's sakes, quit with the troll accusations.

Yeah, anyone who makes a comment that isn't bland is all the sudden a troll.

It's pretty well-established that you're a troll.
 

LookingGlass

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.

Oh for gawd's sakes, quit with the troll accusations.

Yeah, anyone who makes a comment that isn't bland is all the sudden a troll.


Seems I am not the only one that has called you a troll. You are negative, your posts speak for themselves. Quit being such a pompous ass all the time.


Anyway, back on topic. Only time will tell for the OP.
 

waggy

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.

Oh for gawd's sakes, quit with the troll accusations.

Yeah, anyone who makes a comment that isn't bland is all the sudden a troll.

It's pretty well-established that you're a troll.

yeap i think he is a troll myself.
 

BD2003

Lifer
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Originally posted by: waggy
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Someone that says he is always right is a troll, and is himself one of the stupid kids.

Oh for gawd's sakes, quit with the troll accusations.

Yeah, anyone who makes a comment that isn't bland is all the sudden a troll.

It's pretty well-established that you're a troll.

yeap i think he is a troll myself.

I second that motion.
 

astrocase

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You're either a troll or have some serious issues that you need to sort out away from this forum. First thing's first. Get off the computer. Second. Go talk to someone who can help you like your friends, family, or a shrink. To go through college and only have 3 dates, not want to get married and not want to have sex until you're married (as if that makes a lick of sense), as well as want to go and get a master's degree to not start your life right away shows a weird need to distance yourself from women. Do you think that you can somehow start dating at 30 with no experience and not come across as some complete freak? You're going to scare the hell out of women when you take them out to dinner and all you can talk about is school and have no clue how to be intimate when they take you home (since you won't have a clue how to take a woman home). It's going to be a complete joke. People that wait for marraige don't shun the opposite sex like you do.
 

astrocase

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Marriage is nothing more than a peice of paper and a tax deduction. You think it's forever? She/He can just tell you to ****** off and that's it. It's over.