GF no-longer missing, updated & matter closed

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.

Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.

Good to hear that she's conscious, and I hope she gets better soon.

 

[maziwanka]

wow. i hope she's ok. glad to hear that you were able to track her down though.

 

Glad shes ok....

 

[isasir]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: bootymac

Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?

apparently so...
these people crack me up...

yah like Im gonna take the time to go to AT and say OH NOEZ~ my Dogs uncles girlfriends brother has gone missing someone help me call someone~!
oh nooooez!

if you really think you need to come here as part of your emergency procedures..
you really need to get a real life....

Well the guy got a hospital hotline number within a few minutes of posting here, which proved to be the most efficient method of contact, so I'd say it was a good decision on his part to post here.

People who cry out "Call 911" for everything that goes wrong don't have enough life experience to realize that 911 isn't the solution for everything (especially when it's minor on the emergency scale, as far as 911 is concerned)

 

[tami]

he's from west virginia, you silly people (who didn't read the entire thread)!

anyhow, thank you for informing us of what happened. i hope she gets well soon, and i hope you get some much needed rest.

 

[skace]

You shouldn't have updated this thread, the assholes in here don't deserve it. It's like a fvcking retard convention for more than 75% of this thread. Anyhow, glad to hear your GF is okay and cheers to the person who actually helped you.

 

[Rayden]

Glad to hear you found her and she is ok.

 

[GoingUp]

Originally posted by: Rayden
Glad to hear you found her and she is ok.

 

[fs5]

Syringer avoided.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: isasir

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: bootymac

Originally posted by: Landroval
If your SO disappeared, you worried for days, then found out he/she was in the hospital (for whatever reason), would you HONESTLY put responding to this thread (where people also said nasty things while you were suffering with worry) in your top 100 list of things to do this week? Even if she is in the hospital for a relatively minor reason, his concern and need to focus on her welfare at the moment, vastly outweighs his need to respond to our curiosity, no matter how well intentioned.

If your SO dissapears, would you post on ATOT in the first place?

apparently so...
these people crack me up...

yah like Im gonna take the time to go to AT and say OH NOEZ~ my Dogs uncles girlfriends brother has gone missing someone help me call someone~!
oh nooooez!

if you really think you need to come here as part of your emergency procedures..
you really need to get a real life....

Well the guy got a hospital hotline number within a few minutes of posting here, which proved to be the most efficient method of contact, so I'd say it was a good decision on his part to post here.

People who cry out "Call 911" for everything that goes wrong don't have enough life experience to realize that 911 isn't the solution for everything (especially when it's minor on the emergency scale, as far as 911 is concerned)

I never said call 911 (they would have told the user wtf are you calling us for) im not a fvcking dipsh!t like the op...
at 34 Im adult and smart enough to do my own homework and while it may involve the internet, it will not now, or ever involve airing my dirty laundry or asking a tech forum for help regarding a personal issue..

 

[Pliablemoose]

Glad you found her:beer:

Hope she has a speedy recovery.

 

[Isocene]

Originally posted by: skace
You shouldn't have updated this thread, the assholes in here don't deserve it. It's like a fvcking retard convention for more than 75% of this thread. Anyhow, glad to hear your GF is okay and cheers to the person who actually helped you.

Haha retard convention.

I agree, some people here are pretty bad. They will grow up one day though.

 

[cavemanmoron]

update/edit original post

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Ciber
All the assholes must be feeling really stupid right about now.


Glad to hear your GF is Ok.

Meh, so I was wrong. It's not the first time and it won't be the last. BFD.

Vonkhan-I'm glad your GF is okay though. No hard feelings?

 

[tooltime]

keep us posted

 

[MrDingleDangle]

hope your g/f gets better fast.

i cant believe so many comments people made on here...i have asked plenty of questions on here and always get responses faster then looking for them on google, and in this case it worked also

there are good people on this forum...just seems like most of them are getting pissed off at all these assholes and leaving recently

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.

She hasn't come back to her apartment since.

I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.

The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.

There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.

At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.

I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.

Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

-

She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.

Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.

She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.

Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.

Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.

To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.

After reading Vonkhan's update to the thread, am I the only one who doesn't thing that the original post and response doesn't add up?

 

[MrDingleDangle]

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.

She hasn't come back to her apartment since.

I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.

The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.

There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.

At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.

I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.

Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

-

She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.

Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.

She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.

Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.

Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.

To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.

After reading Vonkhan's update to the thread, am I the only one who doesn't thing that the original post and response doesn't add up?

care to explain?

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: MrDingleDangle

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.

She hasn't come back to her apartment since.

I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.

The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.

There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.

At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.

I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.

Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

-

She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.

Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.

She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.

Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.

Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.

To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.

After reading Vonkhan's update to the thread, am I the only one who doesn't thing that the original post and response doesn't add up?

care to explain?

Well I'll start w/ the fact that Vonkhan has access to her bank & e-mail account, but is concerned about being "dumped."

 

[bootymac]

Well, I'm not going to feed the fire and just be glad everything's okay

 

[Zim Hosein]

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well, I'm not going to feed the fire and just be glad everything's okay

I too would be glad that everything turned out fine for the OP; but I am still skeptical about the "whole" story IMO bootymac.

 

[rickn]

I try and lose my GF's at the $1 bin at Big Lots

 

[tami]

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well, I'm not going to feed the fire and just be glad everything's okay

I too would be glad that everything turned out fine for the OP; but I am still skeptical about the "whole" story IMO bootymac.

i think the dumping issue was a fleeting thought. all such things come to mind when you're in a panic. if he still had access to her bank account, chances are that she didn't dump him (and she didn't), so the mindset shifted to being concerned about his girlfriend's safety rather than about ending the relationship.

it adds up fine to me -- one million thoughts going through your head when you're worried is about normal.

 

[MrDudeMan]

Originally posted by: tami

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well, I'm not going to feed the fire and just be glad everything's okay

I too would be glad that everything turned out fine for the OP; but I am still skeptical about the "whole" story IMO bootymac.

i think the dumping issue was a fleeting thought. all such things come to mind when you're in a panic. if he still had access to her bank account, chances are that she didn't dump him (and she didn't), so the mindset shifted to being concerned about his girlfriend's safety rather than about ending the relationship.

it adds up fine to me -- one million thoughts going through your head when you're worried is about normal.

thats what i was thinking :thumbsup:

glad shes ok

 

[Landroval]

Originally posted by: tami

Originally posted by: Zim Hosein

Originally posted by: bootymac
Well, I'm not going to feed the fire and just be glad everything's okay

I too would be glad that everything turned out fine for the OP; but I am still skeptical about the "whole" story IMO bootymac.

i think the dumping issue was a fleeting thought. all such things come to mind when you're in a panic. if he still had access to her bank account, chances are that she didn't dump him (and she didn't), so the mindset shifted to being concerned about his girlfriend's safety rather than about ending the relationship.

it adds up fine to me -- one million thoughts going through your head when you're worried is about normal.

I agree. I read that part of the initial post as him trying to preempt fvcktard responses about how she probably left him, because (AS HE SAID) he was mostly concerned with finding out if she was ok, not whether people on ATOT felt she was doing X, Y or Z.