Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude?

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i got picked on by a bald guy at a sport bar. I had gone for an office get-together for a co-worker who was leaving..

somewhere along the line I must have been doing something (while enjoying myself).. and that got attention of those guys.

One guy asked me, while I said "excuse me", it took me a few second to realise what the guy said to me.
 

Jerboy

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<< I hope this was a joke because it is completely wrong. >>



Agreed. GAY isn't implication that you're attracted to any 'ol people of same gender. Are you straight guys attracted to EVERY girls? LOL!. An old gay guy old enough to be your dad hitting on you is like a woman old enough to be your mom hitting on you.


Some guy in his 50's have hit on me at a club before. He started rubbing into me and asked me if I wanted to go to his place for fun after clubbing and that he'll buy me a dinner. I ansewered his question with a question by saying "why do you feel I automatically want to fool around with you?" "I'm not into old ugly guys" and he walked away looking really hurt and pissed. Well thats what you'll get for coming onto me like that. I understand people want to have fun and If he hit on me in a proper manner by saying something nice, having a conversation, then see if I was interested I would have politely said no.

If anyone start on me be it a girl or a boy and asks if I want to go home with them for a quick fun, I'll say not so nice things. Its VERY RUDE to hit on people this way.


And speaking of older guys, I cybered online before and later found out that this guy who I thought was 20y/o was really a 45y/o jacking off to conversation with me. He confessed when I got suspicious and asked bunch of questions. For some reason alot of them likes late teens like me.
 

Doggiedog

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I was visiting a girlfriend in Paris 6 years ago and she took me to one of the best clubs in Paris but it was a gay club. It was called "Le Queen". She told me not to worry about getting hit on and the funny thing was, no one hit on me but soooo many guys hit on her. She was complaining to me "why are they hitting on me, they're supposed to be gay?"

There was some weird sh!t going on in there. Midget muscle guys in SM outfits doing Egyptian dances and stuff. The music was cool though.
 

swayinOtis

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one friday night me and my girlfriend went bowling with some friends of ours. we got into an argument so i decided to leave. i walked back to her house about 5 miles away. it was about 12:30 am. while walking down the street some dude pulls up in a truck and asks me for a lift. he was about 50 (i was 23). i thought it was safe so i jumped in. he was retired military. we get about 1/2 mile down the road before he asks me if i have a big dick and if i like guys. time to bail. i politely told him that wasn't my thing and to let me out. he said no problem, pulled over, and let me out.

other than that i've never had another guy friend or otherwise hit on me.

 

NikPreviousAcct

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Aug 15, 2000
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<< Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude? >>

Try sexually assaulted, and, yes.

:| lovely human bastard. :|

To this day, I make it a point to avoid my uncle.

Nik
 

swayinOtis

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lol, i just remembered a funny incident involving gays.

there used to be this cheesy porn shop close to work. i stopped in there a couple of times. they had a cool magazine rack with reduced mags for sale. one day i notice this little door way that people were going in and out of. i asked the girl behind the counter what that was and she told me it was the video arcade. she said just buy some tokens and you can watch videos in a private booth. she asked me if i wanted to check it out? sure. it was $3 for tokens. lol (i'm cracking up just thinking about it)

i go through the door and into this ultra, pitch, totally dark hallway. i couldn't see squat. it led into another hallway that was just as dark except there was a neon beer sign in there that helped a little. i couldn't make out anything. it was just walls, no video booths or anything. then i see a video game. some dude is playing donky kong of something. i go around a corner looking for something, anything that looks vagely familiar. nothing. it waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too dark in there. then i hear "hey buddy. come on in!" i couldn't even see anything. i just heard voices. just as i turned around to leave the guy playing donkey kong was standing right behind me, real creepy.

i bailed out of there i a flash. i went back to the dumb broad at the counter and told her i wanted my money back. she starts laughing. turns out it was a gay glory hole room. they sit in there waiting for guys to come in and sit in one of the booths. the booths have holes in them so guys can slip their noodles through the holes in the wall. i'm just glad i got out of there without ever having to drop my pants. lol

 

NFS4

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<<

<< Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude? >>

Try sexually assaulted, and, yes.

:| lovely human bastard. :|

To this day, I make it a point to avoid my uncle.

Nik
>>



WTF???:Q:Q
 

Nefrodite

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<< I really couldn't believe how bold this guy was. I am always shocked at how assertive homosexuals can be when they want something. >>



same way with this guy , constant proposition day after day, it was gross.


you know when it reaches an absurd level generally the guys just f*cking with you because its funny.. or he's a prick. probably not serious about it about it.
 

littlelilith

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The thing that surprises me the most is how a lot of you get all mad over other guys (who happen to be gay) treating you much the same way that guys treat women all the time.

So they hit on you, big deal... take it as a compliment and move on. If every woman kicked a guy in the nuts everytime she got an unwanted proposition or some guy made an untoward move, there'd be an epidemic of damaged testicles... lol

Oh, and that thing about guys saying they could bring you over to the other side doesn't surprise me either.. at one point, there was a rumor going around about me that I was a lesbian (which I'm not), and you would not believe the propositions and pushiness I got from guys, despite me saying that a) I was quite straight and b) I wasn't interested. :|
 

DAWeinG

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<< lol, i just remembered a funny incident involving gays.

there used to be this cheesy porn shop close to work. i stopped in there a couple of times. they had a cool magazine rack with reduced mags for sale. one day i notice this little door way that people were going in and out of. i asked the girl behind the counter what that was and she told me it was the video arcade. she said just buy some tokens and you can watch videos in a private booth. she asked me if i wanted to check it out? sure. it was $3 for tokens. lol (i'm cracking up just thinking about it)

i go through the door and into this ultra, pitch, totally dark hallway. i couldn't see squat. it led into another hallway that was just as dark except there was a neon beer sign in there that helped a little. i couldn't make out anything. it was just walls, no video booths or anything. then i see a video game. some dude is playing donky kong of something. i go around a corner looking for something, anything that looks vagely familiar. nothing. it waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too dark in there. then i hear "hey buddy. come on in!" i couldn't even see anything. i just heard voices. just as i turned around to leave the guy playing donkey kong was standing right behind me, real creepy.

i bailed out of there i a flash. i went back to the dumb broad at the counter and told her i wanted my money back. she starts laughing. turns out it was a gay glory hole room. they sit in there waiting for guys to come in and sit in one of the booths. the booths have holes in them so guys can slip their noodles through the holes in the wall. i'm just glad i got out of there without ever having to drop my pants. lol
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YUCK!! :disgust:
 

RoninRXN

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Dude that cuts my hair is pretty gay...but doesn't hit on me. Maybe I should introduce him to tecumseh.
 

OS

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<< << Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude? >>

Try sexually assaulted, and, yes.

lovely human bastard.

To this day, I make it a point to avoid my uncle.

Nik
>>




Holy sh*t!! Man, no wonder you are perpetually pissed off. Have you ever had counseling for that? F*ck, that puts all my pissy little problems into perspective.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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<< Holy sh*t!! Man, no wonder you are perpetually pissed off. Have you ever had counseling for that? F*ck, that puts all my pissy little problems into perspective. >>

That isn't the reason I lose my temper. That's because of lack of self control. I am not open to counseling right now. And it wasn't like getting raped or anything. Sexual assault is more than just rape -and, thank god, this is one of those cases.
 

Red Dawn

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FMM, why share it with us? Do you consider us your closest 80,000 friends?

If that's true then I better start learning to give as sh!t.. a pretending like I do.

BTW, if I ever start to give out such personal info please.. shoot me!
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Such biting words, Red. Well, as I hear, you are an old man; I probably won't have to deal with it for long.

The guy asked the question, I answered it. And, yes, my best friends do post here. I have some very, very good friends here.

Nik
 

gogeeta13

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<< eewww... so many incidents!!!

I'm glad I never had any guy hit on me. but this thread is getting me a little weary...
if some guy ever tried to hit on me... I'm kicking him in the balls.
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rofl, that is hilarious, OMG
 

Red Dawn

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Young or old, you still wouldn't catch me whining here about my uncle making a booty call on me. WTF, is it therapeutic for you to tell the whole world that your uncle wants to rock your world?
 

fatalbert

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this one guy made me strip in front of a large group of people.
























btw,
this was at the Rocky Horror Picture Show.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Actually, getting something out in the open does help people deal with the problem. Granted, this probably isn't the best place to vent something like that, but I'm not venting. It happened, I live with it. Like I said earlier, the question was asked, so I answered it. I'm sorry that you seem to have a soft spot for people like this and feel that you need to attack them. Maybe a guilty conscience? Hell, your name wouldn't happen to be Mark Krieck, would it?

If you got a problem with it, just leave it alone.

Nik
 

Red Dawn

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<< Hell, your name wouldn't happen to be Mark Krieck, would it? >>

Nah it's I'm amazed what idiots post here sometimes!
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Aug 15, 2000
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Smart guy, I'm not that dumb. He has since changed his name, legally. And even if some psycho wanted to find him, it's going to be a bitch. Even then, they wouldn't be able to find me via that name without some serious money -who's that dumb?

And, if you find me, what are you going to do about it!? Big fvckin deal.

Nik
 

Jerboy

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