Hubby can't get over wife's past

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randomrogue

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What is interesting is that she kept it a secret. She must have started her life over. I know someone who is a porn star and word spread like wildfire. Basically everyone she knows, plus everyone they know, plus everyone they know...knows. All because the girl needed $300 for rent. She kept going though.
 
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depends... if she screwed you like a porn star, why complain....isn't that the dream?
 
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1. I understand how this must be a shock to learn
2. It happened when she was 19, they got married at 27, and have been married for 5 years - So the porn was made in ~1999
3. They both have histories, and this was ~13 years ago
4. He gets to see videos of the 19 year old version of his wife doing it?
5. Life ain't perfect; he'll get over it eventually
 
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xanis

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From the article:
I love my wife and don't want a divorce, but it haunts my every thought. We have had a great life and I trust her completely.
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I can see how this would be devastating, but if he loves her enough, he'll get over it. Unless your partner caught herpes or something from a sexual encounter, it doesn't do either person any good to dwell on sexual histories. If you love and trust the person now, you'll get over it.
 
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Insomniator

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No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
 
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randomrogue

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How many of you guys have had a prostitute? How many have told thier s/o? How many of you guys can't remember the names of all the people you've slept with?
 
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blackdogdeek

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Insomniator said:
No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
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You don't think she deserved a second chance at life?
 
surfsatwerk

surfsatwerk

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Insomniator said:
No way people. He's not gonna get over this. No WAY. That is crazy, I don't care if they are 50 now and that was 30 years ago.

haha I'm getting mad for the guy just thinking about it... I don't care if she was 'lost'... it takes a certain mind to go into porn.

Feel so bad actually. I believe he wants to get over it but really... what are his skeletons? I doubt they compare in anyway.
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It takes a certain mind to care about it so much that it destroys an otherwise healthy relationship.

If you date someone older than 13 they're going to have a past.
 
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s0me0nesmind1

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silverpig said:
1. I understand how this must be a shock to learn
2. It happened when she was 19, they got married at 27, and have been married for 5 years - So the porn was made in ~1999
3. They both have histories, and this was ~13 years ago
4. He gets to see videos of the 19 year old version of his wife doing it?
5. Life ain't perfect; he'll get over it eventually
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Yes, but when you have problems in relationships there is only 1 answer.

No Answer. Divorce :D


Or so thats what I'm told. IT's the American way! Don't solve problems, avoid addressing them altogether. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
 
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