Are you sure that this isn't a parody, TechBoyJK? If it isn't, are you Booster? You two sound alike, but I believe he changed his nick to UglyCasanova.
Originally posted by: TechBoyJK
Each day I tried calling, and nothing. Today I sent another IM to her phone and basically said "I want to talk to you, but your not giving me a chance. If you aren't interested, just let me know, I'm secure enough to deal with it, but if you are, just give me a sign. I really do have good intentions. I'm not a player, I want the same for me as what Shawn and Katie have (married/in love).
Later I get a reply back "Um... I don't really know you and I don't want that. I'll just leave it at that."
At first I took it as "Um, quit bothering me, I don't really know you, and I don't really want what Shawn and Katie have.."
Am I stupid? In clear English she says "I don't really know you and I don't want that" she doesn't say "I don't really know you and want to keep it that way"
So, now, its too late to call her. But is this the big blazing green light I think I see? It's late and I need some outside confirmations before I toss and turn all night thinking about it.......
I reread the relevant portion of your [original] post. (God save me from your ramblings.

) I still do think that it is a clear-cut case of "I'm not interested", and your strong and frantic words did scare her. However, I do not think that your chance to form a relationship with her is gone ? just probably not the type you hope. Her statement to me appears to show interest in opening up a conversation. To me, she is saying, " Um, I don't really know you, so I don't understand the rush and frantic behavior. Therefore, I am not interested. In addition, I do not have any desire to have Shawn and Katie's type of relationship, much less with you. I will leave it at that because I do not wish to discuss my personal view of their relationship, lest it sounds like a gossip."
The last portion of her statement ("I'll just leave it at that"), especially, invites a conversation. I don't know if you want to be gossiping about friends; but if you care to, you stand a chance of becoming friends with Megan ... except with a little chance of dating. I sense more of the friend zone, which I doubt is what you want; and even that would only happen if you persisted.
Just my point of view; the only plausible interpretation that I think could be made other than an absolute rejection.