guys, would you have enough confidence in yourself

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: TheBDB
Does it count if she picks it out and I just pay for it?

:thumbsup:

doesn't count.

eh, if you can't do it and surprise her, you ain't got the ballz. plain and simple.

It really depends on the girl in the end. My GF doesnt have the guts to surprise me with a new CPU, HSF, HDD, Case, Speakers. I am the same with not having the guts to surprise her with a dress. Its a unwritten agreement.

how can you compare the two really?

Why not? Her interests lie in fashion while mine lie in Hardware/electronics. We are talking about the ability to "walk into the other persons territory" and hope to god you dont get murdered during that walk.

her interest lies in fashion? that is her #1 interest?

Nobody said anything about #1 interest. I didnt think i had to be extremely precise on ATOT. In anycase, what i was trying to say was, She likes fasion as much as I do Electronics. The main point of that post was to say that people on both sides usually do not like to venture into a domain where they are not the the most comfortable/knowledgeable in.

Surprises are cool, and if there be a day that she can pick out electronics just as well as I can pick out a dress for example, then cool. But, certainly 1 year isnt long enough to scope out the field. Maybe in a few more.

eh, live with your conservativism

 

[Lazy8s]

Originally posted by: iamme

Originally posted by: azazyel

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

I guess you're the type of guy who hands over his testicles to any women who will give some up for you.

well, not on the first date

i'm all for helping my fellow man get good lovin' from their women. i think occasional gestures like buying the wife/gf a dress is a good way to keep your woman feeling wanted. that's all.

:beer:

Meh, in my experience all it means is now you have to take them somewhere even more expensive than the article of clothing so they get a chance to wear it for you. I say make them breakfast in bed. Less expensive, less time intensive, almost 0% failure and of course the best part is they're already in bed to thank you.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

 

[azazyel]

I know but a dress just isn't worth the risk. I mean even if it fit perfect, looked great I would still probably get scorned for paying full price. Anyways, shopping is a release for my g/f I would never want to rob her of that. That's why I stick to jewelry and flowers (lilies a must). But of course my g/f's and my idea of a good night is a making a floorbed, having some drinks and watching a movie.

 

[DougK62]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

No - you guys just don't understand. Obviously, you are not a typical woman and iamme isn't involved with a typical woman.

Buying a dress for a typical woman without her knowledge is an argument waiting to happen. There is a reason that so many men in this thread won't do it - we get yelled at enough as it is.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: DougK62

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

No - you guys just don't understand. Obviously, you are not a typical woman and iamme isn't involved with a typical woman.

Buying a dress for a typical woman without her knowledge is an argument waiting to happen. There is a reason that so many men in this thread won't do it - we get yelled at enough as it is.

you get yelled at enough at it is? sounds like a hella relationship.

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: TheBDB
Does it count if she picks it out and I just pay for it?

:thumbsup:

doesn't count.

eh, if you can't do it and surprise her, you ain't got the ballz. plain and simple.

It really depends on the girl in the end. My GF doesnt have the guts to surprise me with a new CPU, HSF, HDD, Case, Speakers. I am the same with not having the guts to surprise her with a dress. Its a unwritten agreement.

how can you compare the two really?

Why not? Her interests lie in fashion while mine lie in Hardware/electronics. We are talking about the ability to "walk into the other persons territory" and hope to god you dont get murdered during that walk.

her interest lies in fashion? that is her #1 interest?

Nobody said anything about #1 interest. I didnt think i had to be extremely precise on ATOT. In anycase, what i was trying to say was, She likes fasion as much as I do Electronics. The main point of that post was to say that people on both sides usually do not like to venture into a domain where they are not the the most comfortable/knowledgeable in.

Surprises are cool, and if there be a day that she can pick out electronics just as well as I can pick out a dress for example, then cool. But, certainly 1 year isnt long enough to scope out the field. Maybe in a few more.

eh, live with your conservativism

not everybody can be liberal.

To each their own.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

2 supposed females on a message board and 1 guy on a message board saying his girlfriend like it, does not mean all females will.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

2 supposed females on a message board and 1 guy on a message board saying his girlfriend like it, does not mean all females will.

are you saying i am not female?

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

2 supposed females on a message board and 1 guy on a message board saying his girlfriend like it, does not mean all females will.

are you saying i am not female?

Didn't say one way or the other.

 

[DougK62]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

2 supposed females on a message board and 1 guy on a message board saying his girlfriend like it, does not mean all females will.

are you saying i am not female?

LOL - good job at ignoring the real point and going after something minor that doesn't even matter. I guess you really are a woman.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
are you saying i am not female?

Well....you did openly admit to being a hyper-competitive arm wrestler.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: PingSpike

Originally posted by: moshquerade
are you saying i am not female?

Well....you did openly admit to being a hyper-competitive arm wrestler.

no hyperness to it - just like to have fun with it.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: DougK62

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: iamme
*shrug*

i guess this is why there are so many YAGT's here.

two women here just posted that they would love it if there guys bought them dresses. i'm willing to bet your girl might feel the same way.

go ahead and keep buying your girl gift certificates and kitchen appliances.

iamme, you are a true genius! heed the man.

And yet you were the one just saying I was being stereotypical.

yeh, what of it?

2 supposed females on a message board and 1 guy on a message board saying his girlfriend like it, does not mean all females will.

are you saying i am not female?

LOL - good job at ignoring the real point and going after something minor that doesn't even matter. I guess you really are a woman.

that's cause there was no real point

 

[Mr N8]

Yes. I just recent'y bought a summer dress and evening dress for my wife. She loves them both, and looks great in them, too.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: MogulMonster
Yes. I just recent'y bought a summer dress and evening dress for my wife. She loves them both, and looks great in them, too.

lucky lady

 

[memo]

i'd do it, but probably F it up in the end. She'd like the gesture though.

 

[DougK62]

So is there anything just as good as a dress that could be bought but is easier to shop for? Besides diamonds.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: DougK62
So is there anything just as good as a dress that could be bought but is easier to shop for? Besides diamonds.

that's an individual thing. personally, and why i started this thread, i would find a new dress from my man a very heartfelt and sexy gesture

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: DougK62
So is there anything just as good as a dress that could be bought but is easier to shop for? Besides diamonds.

You just eliminated one of the biggest "other possibilities"

Diamonds arent necessarily easy to shop for. Especially if your girl likes to have nothing worse than E quality (in all categories)

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: DougK62
So is there anything just as good as a dress that could be bought but is easier to shop for? Besides diamonds.

that's an individual thing. personally, and why i started this thread, i would find a new dress from my man a very heartfelt and sexy gesture

Does your man read ATOT? Maybe he doesnt even have a clue. :/

 

[JzL]

I am married as well... I buy my wife clothes on a regular basis... she loves it

of course when you have been together for 8 years... you should know each others likes and dislikes... sizes included

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: JzL
I am married as well... I buy my wife clothes on a regular basis... she loves it

of course when you have been together for 8 years... you should know each others likes and dislikes... sizes included

Agreed, by 8 years, that could be a given for many.