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Mill

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Originally posted by: luv2chill
I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?
I don't want to get involved in this, but I do want to say that was utterly tasteless on your part Mill. If you're resorting to those kinds of insults it means you've lost your cool. Just chill out dude. At the very least--take it to PMs.

l2c

Tasteless is too good of a word for Dezign, don't life her spirits that way. She has PMed me numerous times. Nothing is going to fix her being an attention whore.
 

Gulzakar

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You have to be careful with those Catholic girls... just shake their hand and you get 10 kids instantly.
 

pulse8

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Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: luv2chill
I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?
I don't want to get involved in this, but I do want to say that was utterly tasteless on your part Mill. If you're resorting to those kinds of insults it means you've lost your cool. Just chill out dude. At the very least--take it to PMs.

l2c

Tasteless is too good of a word for Dezign, don't life her spirits that way. She has PMed me numerous times. Nothing is going to fix her being an attention whore.

So then why not just drop it and ignore it? I'm starting to believe that you have some serious issues with women. Maybe it's time to give mommy a call.
 

Storm

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Millennium,

Chill man. You're getting all riled up with Dezign as you were with luvly... I'm sure most AToTers know about the Dezign/Simone mess. Frankly, I'm not totally convinced of the conclusion to that situation and right now Dezign's credibility is shot.

The_good_guy,

Umm you do know that white roses are a sign of friendship and red roses are a sign for lovers... I hope you understand what you're getting into with this girl and what she expects. Now apparently you've been forewarned that her mother might kiss you etc. Seems like you've been accepted into the family. Good luck with the relationship.
 

Mill

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Originally posted by: Storm
Millennium,

Chill man. You're getting all riled up with Dezign as you were with luvly... I'm sure most AToTers know about the Dezign/Simone mess. Frankly, I'm not totally convinced of the conclusion to that situation and right now Dezign's credibility is shot.

The_good_guy,

Umm you do know that white roses are a sign of friendship and red roses are a sign for lovers... I hope you understand what you're getting into with this girl and what she expects. Now apparently you've been forewarned that her mother might kiss you etc. Seems like you've been accepted into the family. Good luck with the relationship.

AH! It has nothing to do with any of that. I found it funny that she posted the TGG was an attention whore. I said "pot meet kettle" and then she went crazy and accused me of thread stalking her. Anyways... :p
 

Mill

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Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: luv2chill
I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?
I don't want to get involved in this, but I do want to say that was utterly tasteless on your part Mill. If you're resorting to those kinds of insults it means you've lost your cool. Just chill out dude. At the very least--take it to PMs.

l2c

Tasteless is too good of a word for Dezign, don't life her spirits that way. She has PMed me numerous times. Nothing is going to fix her being an attention whore.

So then why not just drop it and ignore it? I'm starting to believe that you have some serious issues with women. Maybe it's time to give mommy a call.

Yeah that is exactly what it is. My mother won't talk to me so I have serious woman problems. I guess I wet the bed, start fires, and torture animals too. Please... Gender is not an issue for AWs or Trolls that post here.
 

OS

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Originally posted by: Millennium


I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?

Geez, I've seen what she posts and it's not deserving of that kind of sh*t slinging.

 

Mill

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Originally posted by: OS
Originally posted by: Millennium


I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?

Geez, I've seen what she posts and it's not deserving of that kind of sh*t slinging.

I think it was deserving but not something to be said pubically so I edited... damage done.
 

If I were you, Dezign, I would ignore Millenium. It appears to be his pattern of behaviour to seek attention by butting into what doesn't concern him and then accusing people of being trolls or attention whores. Maybe he's our self-proclaimed policeman.
rolleye.gif


I would give Millenium consideration before, but not after I realised his age. It started to make sense why he behaves like he does. Hopefully when he makes 21 he would learn not to compromise private discussions, not be busybody and not to constantly resort to attacking the persons.


Pulse8, he's right: He behaves that way regardless of gender. He seeks the trolls and attention whores according to his judgement. Hopefully we aren't dealing with a . . . confused (to put it mildly) person. He constantly harasses both men and women. He's old enough to be an adult, but he's simply acting like a kid since his esteem and mind has not reached the maturity of an adult's.

I ignore such people instead of stooping to their levels.

As for the original poster: You've got major issues and I really feel sorry for you but more so those little beings you'll bring into this world so confused. Oh, and I thought God forbade that you ever were interested in Indian women, not to speak of Latinas--or any woman who wasn't Armenian. God help us.
 

pulse8

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Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Millennium
Originally posted by: luv2chill
I am pretty sure I spend less time looking at AT or the internet that you do. Ala posting your "friends" modeling pics was a sure sign that you do. Too bad her and her boyfriend bitched you out for being an insignificant twat.

I couldn't resist posting again? Well here goes: you are an insignificant c[/b]unt attention whore. Now don't post again you insecure hollywood starlet wannabe bitch. Got it?
I don't want to get involved in this, but I do want to say that was utterly tasteless on your part Mill. If you're resorting to those kinds of insults it means you've lost your cool. Just chill out dude. At the very least--take it to PMs.

l2c

Tasteless is too good of a word for Dezign, don't life her spirits that way. She has PMed me numerous times. Nothing is going to fix her being an attention whore.

So then why not just drop it and ignore it? I'm starting to believe that you have some serious issues with women. Maybe it's time to give mommy a call.

Yeah that is exactly what it is. My mother won't talk to me so I have serious woman problems. I guess I wet the bed, start fires, and torture animals too. Please... Gender is not an issue for AWs or Trolls that post here.

That's an interesting point of view coming from someone who's essentially trolling an attention whore.
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Koing

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Originally posted by: luvly


As for the original poster: You've got major issues and I really feel sorry for you but more so those little beings you'll bring into this world so confused. Oh, and I thought God forbade that you ever were interested in Indian women, not to speak of Latinas--or any woman who wasn't Armenian. God help us.

What? Whats that suppose to mean? Hes not going to be bringing any *little beings* in to the world. Hes a guy confused about things, hes not experienced and just wanted some advice. I've asked for some advice here mostly good and some comments. Its just personal preference on what women he decides to like........
 

"Hes not going to be bringing any *little beings* in to the world."

Don't speak for him, hon'. I'm sure he understands my tongues. ;)

"Going to be bringing" does not make a statement of the present.
 

Koing

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Originally posted by: luvly
"Hes not going to be bringing any *little beings* in to the world."

Don't speak for him, hon'. I'm sure he understands my tongues. ;)

"Going to be bringing" does not make a statement of the present.


I won't speak for him but I would say I am his friend though.

<---- whoops non native English speaker
 

All right, Mr. Friend. Why don't you help your friend? His soul seems lost in Space. He seems so confused about himself. And if you said that you got out of such pit, why cannot you help him? Although in my opinion, you are far from the physique you claim to have, yet you learned to believe in yourself and search for what you want. You got a woman ironically Indian who's decent looking. But there's your supposed friend seeming to have no shred of confidence in himself, having no definition of himself, indirectly disrespecting the women in his life . . . why, oh why, does a friend leave his brother suffering?

All right, I expressed myself there since you thought it was important to make known your friendship with the original poster. :) You are not obligated to respond. Perhaps just a moment of thought is sufficient.
 

Muse

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I haven't read the whole thread, maybe the first 25 posts, but I want to say something. I think you guys should realize that what is right for this guy may not be right for you. It's not all that easy to put yourself in his shoes. Every situation is different. For some reason, and it's complicated by who HE is, AND who SHE is, he's nervous about what's going on, he feels things are spiraling out of control. It bothers me that some people just tell him to take it all casually. He asked for ways to slow down the heated up situation. I don't think you should put him down and I'm hesitant to second guess his motivations or what's really going on. I'm sure he knows some ways to slow things down, but for some reason he went here for advice.
 

pulse8

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Originally posted by: Muse
I haven't read the whole thread, maybe the first 25 posts, but I want to say something. I think you guys should realize that what is right for this guy may not be right for you. It's not all that easy to put yourself in his shoes. Every situation is different. For some reason, and it's complicated by who HE is, AND who SHE is, he's nervous about what's going on, he feels things are spiraling out of control. It bothers me that some people just tell him to take it all casually. He asked for ways to slow down the heated up situation. I don't think you should put him down and I'm hesitant to second guess his motivations or what's really going on. I'm sure he knows some ways to slow things down, but for some reason he went here for advice.

You must've missed all the other posts where he's complained about not getting any and now that he is, he's complaining about that, too. :)
 
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i agree with muse on things.. because that's what I came here for..

this is an area i have never been before.. needless to say last nights meeting with her family wasnt all on a silver platter.. i was grilled on the fact that if I get her pregnent i would have to marry her etcetfc.. all the more why sex isnt part of the equation... and why i want to delay this as much as possible...

she is totally in love with me.. and unfortunatley i cant say the same for me.

Oh well I will take it day at a time.. i dont want to rush into things so fast.. and while i feel like backing out i dont want to be like a bitch and make her hate men all her life.
 

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
i agree with muse on things.. because that's what I came here for..

this is an area i have never been before.. needless to say last nights meeting with her family wasnt all on a silver platter.. i was grilled on the fact that if I get her pregnent i would have to marry her etcetfc.. all the more why sex isnt part of the equation... and why i want to delay this as much as possible...

she is totally in love with me.. and unfortunatley i cant say the same for me.

Oh well I will take it day at a time.. i dont want to rush into things so fast.. and while i feel like backing out i dont want to be like a bitch and make her hate men all her life.


Could somebody please pass me a bucket I think I'm going to be ill.

TGG,don't worry in order to "hate men" she'd first have to met one... no worries there that I can see
 

Ameesh

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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
i agree with muse on things.. because that's what I came here for..

this is an area i have never been before.. needless to say last nights meeting with her family wasnt all on a silver platter.. i was grilled on the fact that if I get her pregnent i would have to marry her etcetfc.. all the more why sex isnt part of the equation... and why i want to delay this as much as possible...

she is totally in love with me.. and unfortunatley i cant say the same for me.

Oh well I will take it day at a time.. i dont want to rush into things so fast.. and while i feel like backing out i dont want to be like a bitch and make her hate men all her life.

rolleye.gif
<---- undertsatement of the year.
 

Mill

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Originally posted by: luvly
If I were you, Dezign, I would ignore Millenium. It appears to be his pattern of behaviour to seek attention by butting into what doesn't concern him and then accusing people of being trolls or attention whores. Maybe he's our self-proclaimed policeman.
rolleye.gif


I would give Millenium consideration before, but not after I realised his age. It started to make sense why he behaves like he does. Hopefully when he makes 21 he would learn not to compromise private discussions, not be busybody and not to constantly resort to attacking the persons.


Pulse8, he's right: He behaves that way regardless of gender. He seeks the trolls and attention whores according to his judgement. Hopefully we aren't dealing with a . . . confused (to put it mildly) person. He constantly harasses both men and women. He's old enough to be an adult, but he's simply acting like a kid since his esteem and mind has not reached the maturity of an adult's.

I ignore such people instead of stooping to their levels.

As for the original poster: You've got major issues and I really feel sorry for you but more so those little beings you'll bring into this world so confused. Oh, and I thought God forbade that you ever were interested in Indian women, not to speak of Latinas--or any woman who wasn't Armenian. God help us.


LOL. Thanks.