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didnt call girlfriend on one year anniversary...

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Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
OMGWTF, you didn't take her to the Gucci store? How will she ever survive?! 😕:Q
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she was planning to buy herself stuff. i told her from the beginning she should never expect me to buy her stuff from gucci, prada, coach, etc...
 
Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
OMGWTF, you didn't take her to the Gucci store? How will she ever survive?! 😕:Q
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serously, that's violating the cardinal rule of being a boyfriend. :roll:
 
Originally posted by: Lonyo
I don't even know when 1 year will come up, but luckily it's also a friends birthday, so I can ask the friend when her B-day is, and I will have the date, thankfully.
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Good idea, lol. :beer:
 
Originally posted by: Reggae4k
Originally posted by: MmmSkyscraper
OMGWTF, you didn't take her to the Gucci store? How will she ever survive?! 😕:Q
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she was planning to buy herself stuff. i told her from the beginning she should never expect me to buy her stuff from gucci, prada, coach, etc...
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And you expect her not to roll back on that? Please. 😛

- M4H
 
Originally posted by: Fausto
Originally posted by: Reggae4k
Originally posted by: Yossarian
wall of anger, lol.
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its the best way to describe her attitude when it comes to crap like this.
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She's how old, exactly?
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They are both obviously too young and too stupid to have anything serious going on anyway so what the hell does it matter? As long as they don't breed we are all a little safer.
 
Originally posted by: Reggae4k
friday we get into a small fight because i didnt drive her to the gucci store like she asked me to. i had made plans to leave friday afternoon to drive to vermont for snowboarding and driving her to gucci was out of the way. our anniversary is saturday and i spent the weekend snowboarding with my friends. she said it was ok for me to go anyways because she had a very important presentation to finish and we couldnt celebrate until after wednesday dec 1.

i didnt call her on saturday because of the fight the previous day. my phone was nearly out of batteries the whole weekend and i didnt have my charger so i turned it off most of the weekend. i sort of expected her to call and leave a voicemail, but she never did. so i call her sunday and she says to me shes very pissed that i didnt call on saturday (our anniversary). i explained to her that she sort of built a wall of anger from friday's incident and i didnt want to call on saturday. i wouldve called her on saturday if she left a voicemail on my phone cause it would have meant that she didnt have that wall of anger anymore. but she never left a message so i assumed she was still pissed.

so basically i told her i didnt call her saturday because i didnt want any lip about friday's fight. now shes very angry that i didnt call saturday and i want to make it up to her some how.

what should i do?
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Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..
 
Don't worry bout it. Or more like, get used to it. You will probably get the same treatment if you happen to forget about your 500th day, or something like that... There is no reason why you should think you are at fault for all the reasons you had in your original post. If she wants to be pissed, let her be, she'll get bored real fast and either a.) come running back to you, or b.) say "teh hell wit you!"

Either situation, you pretty much win.
 
Originally posted by: CVSiN
Originally posted by: Reggae4k
friday we get into a small fight because i didnt drive her to the gucci store like she asked me to. i had made plans to leave friday afternoon to drive to vermont for snowboarding and driving her to gucci was out of the way. our anniversary is saturday and i spent the weekend snowboarding with my friends. she said it was ok for me to go anyways because she had a very important presentation to finish and we couldnt celebrate until after wednesday dec 1.

i didnt call her on saturday because of the fight the previous day. my phone was nearly out of batteries the whole weekend and i didnt have my charger so i turned it off most of the weekend. i sort of expected her to call and leave a voicemail, but she never did. so i call her sunday and she says to me shes very pissed that i didnt call on saturday (our anniversary). i explained to her that she sort of built a wall of anger from friday's incident and i didnt want to call on saturday. i wouldve called her on saturday if she left a voicemail on my phone cause it would have meant that she didnt have that wall of anger anymore. but she never left a message so i assumed she was still pissed.

so basically i told her i didnt call her saturday because i didnt want any lip about friday's fight. now shes very angry that i didnt call saturday and i want to make it up to her some how.

what should i do?
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Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..
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first, the plans was not to take her shopping. the idea was to drop her off at gucci and pick her up afterwards. i never agreed to anything because i already knew i was strapped for time. second, the plans were approved pre-anniversary that i could go snowboarding, she could work on her presentation and we celebrate afterwards. finally, ok i am a bit inconsiderate.
 
Originally posted by: Reggae4k
she was planning to buy herself stuff. i told her from the beginning she should never expect me to buy her stuff from gucci, prada, coach, etc...
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So she can't get her own ass over there then? Obviously not worth the effort even though it's so mind-bendingly important she has this stuff.

You should both end it. Doesn't sound like there's much there to fight about.
 
I'll just make this short and simple... girls count the hours you make them wait for an apology. It doesn't matter if they were right or wrong. Small disagreements always result in this anyway. Swallow your pride and do it ASAP. The 3 seconds of disgust that will overcome you is in no way comparable to the relief you will feel.

Making her wait an entire weekend, while you were out having fun no less (and she knows it), was the worst thing you could have possibly done for your relationship (outside of hooking up with a ski bunny on Saturday). Your 1-year anniversary will forever be marred by this incident.

Fix it ? You will need to go above and beyond - and it's not just dinner and flowers... that's what you would've done on your first-anniversary anyway.
 
Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.
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No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..
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Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.
 
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.
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:thumbsup: and a :beer:
 
Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?
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Agreed. Talk about a non-event. I roll my eyes at the both of you...:roll:

Edit-Doesn't she drive? Or are you her chauffer as well as her BF?
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: notfred
Oh, and WTF is up with "anniversaries" for people who aren't married? The anniversary of what, exactly?
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Agreed. Talk about a non-event. I roll my eyes at the both of you...:roll:
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becoming exclusive perhaps ? I know times are tough, but it wasn't that hard. Events have different meanings for different people... just because you don't believe in one thing doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
 
What is this crap?

It's funny that girlfriends even remember anniversaries, let alone think they're significant.

It's not like you got married, so what is the anniversary? First meeting? First date? First kiss? First talk of exclusivity? First. . . you get the idea.

It's stupid.

EDIT: Upon reading more posts, I see I'm not alone in my opinion.
 
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: purbeast0
unless you are a homosexual, get used to this.

girls get mad at anything and everything, no matter WHO you are with. it comes with the territory.

EDIT: and YES i am exaggerating.
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No you aren't.

Originally posted by: CVSiN
Youre an inconsiderate asshat..
when in a relationship there is no "I" you blew her off casue you were too self absorbed in your own plans to take her shopping bascially on your 1 year... (even though it was a day early) you should have bent your plans a little to take your girl out.. since you were going to be gone on the actual date...
hope she dumps your immature selfabsorbed ass..
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Are you a woman? You sure sound like one. He didn't "blow her off" if she said it was okay, now did he? Never mind the fact that he's somehow supposed to magically know that even though she said it was okay, she actually meant that it was actually NOT okay.
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When a girl tells you its ok to be gone on a "special Date" even if she says she has soemthing to do shes usally not telling you the whole truth... its like a test to see how much you actually care...
he choose to do his own thing... which was strike1
then.. the of the trip she asks (knowing full well his time table apparantly) to take a small detour to a store.. he declined base don his timetable to get away with the boys...
Strike2..
then after leaving the girl pissed at him for strike 2 proceeds to blow her off on the anniversary...
HUGE strike3...

dude hes so far out no ref in the world would call it safe...

no Im not a girl..
just a older guy thats been around the block more than 1 time...

 
Though, being on that reverse side, she might be super hot...

You've got to live by the 3F motto...

"Find em, $uck em, and Flee"

or my friends version:

"You've gotta screw them before they screw you...because either way, anyway, you're gonna get screwed."

Ho Ho Ho

 
Originally posted by: BornStar18
You fool. Do you know how many rules you broke with what you just told us? I don't have time to list them all.

You've got a lot of work to do if you want to get her happy with you again.
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What rules? the how to be a bitch-boy rules?

 
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