Originally posted by: IHateMyJob2004
It's smaller than you want I think, but wit ha small house, consider this:
Japanese Chin
EDIT 2: That link I gave is kinda crappy. Here's the part that you should care about:
Temperament
A sensitive and intelligent dog whose only purpose is to serve man as a companion. Responsive and affectionate with those it knows and loves but reserved with strangers or in new situations.
Regarding strangers. Our dog usually does the bark, smell and ignore. takes all of 15 seconds with strangers.
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We have one and he is absolutely fantastic with our kids, now 18 months and 4 years old. Our dog is 5 years old now. the best part now is that he has decided to sleep with my 4 year old on occasion. Several nights ago it was the first time and my son called me when he woke up (normal) but was sitting there smiling, petting Enu with a big smile telling me that Enu slept with him.
Japanese Chins are also wonderful lapdogs. They love being around people.
They do not shed.
And weighing in at 9 pounds, he costs almost nothing to feed. We fill his bowl, maybe twice a week. One bag literally last months. It's not like a 50 pond dog that will require more than a bag a month.
The down side, he is small, make sure you let him out often (every 4 hours) and if you leave for extended periods (like 8 hours) into the basement he must go. He can hold it overnight for say 12 hours, but during the day he can not.
EDIT: You were thinking about a Lhasa/Shitzu? Want a non barking version? Get the Japanese Chin! Lhasa/Shitzus will drive you and your neighbors nuts.