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I can't believe what I am reading.....

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Originally posted by: Stark

it looks like you have two options
1. enlist the help of your friend's wife to salvage your chances
2. never, ever call the girl again

i don't know crap about girls, but i think this is correct, try #1 and if Katie tells you to forget it, then do #2
 
1) You called to many times. Women easily classify guys as stalkers.
2) Why the hell did your friend act like she was interested?
3) ALWAYS have your friend "hook you up". NEVER call somoene you barely know unless THEY gave you the phone number.

My friend is going throug this right now.

Girl he is interested in is friends with his friend. For months, they were supopsed to be "hooked up". Nothing. All my friend can do is sit and wait. And that's what he's doing. Waiting for his friends to take action.
 
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Anyways, I tried calling the next day, and got no answer.

The next day I called her,

The next day I tried calling again, nothing. Left a message

Tried calling the next day, no answer.

So I sent her a text message saying something like "Hi. I think you are very beautiful and you have a lovely voice. I really want to get to know you better. I have good intentions with this."

Each day I tried calling, and nothing.

Today I sent another IM to her phone

yikes, man.

LOL, yeah that's what I was thinking.... you ruined it dude by acting really desperate. Sorry.
 
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
She's hot, but she's not my only option.
Hmm, that's not really congruent with all the repeated attempts at contact, is it.

Not sure how far you got with her in your meeting in the apartment, at the least you should have gotten a hold of her on the phone and chatted her up a bit to get her back into the right state of mind before even broaching the subject of a date.

BTW, going out of your way to explicitly mention you have "good intentions" multiple times sort of makes one wonder if you normally drive a windowless van with duct tape, rope, a roll of garbage bags, OJ gloves, and various sharp objects rolling around in the back.
 
"Hi. I think you are very beautiful and you have a lovely voice. I really want to get to know you better. I have good intentions with this."

"I want to talk to you, but your not giving me a chance. If you aren't interested, just let me know, I'm secure enough to deal with it, but if you are, just give me a sign. I really do have good intentions. I'm not a player, I want the same for me as what Shawn and Katie have (married/in love).

Holy geez, if your msgs were like that, no wonder she's ignoring you.
 
What a cr ock.

Nobody really acts this way and then posts it here knowing what the backlash will be.....then starts talking about having a big schlong and lots of money to "redeem" themselves. Sheesh.
 
Originally posted by: Hardcore
"Hi. I think you are very beautiful and you have a lovely voice. I really want to get to know you better. I have good intentions with this."

"I want to talk to you, but your not giving me a chance. If you aren't interested, just let me know, I'm secure enough to deal with it, but if you are, just give me a sign. I really do have good intentions. I'm not a player, I want the same for me as what Shawn and Katie have (married/in love).

Holy geez, if your msgs were like that, no wonder she's ignoring you.

It's sad that some people actually do write/say that crap. Unreal.
 
Originally posted by: bootymac
The train wreck started piling up after you said "ock word"

Glad someone else saw this.

Haven't even read the rest of it at this point. Was trying to figure out what the hell you were talking about when I remembered Hooked on Phonics.

"ock word" *shakes head*
 
I just can't get beyond the use of "ock word." I mean seriously, this is worse than the guy that thought impromptu was "in prompt to."
 
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
how about a picture of my 7.5 with more than adequate girth, with a copy of my rich uncle lou's will around it. or a copy of the million dollar contract I landed a few months ago. bltches.

Jesus Christ, could you be more desperate for validation? :Q
 
shouldnt have called her. maybe if you had another personal meeting with her than that was another thing.

i think by you calling her so many times, that may have turned her off
 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
why didn't you get your friends to arrange another "chance" meeting with this girl, in a group setting? If other people are around, it takes the pressure off you + her as a potential couple, and you can get to know each other and work out if you have even got anything in common. Maybe you could still take this approach, I don't know. But your approach is just crazy, you know almost nothing about her, and you're telling her you want what a married couple has (with her)?!? It's too much pressure, too soon. It's crazy talk. Anyone would run a mile.

im thinking this wont work since im sure the girl in question probably already called her friend and asked why she gave this guy her number
 
Originally posted by: TechBoyJKhow about a picture of my 7.5 with more than adequate girth, with a copy of my rich uncle lou's will around it. or a copy of the million dollar contract I landed a few months ago. bltches.
That is the saddest thing I've ever read on this forum.
 
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