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Adica

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Dec 11, 2004
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
did we ever even find out if this was just an online gf? :confused:

I married my online boyfriend. He was never just a just.....
and obviosly she means a lot to him.
 

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: moshquerade
did we ever even find out if this was just an online gf? :confused:

I married my online boyfriend. He was never just a just.....
and obviosly she means a lot to him.
did i say she didn't mean a lot to him? :confused:
i was wondering if they had ever met in real life. you italicized the "just", i didn't.

don't be such a self-righteous bitch.

 

Ronstang

Lifer
Jul 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: moshquerade
did we ever even find out if this was just an online gf? :confused:

I married my online boyfriend. He was never just a just.....
and obviosly she means a lot to him.


Ah, but the important question remains to be asked....is the converse true?
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Adica
Originally posted by: moshquerade
did we ever even find out if this was just an online gf? :confused:

I married my online boyfriend. He was never just a just.....
and obviosly she means a lot to him.
did i say she didn't mean a lot to him? :confused:
i was wondering if they had ever met in real life. you italicized the "just", i didn't.

don't be such a self-righteous bitch.


lol...pwn3d :laugh:

oh, and i agree mosh...that was a pretty annoying post (Adica's)

an online boyfriend or girlfriend is just a just for all of us who date people we have actually met. maybe after you meet the person you can get pissed, but before that, you dont really know the person. people are much different in person than they are over the phone.
 

Landroval

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Feb 5, 2005
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If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.
 

bootymac

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Aug 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?
 

olds

Elite Member
Mar 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?

No
 

Zim Hosein

Super Moderator | Elite Member
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Nov 27, 1999
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Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?

No

I concur :beer:
 

Landroval

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Feb 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?


If I were freaking out with worry and waiting for news as I tried to call friends, sure. And if the news had been good I could make light of some of the crap said. But if I got some bad news, I would focus on that, especially considering some of the dickhead responses he was getting. He was in a tormented emotional state, was not treated with much respect or compassion... I would not blame him if he never returns here. He certainly does not "owe" us an explanation to fulfil some sense of morbid curiosity. That said, I do hope he retuns and posts an update when he is ready, and that it is good news.
 

bootymac

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Aug 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?

No

I concur :beer:

Exactly. So if this dude posts in the first place, he's gotta follow through :p
 

Zim Hosein

Super Moderator | Elite Member
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Nov 27, 1999
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Originally posted by: Landroval
Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?


If I were freaking out with worry and waiting for news as I tried to call friends, sure. And if the news had been good I could make light of some of the crap said. But if I got some bad news, I would focus on that, especially considering some of the dickhead responses he was getting. He was in a tormented emotional state, was not treated with much respect or compassion... I would not blame him if he never returns here. He certainly does not "owe" us an explanation to fulfil some sense of morbid curiosity. That said, I do hope he retuns and posts an update when he is ready, and that it is good news.

Seek professional help Landroval! :p
 

Landroval

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Feb 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: Landroval
Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?


If I were freaking out with worry and waiting for news as I tried to call friends, sure. And if the news had been good I could make light of some of the crap said. But if I got some bad news, I would focus on that, especially considering some of the dickhead responses he was getting. He was in a tormented emotional state, was not treated with much respect or compassion... I would not blame him if he never returns here. He certainly does not "owe" us an explanation to fulfil some sense of morbid curiosity. That said, I do hope he retuns and posts an update when he is ready, and that it is good news.

Seek professional help Landroval! :p

Isn't ATOT the equivalent of professional therapy? :D

 

Baked

Lifer
Dec 28, 2004
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Originally posted by: Landroval
Originally posted by: Zim Hosein
Originally posted by: Landroval
Originally posted by: bootymac
Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?


If I were freaking out with worry and waiting for news as I tried to call friends, sure. And if the news had been good I could make light of some of the crap said. But if I got some bad news, I would focus on that, especially considering some of the dickhead responses he was getting. He was in a tormented emotional state, was not treated with much respect or compassion... I would not blame him if he never returns here. He certainly does not "owe" us an explanation to fulfil some sense of morbid curiosity. That said, I do hope he retuns and posts an update when he is ready, and that it is good news.

Seek professional help Landroval! :p

Isn't ATOT the equivalent of professional therapy? :D

If you wanna go insane, sure.