didnt call girlfriend on one year anniversary...

Reggae4k

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friday we get into a small fight because i didnt drive her to the gucci store like she asked me to. i had made plans to leave friday afternoon to drive to vermont for snowboarding and driving her to gucci was out of the way. our anniversary is saturday and i spent the weekend snowboarding with my friends. she said it was ok for me to go anyways because she had a very important presentation to finish and we couldnt celebrate until after wednesday dec 1.

i didnt call her on saturday because of the fight the previous day. my phone was nearly out of batteries the whole weekend and i didnt have my charger so i turned it off most of the weekend. i sort of expected her to call and leave a voicemail, but she never did. so i call her sunday and she says to me shes very pissed that i didnt call on saturday (our anniversary). i explained to her that she sort of built a wall of anger from friday's incident and i didnt want to call on saturday. i wouldve called her on saturday if she left a voicemail on my phone cause it would have meant that she didnt have that wall of anger anymore. but she never left a message so i assumed she was still pissed.

so basically i told her i didnt call her saturday because i didnt want any lip about friday's fight. now shes very angry that i didnt call saturday and i want to make it up to her some how.

what should i do?
 

KK

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Originally posted by: Reggae4k
friday we get into a small fight because i didnt drive her to the gucci store like she asked me to. i had made plans to leave friday afternoon to drive to vermont for snowboarding and driving her to gucci was out of the way. our anniversary is saturday and i spent the weekend snowboarding with my friends. she said it was ok for me to go anyways because she had a very important presentation to finish and we couldnt celebrate until after wednesday dec 1.

i didnt call her on saturday because of the fight the previous day. my phone was nearly out of batteries the whole weekend and i didnt have my charger so i turned it off most of the weekend. i sort of expected her to call and leave a voicemail, but she never did. so i call her sunday and she says to me shes very pissed that i didnt call on saturday (our anniversary). i explained to her that she sort of built a wall of anger from friday's incident and i didnt want to call on saturday. i wouldve called her on saturday if she left a voicemail on my phone cause it would have meant that she didnt have that wall of anger anymore. but she never left a message so i assumed she was still pissed.

so basically i told her i didnt call her saturday because i didnt want any lip about friday's fight. now shes very angry that i didnt call saturday and i want to make it up to her some how.

what should i do?

dump her.
 

Grey

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She has been dating you for a year and didn't see this coming?
 

Gulzakar

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She sounds like a preppy ho.

She's pissed because you didn't want to take her to Gucci...

Good job picken em!

ask yourself one question, do I need this kind of BS?
 

purbeast0

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unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.
 

notfred

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Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?
 

MrChad

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Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?

At least it's not a "6 month anniversary" :p
 

BornStar

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You fool. Do you know how many rules you broke with what you just told us? I don't have time to list them all.

You've got a lot of work to do if you want to get her happy with you again.
 

GoingUp

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Originally posted by: Gulzakar
She sounds like a preppy ho.

She's pissed because you didn't want to take her to Gucci...

Good job picken em!

ask yourself one question, do I need this kind of BS?

 

UsandThem

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Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?

Young people creat anniversaries for everything. They probably have one for the first time they ate a McDonalds together :)

I am lucky, because my wife forgot several of our anniversaries, so I have three get out of jail free cards :)

 

Bumrush99

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Tell her you didn't go snowboarding, you were busy banging a few of the local girls at the resort and that you didn't have much time in between sessions to call. That should make everything better :beer:
 

Lonyo

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I don't even know when 1 year will come up, but luckily it's also a friends birthday, so I can ask the friend when her B-day is, and I will have the date, thankfully.

Women are always stressy, get used to it, apologise, buy some roses, let her choose some nice clothes for herself.
Be done. Have make-up sex.