Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude?

[tecumseh]

It happened to me a couple of times. One time (about 8 years ago) this guy came into my place of work and we started talking. We both played instruments, me guitar and he keyboards. He asks me if I wanna come over, so I say "why not." I should have know better. :| Once over his house we start to jam (No not that kind of jamming isgust and he starts getting bored. So we put our instruments down and watch a little TV. Well......

The lights dim and an X-rated film pops up. I'm sitting on the other side of the living room, and I still don't realize what he's trying to do. Then about 5 minutes later, he start's grabbing his man's area :Q and starts saying stuff like it's OK for guys to satisfy themselves, and so on... we'll I got my guitar and got the hell out of there. Cause I didn't wanna beat the crap out of this guy!!

Oh, he died from Aids 4 years ago!

So, has a guy here ever been hit on by a dude?

 

[Brutuskend]

Yeah, when I was in the service in SoCal in the 70's it happend to me all the time. YUCK

BTW: You have my Great Great grandfather's name! (Tecumseh)

 

[Psylence]

Not me handsome.

 

[Beau]

Yeah... I was working on the set of a California Eggs comercial when this guy came up to me and started asking me questions like "do you shave or pluck your balls" and "how often do you 'do your business'" and stuff like that... Later he asked my mother if I was seeing anyone and if I was bi or gay... blech!!!! Fvcking pervert!

 

[gregshin]

yeah all the time bro...i work in the apparel industry which has lots of gizzay dudes

 

[tecumseh]

"BTW: You have my Great Great grandfather's name! (Tecumseh)"

Nice! Is he native american?

 

[MikeO]

Yes, may he rest in peace.














j/k ...actual answer is: no.

 

[Fastball]

I have been hit on by guys several times, but recently I was in Blockbuster and this older guy (about 55) kept looking me over. As I was walking out to leave, he followed me to my car. I could sense that he was following me through the parking lot, but I acted as if I didn't see him and got in my car. As I was backing out, he came up to my window and tapped on it. I rolled down the window and he propositioned me to come back to his house. Playing dumb, I asked, "For what?" He said, "We can watch some movies and jack off together." I told him I didn't think so. Then, he said, "I'll pay you to pose for me." At that point, I rolled up the window and drove off before I lost my temper.

I really couldn't believe how bold this guy was. I am always shocked at how assertive homosexuals can be when they want something.

 

[dabuddha]

lol yeah i have a friend who has been alot. he was in a similar situation to what tecumseh described.

 

[GasX]

You ever hear of gadar? you guys must be in denial.

 

[Ameesh]

when i first came to college, a guy who just came out started on me everyday, at first it was flattering but after a couple of days it got old and then disgusting, he was into big brown hairy guys if you believe that. I had no porblems with gay people then but after the way he was im sad to say ive become kind of a homophob ( yes i know its not rational, i'll get over it in due time)

 

[Ameesh]

<< I really couldn't believe how bold this guy was. I am always shocked at how assertive homosexuals can be when they want something. >>



same way with this guy , constant proposition day after day, it was gross.

 

[Superwormy]

I was fishing at the local park one day, and across the river this dude was like following me up and down the river and watchign me. Eventually it became apparent he was wanking off across the bank and watching me. ICK!

Anyhoo, I went and told the park people and they callled the police, the guy made a full confession and got arrested and fined for indecent exposure

 

[cyclistca]

No but my friend has it happen to him all the time. He can't get a date with a girl but he has guys tring to pick him up everywhere.

 

[morkinva]

<< We both played instruments, me guitar and he keyboards. >>



Actually, he played the organ

I've been hit on, but it ends when I say I'm not interested. Thankfully, it stopped then and there and there was no nagging.

 

[Rent]

I've had guys wink and smile at me, but I always return a mad look.

 

[prodigy]

<< We both played instruments, me guitar and he keyboards >>



You sure it wasn't the skin flute?

 

[oLLie]

<< Any guy here ever been hit on by a dude? >>



Only once a long time ago. Stupid ah heck just kicked me in the gut for no reason at all. :|

What's that? Oh that kind of hitting on... well then no I haven't.

 

[TomC25]

I was at a club with my girlfriend (7 years ago) and was walking by myself because she was using the restroom. A guy walking in the opposite direction jumped in front of me and ran his hands down my sides. I was shocked and just said "hey, who are you". He said "mmmmmmmmmmm yum yum". I just walked away and went by the restrooms to wait for my girlfriend.

I had an uncle that was gay died of AIDS, and he was a great guy, so I can't look at gay people in a bad way.

 

[urameatball]

eewww... so many incidents!!!

I'm glad I never had any guy hit on me. but this thread is getting me a little weary...
if some guy ever tried to hit on me... I'm kicking him in the balls.

 

[amnesiac]

At my work there was this guy who hit on me constantly. A group of us was out drinking and he thought at one point that he'd be able to get me to go home with him. Hahahahahah.

I find it flattering when I get hit on but it doesn't really bother me at all.

Oh, there's a new gay guy at work (ok there are like 10 gay guys I work with) that hits on me constantly too. Funny stuff.

 

[nasa]

not personally, but i have second hand accounts. my friend said that he went to the dentist and the dentist's assitant asked him for his phone number, and he thought ok cuz he wanted to chill. come to find out a little later the guy proposed for him to go into the bathroom and he would perform felacio on him. well he denied, and the guy called him that day i think but he just told the guy to lay off and he did. also a few friends back in hs said where we would kick it at a park like this guy would come in his car and i guess he would offer them money to jerk him off, or he would usually give them money sometimes like 50 dollars and then ask for favors. they would deny, but he wouldnt mind. i would get offended if the guy was jerking off in front of me. but if they hit on me i would just say no thanks and leave it at that.

 

[Priit]

Nobody hasn't ever tried hit on me... guess I'm just too big and ugly...

 

[flavio]

I've been hit on tons of times by guys. But where I used to live the best dance clubs were predominately gay. My girlfriend and other friends liked to these clubs to dance, so I ended up going along a lot of the time. No big deal really, but it's a little uncomfortable.

One time a guy jumped right in front of me while I had my girlfriend at my side and said "You are SOOO HOT!" . I just said "uhhh...thanks" and moved on.

In a lot of ways it's no different then over-assertive guys that hit on girls that aren't interested.

 

[GasX]

To those of you flattered by the attention gay men give you. It's not because they think you are a butch, rugged and handsome man. It is because they think you are gay.

It's called gadar. They are picking up on your gay signals. You are in denial. You are gay. Admit it.