TridenT
Lifer
- Sep 4, 2006
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As much as I hate to agree with Nehalem, after reading his manifesto I think Nehalem's reading of the situation is correct.
Girls never rejected Rodger. Rodger never tried to date any girls, or befriend them, or even talk to them. He was under the impression that he was so awesome that they should have just walked up to him and offer to be his girlfriend, or at the very least sleep with him. Being a rich, good looking guy that drove a BMW, he could have easily gotten a girlfriend if he tried, but he didn't try.
IMO, Rodgers was obsessed with status and popularity. He drove a $40,000 BMW, he had $300 sunglasses, and IMO, a white girlfriend was just one more status symbol that he felt he deserved. Rodgers was convinced if a white girl magically became his girlfriend then everyone would see how awesome he was, but if you read his manifesto, especially before puberty, he was always trying to become the coolest kid in school. When he wasn't the coolest kid he'd be angry at the person who dared be cooler, who dared to be a better skate-boarder, or had cooler clothes or a cooler haircut. He hated those people. After puberty when boys start obsessing about sex, Rodgers became convinced that having a white girlfriend would make him the coolest person around. It really wasn't about sex or girls, despite what he said in his video and what he believed. It was the status symbol of a hot girl that he craved.
His fantasies weren't about sleeping with pretty white girls, he fantasized about making it so that nobody had sex. He wanted others to pay for having what he lacked but (in his opinion) rightly deserved. If somehow Rodgers had gotten a girlfriend, it would only have delayed the day of retribution as he would throw a fit and kill people for having better clothes, or more money, or a better car then him. It was the idea that other people dare have something he didn't have (i.e. kill his little brother because his little brother might get a girlfriend before he did) that drove him, and even if he got what he wanted, there were always other people that had what he didn't have.
Yeah... I'm feeling weird here. I'm ideologically opposed to agreeing with nehalem. I'm really trying to find good arguments against what he's saying. The shooter seems like a serious narcissist and extremely envious of everyone else who has something/someone he doesn't.
I'll agree that the guy wasn't nice to women but he didn't seem nice to anyone... It just seems that women were the most difficult thing for a rich kid like himself to "obtain". (I'm not saying that women are property) Inevitably, it seems like that was most of his obsession.
I understand the frustration but this guy was missing a few bolts. He seemed to have things going relatively well for him outside of girl troubles. I didn't see whether or not he had any significant number of friends. Seems like he wouldn't.
I wonder why counseling/therapy didn't have a significant enough effect. I didn't read the manifesto or pay super close attention to this whole story.
The feminists are having a field day with this one. Apparently this guy is a symbol of misogyny. Hah.
Yeah, mostly because of the way he speaks about women. I understand why they're saying it. He's definitely bad but I wouldn't say he's the hitler of women like many are professing.

