I appreciate your spending the time to type this up. I must however confess that I don't have time now to read it all in depth. Perhaps I can come back after work and do so.
I am surprised to hear that your father is an illegal immigrant. Given the circumstanes, he should have been permitted to enter legally. OK, now I see that he is legal, fine.
I have lived & worked in several foreign countries, always as a "legal" immigrant. Even so, I would have never dared exhibit the arrogance to march in their country and tell them what to do, to claim I had some special rights. Or try to claim government benefits such as free medical care, education or welfare etc. If I didn't like the rules, I could always opt to leave. IMHO, same goes these people, whether they are from Mexico or Central/South America-where ever.
I do not believe these people should be charged as "felons", merely deported if caught. Which is what I would have faced in the countries I lived in had I overstayed my visa etc. Seemed fair treatment towards me at the time, so I find it fair for them here.
I do not support hunting down illegal aliens for deportation. If they get into trouble and are discovered, fine deport them.
I do believe a wall of sort is necessary. No matter if immigation reform makes it super easy to legally come here, or if it remains very difficult to come here. We must have control. My analogy is that of a store - you can make the prices high (hard to get here legally) or make the prices low (easy to get here). Either way you have security and lock the doors at night, otherwise people will do what they want and there will be abuses.
It will also help stop the real criminals (coyotes) from helping people cross - in spite of how unsafe it is. Too many have died. This must stop.
Yes, people will try to subvert the wall (particularly if there is no reform to make it easy to get here), maybe with tunnels -whatever. But don't we lock the doors to our houses or cars even though they can break in through the window? There is no "perfect" security, be it border, house or car. But we must try to deter. Otherwise I see no need for immigration reform. With an open border just cross as you please.
Finally, I am appalled at those who marched with other countries flags (how arrogant & insulting) and banners or placards with some message about their rights or their intentions to reclaim this land for their own country.
As far as treating other people like you wish to be treated - it goes both ways. I have followed the rules and expect these people to also. Moreover, I have read portions of the Mexican Constitution - what these specific people are asking for here, I am denied in Mexico. Heck, I'm even denied free government benefits here in my own country!
BTW: When I was in these other countries I was expected to speak their language, and did my best to learn Spanish, French & German. They should speak English here (like I had to speak Spanish when visiting Mexico too).
EDIT: BTW, my wife is not a US citizen, but a legal immigrant (Green Card and she got it on her own, not do to our marriage etc). She is strongly opposed to the protest/rallies and the demands these people are making.
Fern