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Hubby can't get over wife's past

What is interesting is that she kept it a secret. She must have started her life over. I know someone who is a porn star and word spread like wildfire. Basically everyone she knows, plus everyone they know, plus everyone they know...knows. All because the girl needed $300 for rent. She kept going though.
 
1. I understand how this must be a shock to learn
2. It happened when she was 19, they got married at 27, and have been married for 5 years - So the porn was made in ~1999
3. They both have histories, and this was ~13 years ago
4. He gets to see videos of the 19 year old version of his wife doing it?
5. Life ain't perfect; he'll get over it eventually
 
From the article:
I love my wife and don't want a divorce, but it haunts my every thought. We have had a great life and I trust her completely.
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I can see how this would be devastating, but if he loves her enough, he'll get over it. Unless your partner caught herpes or something from a sexual encounter, it doesn't do either person any good to dwell on sexual histories. If you love and trust the person now, you'll get over it.
 
No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
 
How many of you guys have had a prostitute? How many have told thier s/o? How many of you guys can't remember the names of all the people you've slept with?
 
Insomniator said:
No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
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You don't think she deserved a second chance at life?
 
Insomniator said:
No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
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It takes a certain mind to care about it so much that it destroys an otherwise healthy relationship.

If you date someone older than 13 they're going to have a past.
 
silverpig said:
1. I understand how this must be a shock to learn
2. It happened when she was 19, they got married at 27, and have been married for 5 years - So the porn was made in ~1999
3. They both have histories, and this was ~13 years ago
4. He gets to see videos of the 19 year old version of his wife doing it?
5. Life ain't perfect; he'll get over it eventually
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Yes, but when you have problems in relationships there is only 1 answer.

No Answer. Divorce 😀


Or so thats what I'm told. IT's the American way! Don't solve problems, avoid addressing them altogether. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
 
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