Give me tips on HOW to slow down my relationship.. we are going way too fast.

[Deeko]

You guys don't seem to understand that not everyone is after a physical relationship. For some people the physical things enhance a more meaningful relationship, it isn't based around it. If you are looking for possibly a lasting relationship with a person, especially if you are both inexperienced, it can be good to wait. Its not that hard to understand.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

 

[her209]

No complaints there.

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

You always seem to find me and post a (now old/played out) response accordingly, and then your typical response is to act as if you could care less. If you could care less, why post? Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead.

Peace,
Dezign

 

[The Stigenator]

afternoon update:

I got to her place gave her a hug. She then gave me a Long Stem red rose with a card on it that said "For the best week in my life, love always vanessa"

We then went out for thai. It was good fun...

Things have considerably slowed down. We talked last night and we today it reflects the previous nights talks. Now I feel we cut off too much but oh well i get to see her in the evening.. her mom wants to see me again.. this time as her daughters bf.. she warned me if her mom starts to kiss me and stuff.. because before when she met me I was her daughters friend, not her boy friend.

 

[Soybomb]

Now I feel we cut off too much

You owned yourself. Don't do it again in the future.

her mom starts to kiss me and stuff

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..........

 

[The Stigenator]

I got her pic..

let the comments loose.. yes I know she is a bit chubby .. but actually she is in really good shape for a latina chick. no flab none so ever..

sorry guys .. Degzin got some sense into me..

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I got her pic..

let the comments loose.. yes I know she is a bit chubby .. but actually she is in really good shape for a latina chick. no flab none so ever..

Vanessa - when she wasnt really wanting to pose.. she hates taking photographs but she gave in because i insisted.

She has beautiful eyes.

Peace,
Dezign

EDIT: Did you ask her permission before posting her picture? I don't know if she'd want it up, especially associated with this story. Bragging rights only go so far before they become exploitive... if I were her (your g/f of a week with no other pics up on the Internet, having shared a very private, intimate, personal experience with you... and have an aversion to taking pictures, at that), I would be very, very upset if I found this thread.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
afternoon update:

I got to her place gave her a hug. She then gave me a Long Stem red rose with a card on it that said "For the best week in my life, love always vanessa"

We then went out for thai. It was good fun...

Things have considerably slowed down. We talked last night and we today it reflects the previous nights talks. Now I feel we cut off too much but oh well i get to see her in the evening.. her mom wants to see me again.. this time as her daughters bf.. she warned me if her mom starts to kiss me and stuff.. because before when she met me I was her daughters friend, not her boy friend.

Isn't it a little early for the L-word?

 

[The Stigenator]

I told her that I was going to show her pic to a few friends.. no she doesnt know about this story.

 

[CrazyDe1]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I got her pic..

let the comments loose.. yes I know she is a bit chubby .. but actually she is in really good shape for a latina chick. no flab none so ever..

[L=Vanessa - when she wasnt really wanting to pose.. she hates taking photographs but she gave in because i insisted.]L]

She has beautiful eyes.

Peace,
Dezign

EDIT: Did you ask her permission before posting her picture? I don't know if she'd want it up, especially associated with this story. Bragging rights only go so far before they become exploitive... if I were her (your g/f of a week with no other pics up on the Internet, having shared a very private, intimate, personal experience with you... and have an aversion to taking pictures, at that), I would be very, very upset if I found this thread.

Isn't it ironic? Don't ya think?

 

[Red Dawn]

On second thought I don't blame you.

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I told her that I was going to show her pic to a few friends.. no she doesnt know about this story.

If that's the case, just hope she doesn't find this thread. I don't think she'd consider "a few friends" the entire member base of AT(OT). In which case, I think posting her picture here is pretty disrespectful, and I'm sure she'd be hurt and embarrassed if she found you'd posted your sexual exploits together to an online forum of strangers. What if her parents read the boards? You never know... just some things to think about before you go around hoping to slap some more high fives.

Peace,
Dezign

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I told her that I was going to show her pic to a few friends.. no she doesnt know about this story.

If that's the case, just hope she doesn't find this thread. I don't think she'd consider "a few friends" the entire member base of AT(OT). In which case, I think posting her picture here is pretty disrespectful, and I'm sure she'd be hurt and embarrassed if she found you'd posted your sexual exploits together to an online forum of strangers. What if her parents read the boards? You never know... just some things to think about before you go around hoping to slap some more high fives.

Peace,
Dezign

your right.. time to take the pic out...

aww fsck if I take it out also crazyde has to take it out too..
by teh way I didnt give you what happened last night.. nobody konws.. i just said some clothing were missing..that clothing could have been our socks and not anything else..

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: The_good_guy
I told her that I was going to show her pic to a few friends.. no she doesnt know about this story.

If that's the case, just hope she doesn't find this thread. I don't think she'd consider "a few friends" the entire member base of AT(OT). In which case, I think posting her picture here is pretty disrespectful, and I'm sure she'd be hurt and embarrassed if she found you'd posted your sexual exploits together to an online forum of strangers. What if her parents read the boards? You never know... just some things to think about before you go around hoping to slap some more high fives.

Peace,
Dezign

your right.. time to take the pic out... can you do so off that pervious link of yours..

Of course. I'm glad you respect her enough to do so... hopefully things work out for you two. Good luck!

Peace,
Dezign

 

[imported_Tomato]

You'll have to ask "CrazyDe1" to edit his post as well. Or you could just remove the picture from wherever you uploaded it, or change the file name.

Peace,
Dezign

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: Dezign
You'll have to ask "CrazyDe1" to edit his post as well. Or you could just remove the picture from wherever you uploaded it, or change the file name.

Peace,
Dezign

smart girl.. why didnt I think of that!

take out file!

 

[DigDug]

Man, you are such a toolbox.

 

[dxkj]

That was a fairly long read =)

Ok, Im actually going to try to give some advice instead of just shouting "BANG HER!"

1) Try to keep dates in mostly public places (notice there an L in that word)
2) Limit your alone time (IE car time, bedroom time, etc) to a minimum at first
3) Talk about sex, if either one of you have ANY reservations about having sex then hold off

Aso, how old are you? Most people write of sex and say its no big deal, its harmless, etc. STD's arent harmless, and accidental pregnancy's can be bad all around. If you end up having sex be mature about it and make sure you are safe.

personal rant? I think too many kids nowadays are going with the Nike slogan and just doing it (damn i sound like a grandfather). Decide what it is you want, and stick to it. I had the opportunity about 3 different times when I was younger to have sex with girls who wanted it, and I declined. I got what I wanted out of the relationship physically, no more no less, if your both happy with where you are, then thats great. Often times when a relationship starts up one of you is farther ahead than the other. Depending on how new you are (kissed before? "handled" before?, Oral sex?) Take things slowly, trust me there are a lot of things to enjoy before and leading up to sex that you don't want to miss out on, and at some point Im sure she will appreciate you slowing things down.


Might want to edit the title of this thread since you removed the pic

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

You always seem to find me and post a (now old/played out) response accordingly, and then your typical response is to act as if you could care less. If you could care less, why post? Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead.

Peace,
Dezign

Don't flatter yourself. I see you for the fake bitch you are.

"Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead."

You guessed it.

 

[SOSTrooper]

AWWWW no pic for me? I like Latina girls

 

[imported_Tomato]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

You always seem to find me and post a (now old/played out) response accordingly, and then your typical response is to act as if you could care less. If you could care less, why post? Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead.

Peace,
Dezign

Don't flatter yourself. I see you for the fake bitch you are.

"Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead."

You guessed it.

Ahhh, and the hostility comes out because you couldn't resist posting again. Notice how you always resort to name-calling and I've never sunk to your level? So much anger. Get away from your comp and go out into the sunshine, it's beautiful here in LA. HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR MILLENIUM & THE REST OF ATOT!! I'm off to par-tay...

Peace,
Dezign

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

You always seem to find me and post a (now old/played out) response accordingly, and then your typical response is to act as if you could care less. If you could care less, why post? Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead.

Peace,
Dezign

Don't flatter yourself. I see you for the fake bitch you are.

"Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead."

You guessed it.

Ahhh, and the hostility comes out because you couldn't resist posting again. Notice how you always resort to name-calling and I've never sunk to your level? So much anger. Get away from your comp and go out into the sunshine, it's beautiful here in LA. HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR MILLENIUM & THE REST OF ATOT!! I'm off to par-tay...

Peace,
Dezign

edit- said things that were too mean.

 

[Ciber]

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Millennium

Originally posted by: Dezign
Attention whore... er... virgin.

Peace,
Dezign

Pot meet kettle.

hmmm, does this mean that Dezign is a virgin or an attention whore??

AW.

No need to pay attention to him. Cute lil Millenium is my personal stalker who checks all my posts and likes reminding everyone about things that occurred over a year ago.

Peace,
Dezign

Umm I could care a sh!t less about what thread you post in. TGG is a sad individual and his threads always deserve a response. How lucky was I that you posted some typicl AW stuff.

/me is lucky

You always seem to find me and post a (now old/played out) response accordingly, and then your typical response is to act as if you could care less. If you could care less, why post? Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead.

Peace,
Dezign

Don't flatter yourself. I see you for the fake bitch you are.

"Of course, you will feel so inclined as to post again in response to this, so go right ahead."

You guessed it.

Ahhh, and the hostility comes out because you couldn't resist posting again. Notice how you always resort to name-calling and I've never sunk to your level? So much anger. Get away from your comp and go out into the sunshine, it's beautiful here in LA. HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR MILLENIUM & THE REST OF ATOT!! I'm off to par-tay...

Peace,
Dezign

I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?

Hahaha, fun fun fun.

Gotta agree with you though, Mill.

 

[luv2chill]

I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?

I don't want to get involved in this, but I do want to say that was utterly tasteless on your part Mill. If you're resorting to those kinds of insults it means you've lost your cool. Just chill out dude. At the very least--take it to PMs.

l2c