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Originally posted by: dahunan
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: dahunan
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: dahunan
When are you dumbasses going to volunteer to use your belly as a fvcking 9 month incubator...


Too many men are just scumbags who want some good pussy so they bnng a woman and get her pregnant and then leave her.. and somehow you NO CHOICE mother fvckers say it is all her fault and will FORCE HER to bring the fetus to term...

some of you people are very frightening ..

And what about the woman who uses the man with the intention of scoring a free ride for the next 20 years?


Exactly.. you are a chauvinist.. plain and simple

Yes, all women are gold diggers and only screw men so they can at least get alimony

No no no no... You're not getting off that easy. I didn't say that at all. Nice try.

I asked about the woman who deliberately deceives the man in an effort to score a free ride (child support) for the next 20 years.


Some of these questions are so far away from the current issues around abortion.. Most people just want to ban it .. period..

Obviously a court of law should determine if this woman did what you are saying and if so then she needs to be held responsible.. There is still some shared responsibility since the man did shove his cock in her.. He should have been a bit more careful.. But if it can be proven that she deliberately deceived him then something needs to be done to far lessen his responsibility.

Thank you for seeing my point.
 
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: dahunan
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: dahunan
When are you dumbasses going to volunteer to use your belly as a fvcking 9 month incubator...


Too many men are just scumbags who want some good pussy so they bnng a woman and get her pregnant and then leave her.. and somehow you NO CHOICE mother fvckers say it is all her fault and will FORCE HER to bring the fetus to term...

some of you people are very frightening ..

And what about the woman who uses the man with the intention of scoring a free ride for the next 20 years?


Exactly.. you are a chauvinist.. plain and simple

Yes, all women are gold diggers and only screw men so they can at least get alimony

No no no no... You're not getting off that easy. I didn't say that at all. Nice try.

I asked about the woman who deliberately deceives the man in an effort to score a free ride (child support) for the next 20 years.

Come on dude - do you think the majority of people actually think this way?! With any argument - you're going to find these weird ass extreme examples to back up your weak ass point - the selective minority should not be lent any credence in place of the honest majority in an abortion argument, or any for that matter.

This argument certainly isn't going to apply to the majority of cases but it does happen and as I've come to find out it happens with frightening regularity. When the man has been completely deceived what recourse should they have?
 
Originally posted by: Frackal
[It's interesting to watch the condescension expressed here, its indicative of a person being threatened by an argument and lashing out in anger.

You still have failed to provide an actual counter-response to my argument, and unless you wish to do so I have no reason to respond to you further, as I am not particularly interested in providing you with another opportunity to insult people.

Condescension is what I see as being your due, since your argument has got to be one of the most juvenile ones on this subject I've ever seen. I have provided a concise counter-argument, you provide an ironic display of projection.

It's been fun, good night 🙂
 
Did anyone here actually watch the program to SEE what the real abortion issues are about?!?!?!? :disgust:

I didn't think so....

It's not about the 1 in a million gold diggers or the mans right to abortion. It was about the poverty stricken south and the irrisposible legislature on womens HEALTH. Basically Missisippi lobyists are trying to ban abortion but in return give no help to the women who get screwed (literally) for health care when the baby is born.

Try informing yourselves before posting sometimes people!
 
Originally posted by: LtPage1
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
Do men have a right to choose? Why does this mysterious 'right' women have, not apply to men? Besides, the 'right to choose' does not exist..

It's a Constitutional right to privacy, meaning that it's not any of your damn business. It's HER body, NOT yours. And it sure as hell doesn't belong to the government.

If it's HER body, how come The Man can hassle (arrest) her for putting illegal drugs in it? I do not see how one can be pro-choice and anti-drug legalization, and yet be philosophically consistent.
 
Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: dahunan
Frackal I hear what you are saying and do agree that a man can either wear a condom, pay for the birth control pills or pay for a morning after pill if he does not want to produce a baby. He needs to be responsible..

If he didn't want the baby then he better make sure BEFORE he fornicates with her.. Write a contract beforehand.. not after... The responsibility is shared as soon as his chocolate got on her peanut butter.. etc 😉

*******Honestly.. .how much time do you think he should truly be allowed.. you made it sound like he should get 6 months to figure his sh!t out ..

Why is it by default the man's responsibility to prevent pregnancy? With all the female cries for equality you'd think the current thought would be it is both parties who are responsible.


Equal responsibility goes along with the concept of equal rights, and vice versa.

A man does not have equal rights in deciding whether a pregnant woman keeps the baby, therefore he should not have government mandated equal responsibility to it.


There is a severe logic deficit going on in these arguments here, with an unusual but rather apparent absolute hatred for (some) men coming from men.... or are you women?

It is by default the man's responsibility to prevent pregnancy if he in fact does not want to have a child, regardless of the woman's choice. If YOU do not want to have a child, YOU need to do something about it (including keeping your pants on if you want certainty of not becoming a father).
 
Originally posted by: dahunan
When are you dumbasses going to volunteer to use your belly as a fvcking 9 month incubator...


Too many men are just scumbags who want some good pussy so they bnng a woman and get her pregnant and then leave her.. and somehow you NO CHOICE chauvinists say it is all her fault and will FORCE HER to bring the fetus to term...

some of you people are very frightening ..

When you spread your legs it damn well is your fault.

Originally posted by: Mursilis
It is by default the man's responsibility to prevent pregnancy if he in fact does not want to have a child, regardless of the woman's choice. If YOU do not want to have a child, YOU need to do something about it (including keeping your pants on if you want certainty of not becoming a father).

The same is true for a woman regardless of how the man feels.
 
If men had babies, you would be able to get abortions on demand from vending machines on any street corner.
 
Originally posted by: zendari
Originally posted by: dahunan
When are you dumbasses going to volunteer to use your belly as a fvcking 9 month incubator...


Too many men are just scumbags who want some good pussy so they bnng a woman and get her pregnant and then leave her.. and somehow you NO CHOICE chauvinists say it is all her fault and will FORCE HER to bring the fetus to term...

some of you people are very frightening ..

When you spread your legs it damn well is your fault.
And there's a perfectly useful way to correct it.

The only defensible argument against abortion is from the perspective of fetal rights, and it doesn't depend on consent, in which case the woman may never have 'chosen' to spread her legs at all.
Originally posted by: Mursilis
It is by default the man's responsibility to prevent pregnancy if he in fact does not want to have a child, regardless of the woman's choice. If YOU do not want to have a child, YOU need to do something about it (including keeping your pants on if you want certainty of not becoming a father).

The same is true for a woman regardless of how the man feels.

Actually, no it isn't - a woman is able to choose an abortion. A man isn't. This is perfectly obvious from the fact that only the woman can have a medical procedure to end her pregnancy; a man can have all the surgery he wants (and I support his right to do it 'in private') and it won't change whether the woman he knocked up gives birth.
 
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
I'm also curious as to why men can't invoke their right to 'privacy'. If a woman can choose to terminate a baby because its her body, shouldn't a father be allowed to terminate his duties as a father as well? Why does this 'right' only exist for woman?

It sounds like you're almost advocating http://www.ChoiceForMen.com

It's an idea that's far, far ahead of it's time. Let's just secure women's right to have access to abortion first. Once we've taken care of that then we can focus on paper abortions for men, which I actually support. It's a good idea but since men are second class citizens in this country and in much of the Western world, it's not going to happen in our lifetimes. Heck, we still have the all-male military draft and legalized involuntary male genital mutilation (circumcision).
 
Originally posted by: Agnostos Insania

When a woman wants to get an abortion I think it's safe to say the man has already terminated most of his duties. I think most of the women would be either single or in a bad relationship, and hence why they want an abortion.

Anyway, the male makes the sperm and that's it. When it meets the egg it breaks down and the sperm is no more. It's a zygote that the mother is controlling, the father's role is over. (At least biologically)

But under the law involuntary fathers are still required to pay child support. Heck, even men who have been proven by DNA evidence to not be the biological fathers might still have to pay child support if they were declared to be the fathers and paternity fraud is still rampant.

It would be nice if men could go to court and put up a bond to pay for a woman's abortion and for her inconvenience in order to waive all rights and responsibilities to the unwanted child. If the woman decides to continue her pregnancy she may do so knowing that she'll bare all of the rights and responsibilities; at that point it's her choice. Since women really decide whether or not there will be a child, it seems like they should pay for the consequences of their decision.
 
Originally posted by: Agnostos Insania

I wouldn't as far as having the power to force an abortion, but there should definitely be ways to get around the responsibilities. Maybe when there are more efficient ways to perform the abortion.
I remember a woman who artifically impregnated herself with her boyfriend's sperm (found in condom) and the husband found out and pressed charges. The court found that it wasn't his responsibility, as he had nothing to do with it.

The default law is "strict liability". If you are the biological father, unless it was through a sperm bank (and even that is iffy), you're financially responsible. So even if the sperm was taken from a discarded condom without a man's consent he's still responsible.

Can you imagine a situation where it were possible to clone people from their DNA or at least to create sperm from it? Can you imagine women stalking rich men hoping to obtain hair folicles and whatnot so that they can become pregant and get huge child support checks? Under the current laws that sort of scenario isn't far fetched. I can just imagine well-to-do men going around wearing body condoms and trying to scrape away all lose hairs and skin cells (ala the movie GATTACA) to prevent anyone from obtaining their DNA.
 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Have you actually read the Roe v Wade decision? It's quite a bit murkier than extending free press rights to the internet.


It is murky. Basically, since the populace can't resolve this issue with a Constitutional amendment the Court had to make a decision and it sided on including abortion as being one of those things that the government should not be able to dictate to people.

The idea of their being a right to privacy does make some sense. Would the authors of the Federalists Papers have really envisioned a government that controlled private aspects of people's lives, telling them when and how often they could have sexual relations (ala North Korea.) (Did anyone see that Sixty Minutes interview about the American GI who defected during the Korean War? The North Korean government assigned him a wife and dictated that they were to have sex twice a month.) Might we infer from our having freedom of religion and speech that we also have a right to make personal, private decisions? The notion that the government might dictate that sort of thing to people was probably so absurd and foreign in the 18th Century that the drafters of the Constitution didn't think to include it, unfortunately. They could conceive of the government jailing people for political purposes, forcing a religion onto people, and of the government controlling the press, but not of an all-encompassing communist-like government that would dicate private aspects of people's lives.

Furthermore, the Constitution grants citizenship to people who are born on the nation's soil or to citizens of the nation--not conceived, but born. What exactly does that imply about the issue of abortion? Also, since abortion is primarily a religious issue and since we do have separation of church and state, it seems that it would be wrong for the government to force a religious view on people one way or the other.
 
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
Do men have a right to choose? Why does this mysterious 'right' women have, not apply to men? Besides, the 'right to choose' does not exist..

men get to choose where they deposit their sperm (e.g., in a bunch of tissues, or in the vaginia of a fertile female human being). they also get to make decisions about their own bodies. For example, if a man is diagnosed with prostate cancer, he is entitled to choose whether or not to have the tumor removed. Men don't get to choose whether or not a fetus is carried to term in the body of another (female) human being. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: LtPage1
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
Do men have a right to choose? Why does this mysterious 'right' women have, not apply to men? Besides, the 'right to choose' does not exist..

It's a Constitutional right to privacy, meaning that it's not any of your damn business. It's HER body, NOT yours. And it sure as hell doesn't belong to the government.

What about the baby's body and its right to privacy much less its right to life liberty and the pursuit of hapiness?

We are not talking about babies. Babies, by definition, have already been 'born' whether vaginally or via cesarian section. We are talking about fetuses. Your misuse of the English language is noted.
 
Originally posted by: Agnostos Insania
Even born infants rely solely on instinct and have very little sentience.

So true. I have read that when a new-born baby "smiles" it is merely a reflex contraction of the mouth muscles, and doesn't indicate much at all about the emotional state of the baby. Human adults get mushy over a baby's smile, and apparently often experience an overwhelming desire to take care of the little baby. Thus the reflex smile of a new born can be conceptualized as a sneaky evolutionary adaptation, which has the effect of tricking adult humans into taking care of it. This would have been important in our evolutionary history, in situations where a new born was orphaned or the birth parents weren't interested in caring for it. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
Originally posted by: LtPage1
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
Do men have a right to choose? Why does this mysterious 'right' women have, not apply to men? Besides, the 'right to choose' does not exist..

It's a Constitutional right to privacy, meaning that it's not any of your damn business. It's HER body, NOT yours. And it sure as hell doesn't belong to the government.

Could you quote that passage in the Constitution? Oh, thats right.. it doesn't exist.. its only 'exists' because a liberal supreme court said it did.

"privacy" in the USA extends in part from a citizen's due process rights, or rights to simply carry on her or his own private and public business without undue interference from the state.

I cannot even begin to comprehend the mentality of a citizen unwilling to defend privacy rights.

 
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
I'm also curious as to why men can't invoke their right to 'privacy'. If a woman can choose to terminate a baby because its her body, shouldn't a father be allowed to terminate his duties as a father as well? Why does this 'right' only exist for woman?

no, a man doesn't have the right to have a fetus removed from a woman's body against her will. the man simply has no jurisdiction over the body of another mentally competent citizen.

the man gave up control over the situation when he ejaculated into a female citizen's vaginal canal. maybe he should have taken responsibility and used a condom. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
I'm just pointing out that in this situation, where three people are involved, one person has all the power.

Who is the third person? Surely you are not referring to the fetus, which is not a person at all.

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
So I'll just lay the story out. I had a psycho GF who manipulated her BC to get pregnant.

You seem to be placing responsibility for pregnancy prevention on someone other than yourself. Why aren't you taking responsibility? Did your "psycho" girl friend manipulate you into not using condoms? Or was that decison down to your own selfish desire to fvck without condoms (which let's face it does feel better, but allows unwanted pregnancies to occur)?

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
She did this because she knew we weren't going to last. She was with me for the money and she knew that if she got preggo she could get enough in child support from me that she wouldn't have to work. In the end her friends talked her into getting an abortion. *whew*

I firmly believe that the father should have as much right to demand an abortion as the mother. Especially when fraud is involved.

You are pathetic. Use a condom, or get a vasectomy. Quit whining. Take responsibility for your own pathetic pleasure-seeking actions. Keep 'it' in your pants, or stfu.

 
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
I think men should have the right to an abortion as well, and if that RIGHT is denied, then the woman, if she chooses not to have one, should also not have any right to financial support by the man as well. Again, since when do rights in this country only apply to 1 sex?

So you think you should have the right to force a potentially life threatening medical procedure on another citizen who is mentally competent to make decisions for herself? lol.

 
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
I think men should have the right to an abortion as well, and if that RIGHT is denied, then the woman, if she chooses not to have one, should also not have any right to financial support by the man as well. Again, since when do rights in this country only apply to 1 sex?

So you think you should have the right to force a potentially life threatening medical procedure on another citizen who is mentally competent to make decisions for herself? lol.

No, he should have the right to waive away parenthood, just as a potential mother can.
 
Originally posted by: WhipperSnapper
since men are second class citizens in this country and in much of the Western world

where abouts are you? what evidence do you have that men are second class citizens in your country?
 
Originally posted by: zendari
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: The Conspirator
I think men should have the right to an abortion as well, and if that RIGHT is denied, then the woman, if she chooses not to have one, should also not have any right to financial support by the man as well. Again, since when do rights in this country only apply to 1 sex?

So you think you should have the right to force a potentially life threatening medical procedure on another citizen who is mentally competent to make decisions for herself? lol.

No, he should have the right to waive away parenthood, just as a potential mother can.

The mother can't waive away parenthood after the infant is born. (The child can be put up for adoption, I suppose, but that requires agreement from botht the father & mother I would have thought). What the mother can do is decide to abort a fetus inside her womb.

The man gets to decide where he deposits his semen.
 
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