didnt call girlfriend on one year anniversary...

[thirdlegstump]

Don't make the mistake and give in. Never. Once she's got you, you will be under her thumb forever.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: rh71

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?

Agreed. Talk about a non-event. I roll my eyes at the both of you...:roll:

becoming exclusive perhaps ? I know times are tough, but it wasn't that hard. Events have different meanings for different people... just because you don't believe in one thing doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Me=Confused...

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.

No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..

Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.

When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

The first rule of maintaining power in a relationship is when your girl says it is ok to do something, you do it.

 

[TheNinja]

Tell her to be like Fonzie....and what is Fonzie like Yolanda?

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: rh71

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?

Agreed. Talk about a non-event. I roll my eyes at the both of you...:roll:

becoming exclusive perhaps ? I know times are tough, but it wasn't that hard. Events have different meanings for different people... just because you don't believe in one thing doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Me=Confused...

ATOT is often confused = times are tough

 

[Amused]

Get pissed at her because she didn't remember the first anniversary of your first porking or blow job.

Married people have anniversaries. Dating couples and cohabs do not. Drill that sh!t into her head. If you cannot, start celebrating every stupid fscking thing you can think of.

 

[AkumaX]

Diamonds.

She'll pretty much have to.

 

[thegimp03]

Take her to the gucci store. Give her your credit card. Cry.

:thumbsup:

 

[Reggae4k]

Originally posted by: Amused
Get pissed at her because she didn't remember the first anniversary of your first porking or blow job.

Married people have anniversaries. Dating couples and cohabs do not. Drill that sh!t into her head. If you cannot, start celebrating every stupid fscking thing you can think of.

i agree, so my idea is to buy her a dozen roses, say im sorry again.

 

[bluehorizon]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Reggae4k

Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
OMGWTF, you didn't take her to the Gucci store? How will she ever survive?! 😕:Q

she was planning to buy herself stuff. i told her from the beginning she should never expect me to buy her stuff from gucci, prada, coach, etc...

And you expect her not to roll back on that? Please. 😛

- M4H

If she 'needs' stuff from Gucci, prada and coach, she's too stuck up and high maintenance anyway. Dump her greedy ass. She didn't call you either on your anniversary, so why is she upset with you? It sounds like she's nothing but a spoiled little princess.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.

No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..

Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.

When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

The first rule of maintaining power in a relationship is when your girl says it is ok to do something, you do it.

heh.. and how many wives and girlfriends you been through using that tactic...
my guess is quite a few..

 

[rh71]

Originally posted by: bluehorizon

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Reggae4k

Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
OMGWTF, you didn't take her to the Gucci store? How will she ever survive?! 😕:Q

she was planning to buy herself stuff. i told her from the beginning she should never expect me to buy her stuff from gucci, prada, coach, etc...

And you expect her not to roll back on that? Please. 😛

- M4H

If she 'needs' stuff from Gucci, prada and coach, she's too stuck up and high maintenance anyway. Dump her greedy ass. She didn't call you either on your anniversary, so why is she upset with you? It sounds like she's nothing but a spoiled little princess.

:roll: - god why is this a generic answer to so many things ? Might there be more to someone than what someone is telling us ?

 

[Farvacola]

If she means a lot to you, then make an effort and send flowers, card, or candy. If not, dump her preppy ass.

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.

No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..

Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.

When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

Agreed.

The OP is:

A. an asshat
B. 18
C. all of the above

On a side note, this thread is a prime example of why you should never ask for relationship advice here.

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Mwilding

The first rule of maintaining power in a relationship is when your girl says it is ok to do something, you do it.

heh.. and how many wives and girlfriends you been through using that tactic...
my guess is quite a few..
[/quote]My wife and I have been a couple for almost 10 years.

Life with a woman is a slippery slope. You have to work to maintain your power or else you will be just like all the other "yes, dear" guys who can't spend a night out with his friends once a month because his wife needs affirmation 24/7

 

[bluehorizon]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.

No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..

Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.

When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

It's not his job to read her mind. If they make plans before their anniversary, she has no room to bitch. If his girl wants to "test" him, as you said, she's not worth his time. Fvck all that caddy bullsh*t. She either means what she says or she doesn't open her mouth.

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: ggnl
Agreed.

The OP is:

A. an asshat
B. 18
C. all of the above

On a side note, this thread is a prime example of why you should never ask for relationship advice here.

You forgot:
D. A guy

Basically, he acted like a typical guy, and she acted like a typical girl. Nothing unusual here, move along...

 

[cavemanmoron]

Originally posted by: MrChad
Flowers would probably work.

Ask her why she didn't call you too.

Then take her out to Eat. 😉 😛

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: bluehorizon

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: nakedfrog

Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.

No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..

Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.

When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

It's not his job to read her mind. If they make plans before their anniversary, she has no room to bitch. If his girl wants to "test" him, as you said, she's not worth his time. Fvck all that caddy bullsh*t. She either means what she says or she doesn't open her mouth.

It's not that difficult to figure out what a girl is thinking, most of the times us guys just don't give a Fvck.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Mwilding

The first rule of maintaining power in a relationship is when your girl says it is ok to do something, you do it.

heh.. and how many wives and girlfriends you been through using that tactic...
my guess is quite a few..

My wife and I have been a couple for almost 10 years.

Life with a woman is a slippery slope. You have to work to maintain your power or else you will be just like all the other "yes, dear" guys who can't spend a night out with his friends once a month because his wife needs affirmation 24/7

[/quote]

Well being that I used to be like you till I got burned by doing my own thing when she was secretly upset that I wasnt clueing in on little hints she was giving.. I learned...
one too many fights because she said it was "ok" to do soemthing when it really wasnt...
and then her throwing back in your face...

Women keep mental score cards in thier heads and they remeber every little screw up you make...

flat out by the sound of this guys story he was being tested and he failed..

 

[GasX]

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Well being that I used to be like you till I got burned by doing my own thing when she was secretly upset that I wasnt clueing in on little hints she was giving.. I learned...
one too many fights because she said it was "ok" to do soemthing when it really wasnt...
and then her throwing back in your face...

Women keep mental score cards in thier heads and they remeber every little screw up you make...

flat out by the sound of this guys story he was being tested and he failed..

I have been burned too, but that doesn't change the fact that any of these "tests" is always failed. I go above and beyond all the time and when I go off to do my thing, I am not playing those games. You have to pick your fights and that is one I have chosen.

 

[maziwanka]

edited: in any case the OP should have done something for his gf on their one year anniversary. it sucks when you're not afforded the same appreciation you've given to another person. lesson learned (for the both of you).

the future of your relationship depends on the severity of the situation (which you'll get a feel for when you see her).

 

[MrChad]

Originally posted by: Mwilding

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Well being that I used to be like you till I got burned by doing my own thing when she was secretly upset that I wasnt clueing in on little hints she was giving.. I learned...
one too many fights because she said it was "ok" to do soemthing when it really wasnt...
and then her throwing back in your face...

Women keep mental score cards in thier heads and they remeber every little screw up you make...

flat out by the sound of this guys story he was being tested and he failed..

I have been burned too, but that doesn't change the fact that any of these "tests" is always failed. I go above and beyond all the time and when I go off to do my thing, I am not playing those games. You have to pick your fights and that is one I have chosen.

You both have good points. You have to "play the game" every now and then (if nothing else for your own sanity 😛), but you should definitely stand up to those "tests" occasionally as well.

 

[desteffy]

get a new girlfriend

 

[Anghang]

tell her the phone works both ways...she could've called also