I don't know, I think it could possibly be kinda hot. I think I'd be like, OK, let's watch those together and maybe re-enact it, I'll decide after. I mean, seeing your spouse experience pleasure should be a real turn-on (provided that it was not a revolting or traumatic experience for her to do those scenes).
e.g. let's suppose you're at a social function and your wife hasn't been out in forever. So you're both there, she has a couple drinks and she is socializing. Guys are coming up to her and flirting, maybe some old friend she hasn't seen in a while. She is having fun, laughing, and you are watching her from a distance. Except that you aren't jealous. Seeing this creature that you love smiling, laughing, and enjoying herself is not only making you smile and feel good, but it can be a real turn-on. You might be thinking, damn she is beautiful, especially when she laughs, I can't wait to get her home and sex her up. She might even glance over at you, and catches you watching her with a big smile on your face. You both have this moment where its almost like the first time you saw each other. Who cares that she is having a good time, dancing or whatever, with another man?
Well, a lot of guys would be insecure about this and would turn it into a bad evening. A lot of guys would not. It may be something of a stretch to allow those same feelings and reaction when you see your wife being SEXUALLY pleasured by another man, but it doesn't seem to be fundamentally different. I think it would be more of an extension of letting go of insecurities and jealousy that is required in the scenario above.
e.g. let's suppose you're at a social function and your wife hasn't been out in forever. So you're both there, she has a couple drinks and she is socializing. Guys are coming up to her and flirting, maybe some old friend she hasn't seen in a while. She is having fun, laughing, and you are watching her from a distance. Except that you aren't jealous. Seeing this creature that you love smiling, laughing, and enjoying herself is not only making you smile and feel good, but it can be a real turn-on. You might be thinking, damn she is beautiful, especially when she laughs, I can't wait to get her home and sex her up. She might even glance over at you, and catches you watching her with a big smile on your face. You both have this moment where its almost like the first time you saw each other. Who cares that she is having a good time, dancing or whatever, with another man?
Well, a lot of guys would be insecure about this and would turn it into a bad evening. A lot of guys would not. It may be something of a stretch to allow those same feelings and reaction when you see your wife being SEXUALLY pleasured by another man, but it doesn't seem to be fundamentally different. I think it would be more of an extension of letting go of insecurities and jealousy that is required in the scenario above.
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