Originally posted by: MrLee
What do you consider the grey matter between truth and a lie? If you consider it a lie then yes, 4x a day is easily reached. We work in jobs that require us to constantly cover our asses and look awesome. White lies are the norm, masking the complete truth is par for the course. The people that don't have to CYA as much as others are the real heros of our time, but no one is perfect.
But hey, if you consider the grey matter to be truthful until it crosses that final line of a lie then you are in the clear. Rarely do we tell a bold lie. And if the grey matter is it's own category then you can consider it anything you want; whatever makes your day less stressful.
Yeah, lots of times we don't really lie, but we do downplay the intensity of our opinions and emotions: "Great, you just broke my sculpture. Well...it's not THAT big a deal, really. I'm kind of angry, but I guess I can make another."
The question is how much we're stretching the truth. If you take the absolutist view, EVERYTHING we say is a lie, since due to the nature of language we are never able to create a perfect picture of what we intend in the minds of other people. Even describing a solid, tangible object won't yield a perfect image, and that's without stating a single thing that isn't 100% true!
But then there's: "You are probably the most interesting and intelligent person I have ever met!"--which is clearly a lie, since I have met myself.
