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moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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Originally posted by: Landroval
Being that worried about her, I can uderstand why he might have logged off, went to talk to rl friends, pray, etc. I'm sure he'll post when the situation is more stable.
yeh, understandable except he noted a hospital bed like he may have knew she was hospitalized, but yet didn't quite verify it.

 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Vonkhan
Just read what some posted above my last reply.

She's banging a hospital bed.
ok Vonkhan, that's really crap that you post "she's banging a hospital bed" and just leave it at that. do you know that for certain? you could have verified. :/

:roll:

step 1. remove stick from a$$
step 2. take a deep breath
step 3. masturbate furiously
step 4. live happily ever after
 

Landroval

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Feb 5, 2005
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Landroval
Being that worried about her, I can uderstand why he might have logged off, went to talk to rl friends, pray, etc. I'm sure he'll post when the situation is more stable.
yeh, understandable except he noted a hospital bed like he may have knew she was hospitalized, but yet didn't quite verify it.


He's probaly in shock. If it were me, I would have probably forgotten this thread altogether and went to do something or called someone. And he might have been offended by earlier comments and/or getting details at that time and not felt up to elaborating before he went off to do whatever he is doing. Hopefully it will turn out to be not too serious and he can tell us more in a few days :)
 

xirtam

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Aug 25, 2001
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Anybody else find it odd that ATOT finds out about this kind of thing before the police/relatives/family/those-who-actually-might-help?
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Jan 30, 2003
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Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Vonkhan
Just read what some posted above my last reply.

She's banging a hospital bed.
ok Vonkhan, that's really crap that you post "she's banging a hospital bed" and just leave it at that. do you know that for certain? you could have verified. :/

:roll:

step 1. remove stick from a$$
step 2. take a deep breath
step 3. masturbate furiously
step 4. live happily ever after

She's not ammusing. You're not funny. It sucks but it's just how it is. Don't take it to hard.
 

BillyBatson

Diamond Member
May 13, 2001
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call her local police.
if she is your gf do you have any sort of info like her parents #? or anyone you can contact more than just 1 person?
have you ever met her in person!?
 

CVSiN

Diamond Member
Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: Vonkhan
My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.

She hasn't come back to her apartment since.

I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.

The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.

There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.

At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.

I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.

Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.


My guess is she shacked up with some hot guy or girl...
and they have been in bed for 2 days :p
most likely outcome is she met someone and you are toast..
 

GoingUp

Lifer
Jul 31, 2002
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Christ, whats it is with a thread where someone is genuinely concerned with/has a serious problem with something that brings the assholes out of the woodwork.
 

Doboji

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May 18, 2001
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Wait wait... she's in the hospital? What? Why? Must be serious if she couldnt contact you. Update us for godsakes. You got me freakin out and I dont even know you or her.

-Max
 

cerebusPu

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May 27, 2000
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Vonkhan
Just read what some posted above my last reply.

She's banging a hospital bed.

Really? What happened to her?

what a crappy update. you cant just leave it at that.
 

isasir

Diamond Member
Aug 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Vonkhan
Just read what some posted above my last reply.

She's banging a hospital bed.

Really? What happened to her?

LOL. Lifer posts asshole comment and is now actually semi-curious about what really happened but gets assholish response in return.
 

Aharami

Lifer
Aug 31, 2001
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we need an update. but i think OP is too busy/worried right now for an update
 

isasir

Diamond Member
Aug 8, 2000
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Originally posted by: Aharami
we need an update. but i think OP is too busy/worried right now for an update

No, I think the OP doesn't think the collective ATOT DESERVES an update, since this forum is full of assholes.
 

JulesMaximus

No Lifer
Jul 3, 2003
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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Christ, whats it is with a thread where someone is genuinely concerned with/has a serious problem with something that brings the assholes out of the woodwork.

Did it occur to you that some here might be skeptical of the entire story to begin with? Is there something wrong with being skeptical?
 

MrDudeMan

Lifer
Jan 15, 2001
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Christ, whats it is with a thread where someone is genuinely concerned with/has a serious problem with something that brings the assholes out of the woodwork.

Did it occur to you that some here might be skeptical of the entire story to begin with? Is there something wrong with being skeptical?

nothing wrong with being skeptical, but that doesnt warrant being an a$$hole. if his story is in fact the way he says it is, it would be horrible to read all of this stuff when he could be losing the person he loves.

in short, dont believe it if you want...nothing wrong with that...but dont be mean incase its true.
 

kranky

Elite Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Christ, whats it is with a thread where someone is genuinely concerned with/has a serious problem with something that brings the assholes out of the woodwork.

Did it occur to you that some here might be skeptical of the entire story to begin with? Is there something wrong with being skeptical?

Skeptical? Fine. But you posted:
She's banging some other dude. Get over it.

That's not skeptical, that's being an ass. But now that it looks like she might have had an accident and the story is true, you want to backpedal away from being an ass.
 

CRXican

Diamond Member
Jun 9, 2004
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Some people always expect the worse. I didn't read eveything but the info seems lacking.

She's off in NY by herself, I don't even know if I could deal with that.

::edit::

saw the shady hospital bed post, WTF mate?

if you really are her b/f and she actually cares about you and her parents are in Serbia don't you think you would have been someone she wanted to get in contact with right away?
 

CVSiN

Diamond Member
Jul 19, 2004
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Originally posted by: Gobadgrs
Christ, whats it is with a thread where someone is genuinely concerned with/has a serious problem with something that brings the assholes out of the woodwork.

if they are so freaking concerned wtf is he asking ATOT?
the LAST place I come when real life issues hit are a freaking message board..
so freaking bite my ass..
yes im an asshole and damn proud of it...
and hes a dumbass who would rather ask a board full of computer nerds than to call the hospitols, law enforcement or other more relevent sources.