Obese people aren't necessarily just fat people who are lazy, refuse to work out,or choose to over indulge. I know plenty of people (even vegetarians) who are classified as obese or severely obese who slaves away long hours doing desk jobs and are swamped with work once they go home. Evolution has programmed us with an incredible desire for high calorie food due to a necessity for survival in a time when those most motivated to obtain calories have the highest survival rate. Unfortunately a few decades of technological advancement in Frankenstein mass food production has thrown a monkey wrench into our biological process.
I hope people don't get too full of themselves just because they have a six pack. Yes it's possible for everyone but it's an uphill struggle in this day and age. Temptations are everywhere and cheap and social and economical demands often encourages us to lose focus in certain areas. How many of use are fit, set on top 90% of the economic scale, and raise a mentally healthy family while maintaining a good marriage?
It's hard to hit 3 out of 3 in life especially when any one of those 3 areas requires so much from us. I am very healthy because I eat mostly right (back occasional potato chip weakness makes my 6 pack come and go) and I make a very nice salary because I bust my ass off at work so I can say I'm two for two. However, I stuck out completely in the family life and I was a failure of a husband. Even with no kids I couldn't keep all cylinders firing in life. If I had the burden of kids and keeping a marriage happy, I can only imagine how difficult it would be to maintain a gym schedule while allocating so much of my time at work.
So I guess at the end of my long rant, I just want to say please don't judge people too harshly because they let one or two aspects of life slip. Some people gain weight, some people are at the bottom 50% of the economy, and some people like me failed in family life. We are like a bunch of Salmon swimming upstream to survive amidst a gauntlet of Grizzly bears. If you are the few that made it up the water fall, don't laugh at the ones who get nabbed by the hungry Grizzlies down stream. I'd gladly give up my 6pack and fair salary if I can swim upstream and spawn a happy family
